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My sister's life has been drastically different from mine as an ethnic. From a young age, all her boyfriends were white guys while I struggled to get any attention until late high school after a brutal ascension. She was seeing this one tall white guy who I kinda knew since I played basketball with his younger brother. Both are around 6'4" but the younger brother has a terrible face while his older brother was a legit Chad with a square jaw long blonde hair etc. I had no clue my sister was seeing my friend's older brother for the longest time. My sister is a phenomenal sister too she's nice. I remember she bought me all the supplements like preworkout protein creatine etc when she started working (she's older than me by 4 years). We both used to go to the same gym together. She is intelligent and kind and not some modern roastie or so I thought.
One day I needed to borrow my sister's MacBook to print some papers for university classes. She was finished with her classes so she let me borrow it. All was going well until I noticed her iMessage was logged in and going off. Curiosity got the best of me and I checked her messages and was surprised to see my friend's older brother. I thought that was interesting so I started reading and it was beyond degrading what I saw. She was sending him long paragraph messages and he would respond with one-word answers. This wasn't just 1-2 messages it was their whole convo dynamic. I didn't want to invade her privacy but I couldn't help myself since it seemed so out of character for her. She would write stuff like "I always drive to your house blaze with you and do anything you want and you still won't go out with me on a normal date" "What are we?" "When can I see you again its been weeks I thought we had something" "Can I come over tonight" etc. It was shocking to see my sister who I always thought of as an amazingIm not reading all that" and then nothing.
1 year later my sister is dating an Indian dude she met on a dating app that lives a few states over. My sister is 28 at this point the Indian guy works in real estate (prob low 100k+ salary) and seems like a nice guy a little on the shorter side about 5'8" with a stocky build. My sister is about 5'3" with a tiny skeleton he does face mog me with a strong jaw and full beard but overall he isn't a Chadlite just a regular ethnic normie. Within a year they decided to get married they are both 29 now. I would say they are looksmatched to a certain extent but he could probably do better since 29 for a man and 29 for a woman is drastically different and he has pretty good genes for an Indian guy. Keep in mind my sister has only dated white guys her whole life the 1-2 ethnic guys were like Chads loaded with money that just wanted to hit. So I was highly skeptical of how this would work. Around this time I noticed she deleted many posts off her social media maybe earlier but she had pictures at random apartments on vacation downtown in luxury cars etc that were probably too much of a red flag to hide. At the wedding my sister seemed kinda out of it she was present going through the motions. She is a natural in the spotlight and looked fine but as her younger brother I could see beyond that and she was just going through the motions with this guy by her side.
1 year later issues are arising. She had to move to her husband's state and live with his family. She didn't want to do that but its custom in our culture and she and my mom were very sad. Regardless she went ahead. She talks about not liking it there nothing to do and its much colder (its only a little colder). Now every two weeks she takes a plane home for just the weekend which seems crazy $200 for 2 days every 2 weeks plus the drive to the airport is insane since we are far.
A part of me feels bad for the guy but he is a problem too. He constantly talks about his sports teams and seems full of himself like a shitlib. Did he not understand dating a 28 year old woman and marrying her in a year isn't the best idea? I sometimes think of his silhouette and frame compared to the 6'4" former FWB and cringe. He doesn't know he's the betabux and I'm pretty sure my sister isn't attracted to him. I overheard her say years ago she doesn't want an Indian child but a mixed one since they'd have a better life. Maybe I'm pessimistic but I don't see this lasting longterm. My guess is divorce after 3+ years of her putting off kids or she has 1-2 and divorces for alimony child support etc. My sister can be pretty calculated like that.
Its crazy that this hits so close to home my own sister. I heard modern women were bad but when its close its pretty blackpilling. I'd say if you're an ethnic guy don't date a woman your own age go for someone substantially younger or be in a relationship early. This guy is probably seen as a horrible downgrade even though he's decent. Just a victim of the times.
One day I needed to borrow my sister's MacBook to print some papers for university classes. She was finished with her classes so she let me borrow it. All was going well until I noticed her iMessage was logged in and going off. Curiosity got the best of me and I checked her messages and was surprised to see my friend's older brother. I thought that was interesting so I started reading and it was beyond degrading what I saw. She was sending him long paragraph messages and he would respond with one-word answers. This wasn't just 1-2 messages it was their whole convo dynamic. I didn't want to invade her privacy but I couldn't help myself since it seemed so out of character for her. She would write stuff like "I always drive to your house blaze with you and do anything you want and you still won't go out with me on a normal date" "What are we?" "When can I see you again its been weeks I thought we had something" "Can I come over tonight" etc. It was shocking to see my sister who I always thought of as an amazingIm not reading all that" and then nothing.
1 year later my sister is dating an Indian dude she met on a dating app that lives a few states over. My sister is 28 at this point the Indian guy works in real estate (prob low 100k+ salary) and seems like a nice guy a little on the shorter side about 5'8" with a stocky build. My sister is about 5'3" with a tiny skeleton he does face mog me with a strong jaw and full beard but overall he isn't a Chadlite just a regular ethnic normie. Within a year they decided to get married they are both 29 now. I would say they are looksmatched to a certain extent but he could probably do better since 29 for a man and 29 for a woman is drastically different and he has pretty good genes for an Indian guy. Keep in mind my sister has only dated white guys her whole life the 1-2 ethnic guys were like Chads loaded with money that just wanted to hit. So I was highly skeptical of how this would work. Around this time I noticed she deleted many posts off her social media maybe earlier but she had pictures at random apartments on vacation downtown in luxury cars etc that were probably too much of a red flag to hide. At the wedding my sister seemed kinda out of it she was present going through the motions. She is a natural in the spotlight and looked fine but as her younger brother I could see beyond that and she was just going through the motions with this guy by her side.
1 year later issues are arising. She had to move to her husband's state and live with his family. She didn't want to do that but its custom in our culture and she and my mom were very sad. Regardless she went ahead. She talks about not liking it there nothing to do and its much colder (its only a little colder). Now every two weeks she takes a plane home for just the weekend which seems crazy $200 for 2 days every 2 weeks plus the drive to the airport is insane since we are far.
A part of me feels bad for the guy but he is a problem too. He constantly talks about his sports teams and seems full of himself like a shitlib. Did he not understand dating a 28 year old woman and marrying her in a year isn't the best idea? I sometimes think of his silhouette and frame compared to the 6'4" former FWB and cringe. He doesn't know he's the betabux and I'm pretty sure my sister isn't attracted to him. I overheard her say years ago she doesn't want an Indian child but a mixed one since they'd have a better life. Maybe I'm pessimistic but I don't see this lasting longterm. My guess is divorce after 3+ years of her putting off kids or she has 1-2 and divorces for alimony child support etc. My sister can be pretty calculated like that.
Its crazy that this hits so close to home my own sister. I heard modern women were bad but when its close its pretty blackpilling. I'd say if you're an ethnic guy don't date a woman your own age go for someone substantially younger or be in a relationship early. This guy is probably seen as a horrible downgrade even though he's decent. Just a victim of the times.
