Why do girls love abusers so much? (Highiqcels tap in)

[workingondying]

Broooootal every girl I’ve talked to has had a story of an abusive ex and they always stay together for at least a year but yk damn well if it was a normal nice guy they would’ve broke up in 1-3 months I genuinely don’t even feel bad when I hear these abuse stories anymore why are foids like this

 

[irishltn]

They don’t love abusers it just happens the abuser was htn or above usually

 

[copamine]

They just like riding the emotional roller coaster
All girls are the same

 

[vratisevojvodo]

dumb question tbh

 

[lemonnz]

They don’t love abusers it just happens the abuser was htn or above usually

No, it’s just that whenever those relationships last it’s because he’s htn+, it’s survivorship bias

 

[copamine]

No, it’s just that whenever those relationships last it’s because he’s htn+, it’s survivorship bias

Not everything has to be blackpill bro plenty of NT couples this happens to it’s in the women’s biological coding to be emotional

 

[panjeet currycel]

They enjoy the abuse so they can whine on Facebook how they're so abused and get attention. They also get turned on by agressive men, it's natural instinct because it signals the guy would be able to protect their offspring

 

[psychomandible]

Beacuse it adds emotion women don't want a stable relationship

 

[irkkedmulatto]

I genuinely never understood that tbh, muh they like abuse only if the guy is htn+ even that is not true , I saw some couples with Ltn males that liked to get abused never understood that shit

 

[workingondying]

@dreamcake1mo I remember u being based af do u have any insights on this

 

[Sprinkles]

they are naturally masochistic,

all of them have a subconscious desire to be raped and abused and being objectified

read all the crap that turns them on, how their favorite type of porn after lesbian is like rape/violent/abusive., etc

obviously they are NPCs so they aren’t aware of this but you can clearly see this when you watch their behavior

 

[copamine]

they are naturally masochistic,

all of them have a subconscious desire to be raped and abused and being objectified

read all the crap that turns them on, how their favorite type of porn after lesbian is like rape/violent/abusive., etc

obviously they are NPCs so they aren’t aware of this but you can clearly see this when you watch their behavior

Blame joo Hollywood and porn industries for this

 

[dreamcake1mo]

@dreamcake1mo I remember u being based af do u have any insights on this

Abuse gives dopamine.

Women are "emotional creatures", and emotions are basically the cursor of dopamine.

What i mean is that, Its scientifically observed that women psychology favors socio-emotional processes, while men favor logical and rational processes more. This is where the whole women are more emotional then men come from. This is also why women excel financially in todays climate, especially when it comes to internet, as its basically a huge upgrade in social processes, as well as being littered with endless monetization factors and even education systems that ensure those who favor social prepositions succeed.

In short, abusers engage and stimulate her emotional processes with their erratic behavior more than "good guys". Good guys are too boring (lack emotional-socio appeal) and often fail to properly engage her "emotional-dopergermic processes. They also can be considered weak to the women, as a man, lacking favor with emotional-socio processes leads to you compensating/reacting to where you try to "satisfy" her emotional processes as a rational and logical one.

For example, lets say a women is nagging you, a simp would think there's something wrong, and try to "satisfy" her. While the whole time, her behavior could have been entirely motivated by emotions and dopamine. The abusive man reacts and operates in a highly emotional matrix where the compensation is instead given in the form of a emotional behavior, deviant conversation etc. all which are precursors to dopamine and keep you engaged. The balance is to package this "abuse" or emotional matrix en resembalance to the natural sexual attraction points of women, which favor savage behavior since savage behavior implies that you will succeed in a savage world like this.

Remember, they call their exs, "abusive".

Do not mistake this for a actual abuser whos in jail for his crime against her. Why? Because the situation plays out exactly as i described above. The difference between abusive and abuse is that a abusive person utilizes abuse as a tool or response template for interactions to invoke dopamine and keep the relationship engaging, while the other is unpleasant all around. Also why women cant get away from their exs. What else does humans have trouble getting away with? Drugs.

Anyways, dopamine is important. Reason is because things that keep us interested give us dopamine.
This is also why women historically share fetishes that explicitly are anti-norm. Rape, abusive ex, (interracial fetish in a upbringing where that's not normal). All publicity is good publicity saying applies to dopamine as well. People wont admit this, though. Women at large i do not think understand their preferences either. Its quite clear like a guy said above when you really look at behavior

 

[Sprinkles]

Blame joo Hollywood and porn industries for this

they were always like that, I think there’s some kind of evolutionary explanation for it because women would be raped and taken and sold and shit by invaders

this is why they have no group loyalty such as the French foids who formed relations with the Germans occupying in WWII

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

because they project their dad's spanking their giggly round butts when they where little onto their abusive bf and get freudian sexual stimulus


also foids tend to go after guys that are more aggressive and domineering - higher T - because they seem more capable of both conquering things and protecting her if shes in danger

there was a guy that did a thread about this linking foid's attraction to more aggressive men to hybistrophilia, in which he argues its just a more extreme form of a sexual preference that is the norm amongst females based on evolution:

Hybristophilia - You aren't ugly, you just aren't a psychopath - A long explanation on the female attraction to violence

The following text was taken from the website “Shedding of the Ego” by Mr. K and reviewed by Savage, it's been adapted by John Cracovizk (literally me) for an easier (and less MGTOW) read to my LooksMax.org fellas. The link to the original text is available in the end of the thread, good read...

looksmax.org

 

[Sprinkles]

Abuse gives dopamine.

Women are "emotional creatures", and emotions are basically the cursor of dopamine.

What i mean is that, Its scientifically observed that women psychology favors socio-emotional processes, while men favor logical and rational processes more. This is where the whole women are more emotional then men come from. This is also why women excel financially in todays climate, especially when it comes to internet, as its basically a huge upgrade in social processes, as well as being littered with endless monetization factors and even education systems that ensure those who favor social prepositions succeed.

In short, abusers engage and stimulate her emotional processes with their erratic behavior more than "good guys". Good guys are too boring (lack emotional-socio appeal) and often fail to properly engage her "emotional-dopergermic processes. They also can be considered weak to the women, as a man often lacking favor with emotional-socio processes leads to men compensating/reacting in their preposition, to where they try to "satisfy" her emotional processes as a rational and logical one. For example, lets say a women is nagging you, a simp would think there's something wrong, and try to "satisfy" her. While the whole time, her behavior could have been entirely motivated by emotions and dopamine. The abusive man reacts and operates in a highly emotional matrix where the compensation is instead given in the form of a emotional behavior, deviant conversation etc. all which are precursors to dopamine and keep you engaged.

Remember, they call their exs, "abusive".

Do not mistake this for a actual abuser whos in jail for his crime against her. Why? Because the situation plays out exactly as i described above. The difference between abusive and abuse is that a abusive person utilizes abuse as a tool or response template for interactions while the other is unpleasant all around.

Anyways, dopamine is important. Reason is because things that keep us interested give us dopamine.
This is also why women historically share fetishes that explicitly are anti-norm. Rape, abusive ex, (interracial fetish in a upbringing where that's not normal). All publicity is good publicity saying applies to dopamine as well. People wont admit this, though. Women at large i do not think understand their preferences either. Its quite clear like a guy said above when you really look at behavior

the shit tests such as the negging are done because they simply dont like weakness in men. this why redpilled are all like never cry or be vulnerable with your girl, etc. they want to be dominated and put in their place. this is female sexuality.

their attraction to killers, murderers is simply their attraction to strong ruthless men who can get shit done and aren’t held back by morality, remorse, etc

these guys would’ve been warlords, conquerers, etc

 

[fluoride1337]

The bottom line is that women would rather be with an abusive chad than a kind and caring sub 5

 

[aber]

Broooootal every girl I’ve talked to has had a story of an abusive ex and they always stay together for at least a year but yk damn well if it was a normal nice guy they would’ve broke up in 1-3 months I genuinely don’t even feel bad when I hear these abuse stories anymore why are foids like this

Normal nice HTN+ > Abusive HTN+

attractive guys can get away with much more in a relationship, so they do in cases of abuse. The nice guys who truly want a LTR become a rarity.

 

[Latinolooksmaxxer]

Normal nice HTN+ > Abusive HTN+

attractive guys can get away with much more in a relationship, so they do in cases of abuse. The nice guys who truly want a LTR become a rarity.

usually abusers are more domineering = higher t = more mogger = more attractive to a lot of foids

even if theyre same psl/smv, specially for young foids that are a bit clueless

after they get ptsd from violent bfs they often become more criterious though, thats why its common to hear that 1st bf was abusive

 

[1966Ford]

they are naturally masochistic,

all of them have a subconscious desire to be raped and abused and being objectified

read all the crap that turns them on, how their favorite type of porn after lesbian is like rape/violent/abusive., etc

obviously they are NPCs so they aren’t aware of this but you can clearly see this when you watch their behavior

I've noticed that on those Booktok Foids in Tiktok, hybristophilia seems to appeals in every foids aesthetics.

"One would be more justified in calling them the unaesthetic sex than the beautiful. Neither for music, nor for poetry, nor for fine art have they any real or true sense and susceptibility, and it is mere mockery on their part, in their desire to please, if they affect any such thing." - On Women by Schopenhauer.

 

[Alt Number 3]

No, it’s just that whenever those relationships last it’s because he’s htn+, it’s survivorship bias

 

[1966Ford]

they were always like that, I think there’s some kind of evolutionary explanation for it because women would be raped and taken and sold and shit by invaders

this is why they have no group loyalty such as the French foids who formed relations with the Germans occupying in WWII

 

[panjeet currycel]

Blame joo Hollywood and porn industries for this

No it's natural instinct. Hollywood only fuels it and makes the behavior socially acceptable

 

[Never Get Up]

If she’s with the guy, then she already finds him attractive and able to take care of her offspring.

Abuser = high T = options to fuck other girls

Women love men that get other women