what the fuck do I do about my dad's gambling habit

[Deleted member 15064]

it is fucking painful to look at him he keeps asking my mom for money and then blows it all on roulette and claims he is "skilled" and was about to make xyz amount instead ends up losing it in the end every time no matter whatever the amount goes to. He is delusional thinking he is going to clear his huge debt by gambling and wasting insanee amounts of money everyday it has become a habit

i tried banning all of his accounts but dude was fucking raging like never before

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

you have to bully him to a submissive dog. do you sizemog him?

 

[Deleted member 15064]

you have to bully him to a submissive dog. do you sizemog him?

no he heightmogs me by 2 cm

 

[St. Wristcel]

Confront him

 

[Deleted member 15064]

you have to bully him to a submissive dog. do you sizemog him?

It's easy to jerk him around though but one time he was pissed off after losing money and started blaming aand brought up some overblown irrelevant crap and started screaming and threatened to jump off it was fucking terrifying

 

[Deleted member 4430]

he just wants to get you money for surgeries.

you should be proud of him

 

[Deleted member 15064]

Confront him

it's hard to talk to him without feeling like a retard, he asked me if I have asperger's and keeps calling me stupid and stares at me while I walk making me klutzy he's part of the reason I am so self conscious

 

[Be_ConfidentBro]

he just wants to get you money for surgeries.

you should be proud of him

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

it's hard to talk to him without feeling like a retard, he asked me if I have asperger's and keeps calling me stupid and stares at me while I walk making me klutzy he's part of the reason I am so self conscious

my dad use to do that but now i attack him whenever i see him. some people cant accept the fact that their prime is over and they are a father now. being a father is death to your youth. you have to devote the rest of your life to provide for your kid and that reality is too brutal for some people

 

[Deleted member 15064]

my dad use to do that but now i attack him whenever i see him. some people cant accept the fact that their prime is over and they are a father now. being a father is death to your youth. you have to devote the rest of your life to provide for your kid and that reality is too brutal for some people

worst part is he is like 52 and he still mogs me

 

[Deleted member 15064]

my dad use to do that but now i attack him whenever i see him. some people cant accept the fact that their prime is over and they are a father now. being a father is death to your youth. you have to devote the rest of your life to provide for your kid and that reality is too brutal for some people

phenomogs me brutally, prototypical chad skull, taller than me

my self esteem takes a hit everytime I talk to him, he looks at me like im retarded. at one point he said I had the intelligence of somewhere between a law student and a commerce student and two notches below an engineering student
fuck me

 

[Deleted member 4430]

my dad use to do that but now i attack him whenever i see him. some people cant accept the fact that their prime is over and they are a father now. being a father is death to your youth. you have to devote the rest of your life to provide for your kid and that reality is too brutal for some people

The most brutal thing is that some of these people think you should thank them when they didnt gave you anything and have no more interest in you. And when they are in their 50 they think they're still the most important shit in the world and have a future.

It's literally heartbreaking that some parents - the people who should be closest to you in your life - are actually selfish, in some cases even worse people who have children just because society is built that way and they expect that when they are 70 -80 you take care of them and they dont die alone - which they automatically expect from you without anything they would do just because they gave you life.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

it is fucking painful to look at him he keeps asking my mom for money and then blows it all on roulette and claims he is "skilled" and was about to make xyz amount instead ends up losing it in the end every time no matter whatever the amount goes to. He is delusional thinking he is going to clear his huge debt by gambling and wasting insanee amounts of money everyday it has become a habit

i tried banning all of his accounts but dude was fucking raging like never before

Start a pool with other family members. Place your bets on whether he'll quit, get worst, win big, lose everything, start wagering the children, etc.

 

[Deleted member 15064]

my dad use to do that but now i attack him whenever i see him. some people cant accept the fact that their prime is over and they are a father now. being a father is death to your youth. you have to devote the rest of your life to provide for your kid and that reality is too brutal for some people

he got upgraded on an airline to business class for practically no reason, he keeps entering vip parliament buildings because he is good looking, security guards say "good morning sir", an air hotess was flirting with him once
i once went on a parent teacher conference when I was 15 and my friend was like "is that ur dad lmfaoooo he looks so good why do you look so shit?" at my cousin's wedding a distant relative foid was staring at me like I'm some specimen saying bewildered "IS THAT REALLY YOUR SON WOWWWW" I was depressed throughout the wedding and everyone pointed at me asking "what is wrong with that kid?" I went to the bathroom to hide and kept staring at myself in the mirror wondering what was wrong with me

 

[Deleted member 15064]

Start a pool with other family members. Place your bets on whether he'll quit, get worst, win big, lose everything, start wagering the children, etc.

his family hates him he borrowed money from my grandfather half of his lifetime savings and blew them all up

 

[Deleted member 15064]

The most brutal thing is that some of these people think you should thank them when they didnt gave you anything and have no more interest in you. And when they are in their 50 they think they're still the most important shit in the world and have a future.

It's literally heartbreaking that some parents - the people who should be closest to you in your life - are actually selfish, in some cases even worse people who have children just because society is built that way and they expect that when they are 70 -80 you take care of them and they dont die alone - which they automatically expect from you without anything they would do just because they gave you life.

apparently once when he was in college a girl threatened to kill herself if he didn't be with her. insane shit it is brutally over for me freak of genetic recombination

 

[Baldingman1998]

he got upgraded on an airline to business class for practically no reason, he keeps entering vip parliament buildings because he is good looking, security guards say "good morning sir", an air hotess was flirting with him once
i once went on a parent teacher conference when I was 15 and my friend was like "is that ur dad lmfaoooo he looks so good why do you look so shit?" at my cousin's wedding a distant relative foid was staring at me like I'm some specimen saying bewildered "IS THAT REALLY YOUR SON WOWWWW" I was depressed throughout the wedding and everyone pointed at me asking "what is wrong with that kid?" I went to the bathroom to hide and kept staring at myself in the mirror wondering what was wrong with me

Fucking BRUUUTAAAAAAL. My dad MOGS me in everything (I actually mean everything, highet, frame, dick(probably), voice, t, iq , has hair while I'm bald, hand and wrist size, andkle foot etc etc .) I slightly mog in face only

 

[.👽.]

get professional help bro or tell your mother to get it you cant fix gambling problem so fast its a serious addiction

 

[Deleted member 15064]

get professional help bro or tell your mother to get it you cant fix gambling problem so fast its a serious addiction

he says he doesnt have an addiction he is doing out of need (fix debt) and my mom is extreme pushover and keeps him money and he thinks psychiatry is jewish crackpot it is virtually impossible to get him professional help

 

[Deleted member 15064]

Fucking BRUUUTAAAAAAL. My dad MOGS me in everything (I actually mean everything, highet, frame, dick(probably), voice, t, iq , has hair while I'm bald, hand and wrist size, andkle foot etc etc .) I slightly mog in face only

damn bro. it is worse than being ugly while having ugly parents. knowing you had the genes but recombination decided to screw you over, fucking shit I wasted all my teen years feeling like crap about myself hiding in a shell

 

[Deleted member 15064]

Fucking BRUUUTAAAAAAL. My dad MOGS me in everything (I actually mean everything, highet, frame, dick(probably), voice, t, iq , has hair while I'm bald, hand and wrist size, andkle foot etc etc .) I slightly mog in face only

i was tallish for my age 12-13 and only one inch shorter than him age 14-17 I was sure I would atleast be taller than him but I stopped growing at 2 cm shorter it is the ultimate humiliation

 

[Baldingman1998]

i was tallish for my age 12-13 and only one inch shorter than him age 14-17 I was sure I would atleast be taller than him but I stopped growing at 2 cm shorter it is the ultimate humiliation

I cucked myself I was obese half my puberty which cucked my development because high e. Also high carb= low hgh. I didn't know any better sadly

 

[Deleted member 15064]

I cucked myself I was obese half my puberty which cucked my development because high e. Also high carb= low hgh. I didn't know any better sadly

it is really good to know there are fixes to a lot of the failos, would be great to know about GH and bone development at earlier age when the course could be altered. only surgery now

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

get professional help bro or tell your mother to get it you cant fix gambling problem so fast its a serious addiction

Touche. Well-spoken. Gambling urges are a serious ordeal. Chasing the loss. Arrogance. "No one fucks me!" And so the gambler will continue to lose, and he'll proceed chasing that loss - trying to make up for everything he had wasted- and in the end, he'll lose everyone.

 

[St. Wristcel]

it's hard to talk to him without feeling like a retard, he asked me if I have asperger's and keeps calling me stupid and stares at me while I walk making me klutzy he's part of the reason I am so self conscious

Damn sorry to hear that
but in my honest opinion when talking to men the best way for you to make them stop a habit and respect you is direct confrontation
tell your dad he’s acting like a child and not a man, wasting away his wives money on stupid stuff

 

[Deleted member 15064]

Damn sorry to hear that
but in my honest opinion when talking to men the best way for you to make them stop a habit and respect you is direct confrontation
tell your dad he’s acting like a child and not a man, wasting away his wives money on stupid stuff

yeah that did toughen me up and I do confront him now I know just how to appeal to him, I am going to now nuke all his accounts/fix his habit. manipulation works better than confrontation TBH

 

[studiocel]

Tell him to play russian roullette