Women should approach men, rather men approaching women.

[CFW432]

It makes sense that women should approach men rather than they wait for men that they are interested in, approaching them. When you think about it, the way current mate courting happens makes absolutely no sense and it's also highly inefficient, and only serves to stroke a woman's ego. Women rate 80% of men to be "below average", or in realistic terms, simply not physically attractive enough to want to fuck based off looks alone. This means that the top 20% of men, or basically almost 1 out the every 5 men they come across on a daily basis, are the only men they consider physically attractive enough to want to fuck.

The reason why this is inefficient is because this requires first of all, the physically attractive man to show up, then 2nd of all to notice the girl in particular out of all the other girls around her, and third of all, him to get the courage to approach the girl in particular.

If women were to approach men became the norm instead of what we have now, 1 they would be able to sift through the other 4-8 men that they are not attracted to and get with the man that they are, and also significantly increase their chances of wanting to fuck the chads they are attracted to, as long as they are atleast average looking.

This would also significantly blackpill the masses of normies women aren't approaching, as they will be able to see firsthand which men, women are going for and see how they are lacking in comparison to them, which will destroy all bluepilled and redpilled delusional copes about being kind and curteous or approaching foids like some tryhard alpha wannabe faggot.

 

[AlexAP]

It makes sense that women should approach men rather than they wait for men that they are interested in, approaching them. When you think about it, the way current mate courting happens makes absolutely no sense and it's also highly inefficient, and only serves to stroke a woman's ego. Women rate 80% of men to be "below average", or in realistic terms, simply not physically attractive enough to want to fuck based off looks alone. This means that the top 20% of men, or basically almost 1 out the every 5 men they come across on a daily basis, are the only men they consider physically attractive enough to want to fuck.

The reason why this is inefficient is because this requires first of all, the physically attractive man to show up, then 2nd of all to notice the girl in particular out of all the other girls around her, and third of all, him to get the courage to approach the girl in particular.

If women were to approach men became the norm instead of what we have now, 1 they would be able to sift through the other 4-8 men that they are not attracted to and get with the man that they are, and also significantly increase their chances of wanting to fuck the chads they are attracted to, as long as they are atleast average looking.

This would also significantly blackpill the masses of normies women aren't approaching, as they will be able to see firsthand which men, women are going for and see how they are lacking in comparison to them, which will destroy all bluepilled and redpilled delusional copes about being kind and curteous or approaching foids like some tryhard alpha wannabe faggot.

It's like saying "McDonalds should visit people at home, it doesn't make sense that people have to go to McDonalds to eat there."

 

[Deleted member 275]

It's like saying "McDonalds should visit people at home, it doesn't make sense that people have to go to McDonalds to eat there."

This. Women are already being approached too much and simped for too much. Why would they ever approach guys in such an environment.

The only thing you could do is setup parties/social setting that have 3 times as many girls as guys. Only then will you find that girls arent getting the attention they are used to and would even consider the idea of approaching.

 

[CFW432]

It's like saying "McDonalds should visit people at home, it doesn't make sense that people have to go to McDonalds to eat there."

This isn't even a proper equivalent analogy. First of all women dont want all men to approach them unless its to validate their ego, they only want a subset of men (the top 20%) to actually have access to them. Your equivalent of mcdonalds to women does not make sense since mcdonalds is cheap fast food that almost everyone can afford, while your average joe can't even afford to get his looksmatch because shes hypergamous and punches above her and his' smv so that she can get chadlites and chads.

 

[CFW432]

This. Women are already being approached too much and simped for too much. Why would they ever approach guys in such an environment.

The only thing you could do is setup parties/social setting that have 3 times as many girls as guys. Only then will you find that girls arent getting the attention they are used to and would even consider the idea of approaching.

because lmao there is more than one girl in any given environment, and if their only a few chads versus many girls, not all girls will be able to lockdown chad, therefore it would be imperative for them to compete with each other for the few chads available.

 

[Solidcoin]

women DO approach

 

[CFW432]

women DO approach

Im talking about the current set dating culture, in general where its expected that men are suppose to approach women they are interested in. All this does, is set up the bottom 80% of males to either be rejected hard, or be used and abused for their resources by women who aren't even attracted to them, while they cheat on the side with chad.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

Thoughts on this high iq thread ? @moonblunt

 

[Looks234]

Women approach even medium ugly guys

 

[Mongrelcel]

in that situation majority of men would never get into a relationship

 

[CFW432]

in that situation majority of men would never get into a relationship

Most "majority relationships" between normies nowadays should not even be considered real relationships anyway. Its literally some average joe with some becky who is just waiting for the first opportunity to monkey branch to a better looking guy who gives her tingles. Literally nothing more than glorified prostitution.

 

[Deleted member 14667]

It makes sense that women should approach men rather than they wait for men that they are interested in, approaching them. When you think about it, the way current mate courting happens makes absolutely no sense and it's also highly inefficient, and only serves to stroke a woman's ego. Women rate 80% of men to be "below average", or in realistic terms, simply not physically attractive enough to want to fuck based off looks alone. This means that the top 20% of men, or basically almost 1 out the every 5 men they come across on a daily basis, are the only men they consider physically attractive enough to want to fuck.

The reason why this is inefficient is because this requires first of all, the physically attractive man to show up, then 2nd of all to notice the girl in particular out of all the other girls around her, and third of all, him to get the courage to approach the girl in particular.

If women were to approach men became the norm instead of what we have now, 1 they would be able to sift through the other 4-8 men that they are not attracted to and get with the man that they are, and also significantly increase their chances of wanting to fuck the chads they are attracted to, as long as they are atleast average looking.

This would also significantly blackpill the masses of normies women aren't approaching, as they will be able to see firsthand which men, women are going for and see how they are lacking in comparison to them, which will destroy all bluepilled and redpilled delusional copes about being kind and curteous or approaching foids like some tryhard alpha wannabe faggot.

yeah man i fully agree you make great points

 

[Amexmaxx]

Women should approach men because the chances of them being rejected is slim to none.

 

[rockndogs]

Jfl imagine approaching women

 

[CFW432]

Women should approach men because the chances of them being rejected is slim to none.

Very true, because even chads will be willing to fuck average looking beckies even if they wont give them commitment.

 

[coo233]

Girls do approach men but they do it by giving out hints and signals like ( making eye contact with you, standing or sitting very close to you, smiling at you etc)

Then its your job as a man to then approach her after she gives you these signals. You might not like it but that's just life

Men = hunters

 

[Lawton88]

Girls do approach men but they do it by giving out hints and signals like ( making eye contact with you, standing or sitting very close to you, smiling at you etc)

Then its your job as a man to then approach her after she gives you these signals. You might not like it but that's just life

Men = hunters

Many even do more than that in recent years if the guy is above them in looks. A looks match will usually not go too far however and just give signs like you said above she may be interested.

 

[BigNigga69]

Girls do approach men but they do it by giving out hints and signals like ( making eye contact with you, standing or sitting very close to you, smiling at you etc)

Then its your job as a man to then approach her after she gives you these signals. You might not like it but that's just life

Men = hunters

Wrong, faggot
Women are now easy whores. Maybe 50 years ago when they had worth, they were worth chasing and "rare" because they didn't want sex but men did. But now, just lay back and chill for a sec. These whores are thirsty enough to come crawling back immediately.

 

[Ronnie]

Im talking about the current set dating culture, in general where its expected that men are suppose to approach women they are interested in. All this does, is set up the bottom 80% of males to either be rejected hard, or be used and abused for their resources by women who aren't even attracted to them, while they cheat on the side with chad.

women do make the first move when it is a Chad. If anything should become a norm is sub 8 men thinking they have a chance

 

[Enfant terrible]

women DO approach

remember thats the guy who chooses to slay ugly hoes off dating apps because he is a social outcast without any friends and to high inhib to change that

 

[Deleted member 6531]

I'm pretty sure women approaching men doesn't work from a biological point of view.

Is it not the male of every species that has to approach and pursue the female?

 

[owlofathena]

I'm pretty sure women approaching men doesn't work from a biological point of view.

Is it not the male of every species that has to approach and pursue the female?

Yes in the animal kingdom they have to fight over the female i.e the alpha male gets to reproduce if he wins the fight

 

[CFW432]

Yes in the animal kingdom they have to fight over the female i.e the alpha male gets to reproduce if he wins the fight

Great so if i take a gun and go up to Haftor Bjornssons and blow his brains out all over the pavement, i get to fuck nordic stacies?

 

[owlofathena]

Great so if i take a gun and go up to Haftor Bjornssons and blow his brains out all over the pavement, i get to fuck nordic stacies?

I mean it used to work that way plus from biological stand point women are attracted to a man resources i.e money but for men it's not really a thing they just go by looks and personality

 

[owlofathena]

Great so if i take a gun and go up to Haftor Bjornssons and blow his brains out all over the pavement, i get to fuck nordic stacies?

The strongest in the animal kingdom usually has the most resources so the strongest of the pack or species

 

[owlofathena]

remember thats the guy who chooses to slay ugly hoes off dating apps because he is a social outcast without any friends and to high inhib to change that

@Amnesia women do approach

 

[Deleted member 6531]

Yes in the animal kingdom they have to fight over the female i.e the alpha male gets to reproduce if he wins the fight

Exactly, so his theory of women approaching first doesn't make sense.

 

[datboijj]

remember thats the guy who chooses to slay ugly hoes off dating apps because he is a social outcast without any friends and to high inhib to change that

He said he supped doing anything less than high teir becky's like a month ago

 

[datboijj]

Exactly, so his theory of women approaching first doesn't make sense.

in almost all bird species women approach

 

[Dark Latino]

They don't Want to approach not because they can't I believe...They want a man to take the risk and approach ,they are feminine and men are masculine ,if they approach they become more masculine taking the lead somehow .
I think in their mind goes like this
"I've got my nails,hair ,makeup done and I feel so cute and beautiful ,I wish a handsome dude appear in this bar and talk to me "

 

[randomuser2407]

The reason why it is men who have to approach most of the time is because that is the best way to separate the masculine men from the wimps. Because the men who are too afraid to talk to women will automatically be disqualified for being boring and ordinary, even if they are good looking.

What most guys don't realize is that it is easy to approach women, but it requires skill to have effective conversations with women that lead to the man getting the woman's number and a date. And it is not because it is difficult to talk to women, it's because your ability to show your personality will be limited by your self confidence, so if you are insecure, you will be too shy to let your true personality shine and you will repel the vast majority of women that you approach, even if you are good looking.
The most effective solution to this problem is experience, if you can approach many women and talk with them and work on improving your ability to talk to them, you will eventually reach a point where your social skills are so good that getting a new woman's number should be very easy, and by that point, you will only be limited by your looks.

The way that I see it, it is exactly like most guys here describe it, your looks are the most important factor for attracting women, but your social skills have to be developed through trial and error, that is the only way for you to succeed with women. So, first, you have to work on your looks until you become above average, and then you can just focus on talking to as many women as possible and that is how you will develop good enough "game" (specific to you) that getting laid will be so easy for you.

The reason why it is men who have to approach is because it is men who have the high testosterone levels. And unlike what guys on Nofap will try to make you believe, no, I am not talking about using a high libido to become confident, I am talking about how if you cold approach many women, even if you get rejected hundreds of times, you won't be too emotional about it if your testosterone levels are good because high testosterone means that you will be resilient, you won't be too emotional about failing and you will not take those rejections too personal.
So, the true reason why it is men who approach is because men are the only ones who are able to handle being rejected so many times in such a short time, women could never do it. So, if it was up to women to approach, it would never happen.

Also, in the past, there were much more men who approached women but nowadays, it is very rare because men of today are far less masculine than decades ago, because of the way that we were raised. Men in the boomer generation were forged through childhood by very strict parents but nowadays, most boys grow up in a very non threatening environment, because men are no longer the head of the household. Women tend to be more kind towards children, and men tend to be more tough with their kids, this toughness makes boys grow up to be very strong men who can live through any situation, and it keeps women very feminine, but nowadays, in order to please their wife, men let the children be raised in a very easy protected environment so when boys grow up, they are weak. But it is not too late, it is possible to fix it by going to the gym, eating healthy and going out during the day to talk to women.

The reason why the men of today can't approach women is because they are not real men, they are effeminate men.

 

[volcelfatcel]

The reason why it is men who have to approach most of the time is because that is the best way to separate the masculine men from the wimps. Because the men who are too afraid to talk to women will automatically be disqualified for being boring and ordinary, even if they are good looking.

What most guys don't realize is that it is easy to approach women, but it requires skill to have effective conversations with women that lead to the man getting the woman's number and a date. And it is not because it is difficult to talk to women, it's because your ability to show your personality will be limited by your self confidence, so if you are insecure, you will be too shy to let your true personality shine and you will repel the vast majority of women that you approach, even if you are good looking.
The most effective solution to this problem is experience, if you can approach many women and talk with them and work on improving your ability to talk to them, you will eventually reach a point where your social skills are so good that getting a new woman's number should be very easy, and by that point, you will only be limited by your looks.

The way that I see it, it is exactly like most guys here describe it, your looks are the most important factor for attracting women, but your social skills have to be developed through trial and error, that is the only way for you to succeed with women. So, first, you have to work on your looks until you become above average, and then you can just focus on talking to as many women as possible and that is how you will develop good enough "game" (specific to you) that getting laid will be so easy for you.

The reason why it is men who have to approach is because it is men who have the high testosterone levels. And unlike what guys on Nofap will try to make you believe, no, I am not talking about using a high libido to become confident, I am talking about how if you cold approach many women, even if you get rejected hundreds of times, you won't be too emotional about it if your testosterone levels are good because high testosterone means that you will be resilient, you won't be too emotional about failing and you will not take those rejections too personal.
So, the true reason why it is men who approach is because men are the only ones who are able to handle being rejected so many times in such a short time, women could never do it. So, if it was up to women to approach, it would never happen.

Also, in the past, there were much more men who approached women but nowadays, it is very rare because men of today are far less masculine than decades ago, because of the way that we were raised. Men in the boomer generation were forged through childhood by very strict parents but nowadays, most boys grow up in a very non threatening environment, because men are no longer the head of the household. Women tend to be more kind towards children, and men tend to be more tough with their kids, this toughness makes boys grow up to be very strong men who can live through any situation, and it keeps women very feminine, but nowadays, in order to please their wife, men let the children be raised in a very easy protected environment so when boys grow up, they are weak. But it is not too late, it is possible to fix it by going to the gym, eating healthy and going out during the day to talk to women.

The reason why the men of today can't approach women is because they are not real men, they are effeminate men.

 

[Deleted member 14262]

Girls do approach men but they do it by giving out hints and signals like ( making eye contact with you, standing or sitting very close to you, smiling at you etc)

Then its your job as a man to then approach her after she gives you these signals. You might not like it but that's just life

Men = hunters

That's not approaching. That's just giving signals.

 

[Beetlejuice]

Women should approach men because the chances of them being rejected is slim to none.