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We've only been married for 6months and our sex life has almost become non- existent. It was so hot and spicy in the beginning. I know he loves me but I want more affection, more physical touch...more SEX!
He never initiates but once I do he calls me a "sexphene" and we're literally only having sex 2 or 3 times per month now. Why do I have to wait until he obliges??
(Which is mostly amazing when he does...besides the times when he goes soft mid-way)
He finds all the energy to play video games after work and all day on weekends. He goes to bed super early because he has to get up at 5am for PT (he's in the military) He doesn't like to cuddle very much and I feel like something is wrong with me or he's just not attracted to me anymore.
He says his sex drive isn't as high as mine and he doesn't always think about sex and that his blood pressure medz may be interfering with his libido. Idk what to do because I love him and I don't wanna cheat.
He won't even let me have a gf since he can't satisfy me....sigh. I send him sexy pics while he's at work, I put notes in his lunch box everyday (sometimes sexual), I wear lil sexy outfits around the house, incorporate toys etc but nothing seems to be working.
He once told me to go use my dildo and leave him alone so he can play his dumb video game. I'm so over this because I have to keep flicking the bead and erasing my right middle fingerprint. Sometimes he's right next to me sleeping or reading a book and I get one in. If he's awake he'll probably laugh about it but doesn't make an effort to initiate sex. I do this almost everyday of late.
I've become a horny neglected wife.
He never initiates but once I do he calls me a "sexphene" and we're literally only having sex 2 or 3 times per month now. Why do I have to wait until he obliges??
(Which is mostly amazing when he does...besides the times when he goes soft mid-way)
He finds all the energy to play video games after work and all day on weekends. He goes to bed super early because he has to get up at 5am for PT (he's in the military) He doesn't like to cuddle very much and I feel like something is wrong with me or he's just not attracted to me anymore.
He says his sex drive isn't as high as mine and he doesn't always think about sex and that his blood pressure medz may be interfering with his libido. Idk what to do because I love him and I don't wanna cheat.
He won't even let me have a gf since he can't satisfy me....sigh. I send him sexy pics while he's at work, I put notes in his lunch box everyday (sometimes sexual), I wear lil sexy outfits around the house, incorporate toys etc but nothing seems to be working.
He once told me to go use my dildo and leave him alone so he can play his dumb video game. I'm so over this because I have to keep flicking the bead and erasing my right middle fingerprint. Sometimes he's right next to me sleeping or reading a book and I get one in. If he's awake he'll probably laugh about it but doesn't make an effort to initiate sex. I do this almost everyday of late.
I've become a horny neglected wife.
