Why would a girl do this

[chadcel;]

We are texting and she takes like a day to reply each time, she replies with actual thought answers but why tf is she doing this.

I think she wants me to chase her more or something but it's just retarded nobody is that busy to be able to send a text like once a day you know. So since no one is that busy I think she's doing on purpose or something but it's just dumb.

Anyway... thoughts?

 

[thenewhebbe]

Tinder or irl

 

[Pendejo]

You are thinking like an insecure teen girl or a tate fanboy (both equally mentally immature), people sometimes want to have their own space and not feel compelled to text someone when they don’t feel like doing so, also you overestimate how much free time someone with a job and/or a social life actually has, but yeah if she is actually giving you thoughtful replies and shows interest towards you I wouldn’t worry about it.

 

[chadcel;]

Tinder or irl

irl

You are thinking like an insecure teen girl or a tate fanboy (both equally mentally immature), people sometimes want to have their own space and not feel compelled to text someone when they don’t feel like doing so, also you overestimate how much free time someone with a job and/or a social life actually has, but yeah if she is actually giving you thoughtful replies and shows interest towards you I wouldn’t worry about it.

I mean maybe but I doubt she is that busy because I know her like she would have seen it and been on her phone since then, this is the same girl I was asking about someone I haven't talked to in a while when you told me to tell her about doing a trans surgery or something kek.

Like yeah we're having a conversation but if she's gonna take so long to reply idk man it's just weird I don't want to be some loser who is gonna keep texting her when she takes a day to reply back every time (I think she's doing it on purpose if I thought she was actually busy then that's fine ofc)

 

[try2beme]

Shes texting other guys
Girls especially are in their phones constantly

 

[Deleted member 20370]

drop her OP, you aren't important to her

 

[Pendejo]

Like yeah we're having a conversation but if she's gonna take so long to reply idk man it's just weird I don't want to be some loser who is gonna keep texting her when she takes a day to reply back every time (I think she's doing it on purpose if I thought she was actually busy then that's fine ofc)

Listen dude if you are convinced she actually likes you this shouldn’t affect you, just keep talking with her if you enjoy her company and see where things go, this doesn’t necessarily make you a loser, and you shouldn’t be prioritizing her either, now I am not telling you to “ignore” her back out of spite but just don’t text her if you don’t really feel like doing so or have better stuff to do, this girl might be far better than a clingy obsessive girl who always texts you but you have to constantly reassure and might cheat on you if you don’t give her enough attention out of insecurity, but I can’t know this for sure, only you can once you drop all your cringe redpill/blackpill biases and look at the situation from a completely objective perspective detaching yourself emotionally from it.

 

[chadcel;]

drop her OP, you aren't important to her

This is classic reddit advice lol but I think I will stop messaging her, I wanted to talk a bit and ask her to hangout but if she's doing this I don't want to ask her out

Listen dude if you are convinced she actually likes you this shouldn’t affect you, just keep talking with her if you enjoy her company and see where things go, this doesn’t necessarily make you a loser, and you shouldn’t be prioritizing her either, now I am not telling you to “ignore” her back out of spite but just don’t text her if you don’t really feel like doing so or have better stuff to do, this girl might be far better than a clingy obsessive girl who always texts you but you have to constantly reassure and might cheat on you if you don’t give her enough attention out of insecurity, but I can’t know this for sure, only you can once you drop all your cringe redpill/blackpill biases and look at the situation from a completely objective perspective detaching yourself emotionally from it.

I know it's not that bad but I'm pretty GL she should be excited to talk and hangout not trying to play some games with me.

Shes texting other guys
Girls especially are in their phones constantly

I doubt she is texting that many other guys or any tbh but yes that's why I think it's really weird that she's doing this because girls are constantly on their phones she is doing this on purpose.

Like for example the first time I sent her something at night and she replied in the morning which is not that bad I thought that's just normal but then I went to continue the conversation in the morning and again taking forever. She's done this before too but she was genuinely very into me so idk wtf she is even trying to achieve by doing this.

 

[Deleted member 41390]

she hates you