What does it mean when a girl is playing hard to get

[Deleted member 19798]

Im texting with a girl atm and we did set up a date but all those texts before that by her where long responses and dry af. Does she not give a fuck about me or is that just female nature? Forum slays respond pls

 

[alriodai]

not attractive enough

 

[Deleted member 19294]

Im texting with a girl atm and we did set up a date but all those texts before that by her where long responses and dry af. Does she not give a fuck about me or is that just female nature? Forum slays respond pls

It means she's not interested. If she's not smiling and giggling whenever she sees you and blowing up your phone it's over for you

 

[Deleted member 1209]

It’s not too late for her to flake. Agreeing to a date doesn’t mean much

 

[Deleted member 19798]

It means she's not interested. If she's not smiling and giggling whenever she sees you and blowing up your phone it's over for you

I knew it should I cancel the date I kinda dont wanna go knowing this

 

[dreamcake1mo]

I knew it should I cancel the date I kinda dont wanna go knowing this

Yea, just cancel it. Going on dates in 2022 is kind of cringe knowing she's already a bag of beans. Dates to me are kind of pedestal, especially if the event is officially referred to as a "Date". Your better of inviting her to what your already doing and planning on doing.

But she's not interested if she's legit playing hard to get tbh. Especially if your not in a social circle where u can game overtime without having to spend funds and do pedestal activities like going on "dates" with non virgin women. It would only really be worth it if she was with other women and it was a social group where u could use your charm with other females to eventually soften her up. But a 1 shot date with her will likely lead to her just draining u of resources if she's already flaky.

But do u. A lot will call me out on telling u to not go on a date since many here probably really never went on dates. But from experience, it seems to be a complete waste of time and money. U could switch it up to a low cost event to test out theory's. But i would not expect much from her

 

[Deleted member]

I knew it should I cancel the date I kinda dont wanna go knowing this

it’s unfortunate brother, but I’ve experienced this way too much as well, nothing you can do about it but let it go and stop thinking about it. Must’ve felt good her saying yes to the date then flaking making u feel like a dickhead, I’ve lost all desire to go for girls now. I’d rather be alone since I trust myself the most

 

[Deleted member 19798]

it’s unfortunate brother, but I’ve experienced this way too much as well, nothing you can do about it but let it go and stop thinking about it. Must’ve felt good her saying yes to the date then flaking making u feel like a dickhead, I’ve lost all desire to go for girls now. I’d rather be alone since I trust myself the most

She didnt flake but her literal response to me asking her out was "sure", making me feel like shes doing me a favor or something. Idk if i will flake yet ill think about it more later ig.

 

[Deleted member]

She didnt flake but her literal response to me asking her out was "sure", making me feel like shes doing me a favor or something. Idk if i will flake yet ill think about it more later ig.

yea ngl it’s not a good sign but see how it goes, if u do end up meeting let us know

 

[Deleted member 19798]

Especially if your not in a social circle where u can game overtime without having to spend funds and do pedestal activities like going on "dates" with non virgin women

Shes a virgin JB btw. Im 17 so like the problem isnt her draining my money (parents money jfl) its the fact shes not showing that she cares to go

yea ngl it’s not a good sign but see how it goes, if u do end up meeting let us know

I probably will i want to gain experience doing stuff like this and if she is truly not interested like she pulls out her phone out and not talk to me type of shit then ill just move on

 

[Deleted member]

Shes a virgin JB btw. Im 17 so like the problem isnt her draining my money (parents money jfl) its the fact shes not showing that she cares to go

I probably will i want to gain experience doing stuff like this and if she is truly not interested like she pulls out her phone out and not talk to me type of shit then ill just move on

good shit, yea I reckon you got tbh

let’s hope she shows up. Hope you’ll be able to handle it properly from there

and yea it’s good to gain experience early on cuz trust me ur gonna go thru a lot of terrible experiences before you learn how the game is played

 

[Stopping@Nothing19]

if she isn't putting in much effort sorry to tell you but she's probably talking with other guys that she's more attracted to and she's stringing you along as the backup while she focuses on the other guys

 

[Deleted member 1140]

this is the worst forum to ask this shit on.

could be many reasons. she mightve lost interest or shes just „embarrassed“ or shocked that u asked her out because shes also interested in you

or she is manipulating you, my current gf did this too. i wouldve never thought she was into me but i saw the texts she sent her friends years later. playing hard to get has many reasons