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I’m phenylpiracetam, the biggest slayer on this forum.
I fuck a new girl 1-2x a week all while being at uni and doing sports on the side.
I only fuck htb+, my standards are very high.
I’m no chad, but very high IQ and fun, especially when drunk. I can talk about any topic with anyone while making it amusing and engaging.
Here's 10 tips to ensure you slay the girls you are texting:
1. Never reply when there is no need to reply.
For ex. if you're meeting up somewhere and she says "I should be here in 5 mins", don't say "ok!", don't say "looking forward
", don't say "".
Just leave on opened. You don't need to reply. You should keep your message notifications somewhat rare and dopamine-releasing.
If you're both on the chat (snapchat), then you can get away with useless messages, but don't make her open the app just to read "ok".
2. Snapchat is the best messaging app to talk to girls
You can see when they are online, see where they are, see if they are chatting to other dudes, see if they are ignoring you.
Also, sending face pics (= showing off your best asset) is normalised on snap, it won't be weird like sending it on imessage or fucking whatsapp.
Messages get deleted so your cringiness is forgettable.
Easier to gauge the girl's mood (horny, tired, into you or not) with snaps, time spent replying to you (time difference between the "is typing" notification and the "sent a chat" notification => indicator of how interested in how she comes accross to you), etc.
With so much data it becomes impossible to get her intentions wrong.
3. Always give her something to reply to.
Every time you're sending message, think: "if she sent me that, would i be able to reply easily and quickly? would i be interested in replying? would this message make me smile or giggle? would this message make me want to engage in the conversation more?"
Girls are used to having to put 0 effort over text. If you don't give them enough substance to reply to, they will just ignore or sideswipe and kill the conversation.
For example: I sent this girl 2 videos from Christmas from previous years because i found them funny. I then thought "wait what is she supposed to reply to that? a laughing emoji? Nvm i need to give more substance to interact with" so I also sent "send me ur christmas recap vids", even though I don't really give a fuck.
By doing so, not only did I make her giggle (maybe) but also i didn't make it awkward nor set myself up for a shitty reply like "lol".
You must be thinking "but bro if she gives low effort replies then she doesn't give a fuck about you". This leads me on to my next point:
4. Getting low-effort replies doesn't necessarily mean it's over
It depends on the girl, obviously.
From experience, the time she takes to reply to your messages is a better indicator of her interest.
If she consistenly takes a few mins or less to reply, then she is interested because she can't resist clicking on the notification.
This is also why snap is better, because she actually has to click on the notification (or open the app) to see your message.
Giving her the possibility to see the message without opening it is suboptimal, especially if the convo isn't engaging.
Many girls are kinda autistic, inexperienced texters, or simply not interesting, and thus struggle with giving high-value replies. You need to figure this out quickly, since it would be a shame to give up on a girl who genuinely was interested in you but who just had no game.
5. Never be a pick-me
Imagine these scenarios:
#1 You see that your girl has been online but hasn't replied to you. You feel like she doesn't give a fuck about you so you say "guess i'm too ugly to deserve a reply". She comes back and replies "no no sorry I just had to quickly tell my friend that her dog escaped and I was chasing him".
#2 Your girl sends you a pic of you she found on your instagram and asks about the place you were visiting. You reply "damn i hate that pic i'm so fucking ugly in it delete that".
#3 Your girl talks about a male classmate of hers and says "yeah he is really intelligent". You reply "I also bet he's a lot hotter than me, maybe you should ask him out".
Never do this.
Being a pick-me is the easiest way to give a girl the ick. It screams insecurity, dependance, low self-esteem, and ADS (Abused Dog Syndrome).
You are literally telling the girl that your sense of self-worth is entirely dependant on what she thinks of you.
It isn't playful, it isn't "hot jealousy", it is CRINGE.
It is very hard to get away with being a pick me. It must be executed perfectly and counterbalanced with some pull back afterwards.
At one point in my life I used to get called a pick-me by girls all the time. I thought it was funny, but it genuinely was turning them off.
6. Taking long to reply does NOT make you seem like a busy guy
Unless you're some multibillionaire CEO of world-renowned artist, you're not fooling anyone.
But "muh I am an alpha male I go gym at 6am bro I have online business and meeting with clients i have 15 min screen time per day bro she knows i am high value man
” stfu no one is buying that shit. Trust me I tried it for years. Never got me any bitches.
Attention spans are so short, it only takes a few days for a girl to get bored of you if you aren't exciting enough.
You need to stop trying to be someone you're not and reply to this girl. I'm not saying reply within seconds, but aim to reply (or simply open the message) within 20 minutes.
Texting will actually be enjoyable and the conversation will flow. Messages will be shorter, thus less painful to reply to.
7. Messaging will never be on par with facetiming
As much as I hate calling and facetiming, I have to admit that it MOGS texting.
No need to explain really. It's more engaging
, you get better replies 
, easier to gauge her interest in you 
, easier to escalate to sexual/romantic topics that can be awkward 
over text, she isn't giving her attention to anyone else 
, you get to show her your best asset (face) 
, etc.
8. Daytime for casual, nightime for sexual
Simple as that. You may be horny all day, but girls are horny at night.
Small talk during the day, and hold the longer convos at night. 9pm-midnight is optimal.
Also, don't initiate the sex stuff. Wait for her to make a subtle double-entendre or say anything to do with intimacy first.
This is your green light to take over and make the convo gradually more sexual.
You can also try a subtle hint to intimacy to test the waters, but you must be extremely light about it.
The last thing you want is to seem like a creep, or to want her for her body only.
9. Flirting over text is bullying without going too far
You can be mean to her as long as you stay clear of topics like her past relationships, her promiscuity (?), her mental health, her close friends and family, her insecurities.
Examples:
Girl: "I made my friend this painting for her birthday *shows snap of painting*"
You: "I would kill myself if my friend made that for my birthday"
—
Girl: *sends a video snap where her older brother can be seen*
You: "Well, at least you can be grateful your nose isn't as big as your brother's
"
—
Girl: *sends snap of her outfit, wearing a short revealing top and a skirt*
You: "Your outfit looks like utter shit, cover up"
If you are unable to tell which examples are tolerable and which are not, then you should not be texting a girl.
10. Emojis are a skill you must master
Adding an emoji to your message is a great way to remind her that you’re only joking when you are bullying her.
They can make light of any situation, and make you seem cool and sarcastic.
This cheeky message:
«Sounds like you’re gonna have to beg for me again»
Becomes:
“Sounds like you’re gonna have to beg for me again
”
Her reply goes from “huh” to « in your dreams».
Another emoji i like to use a lot is «
».
This annoying message:
“ shit i didn’t bring condoms”
Becomes:
“i didn’t bring condoms”
Makes it more playful and less serious. Less boring and more likely to elicit a positive reply like “i guess we’ll have to go raw”
You get the idea. You want to be sarcastic at all times. It’s the best form of humour. Makes you look cool and is optimal for flirting.
Here’s my list of favourite emojis:
Use them SARCASTICALLY.
I don’t have any screenshots of normal conversations where i used them properly, but you get the point.
My texting helps me get girls from this:
To this:
In just under 10 days.
There’s a lot of other manipulation techniques I use, i may go over them in another thread, idk.
a high IQ, high effort thread by phenylpiracetam
I fuck a new girl 1-2x a week all while being at uni and doing sports on the side.
I only fuck htb+, my standards are very high.
I’m no chad, but very high IQ and fun, especially when drunk. I can talk about any topic with anyone while making it amusing and engaging.
Here's 10 tips to ensure you slay the girls you are texting:
1. Never reply when there is no need to reply.
For ex. if you're meeting up somewhere and she says "I should be here in 5 mins", don't say "ok!", don't say "looking forward
", don't say "".Just leave on opened. You don't need to reply. You should keep your message notifications somewhat rare and dopamine-releasing.
If you're both on the chat (snapchat), then you can get away with useless messages, but don't make her open the app just to read "ok".
2. Snapchat is the best messaging app to talk to girls
You can see when they are online, see where they are, see if they are chatting to other dudes, see if they are ignoring you.
Also, sending face pics (= showing off your best asset) is normalised on snap, it won't be weird like sending it on imessage or fucking whatsapp
.Messages get deleted so your cringiness is forgettable.
Easier to gauge the girl's mood (horny, tired, into you or not) with snaps, time spent replying to you (time difference between the "is typing" notification and the "sent a chat" notification => indicator of how interested in how she comes accross to you), etc.
With so much data it becomes impossible to get her intentions wrong.
3. Always give her something to reply to.
Every time you're sending message, think: "if she sent me that, would i be able to reply easily and quickly? would i be interested in replying? would this message make me smile or giggle? would this message make me want to engage in the conversation more?"
Girls are used to having to put 0 effort over text. If you don't give them enough substance to reply to, they will just ignore or sideswipe and kill the conversation.
For example: I sent this girl 2 videos from Christmas from previous years because i found them funny. I then thought "wait what is she supposed to reply to that? a laughing emoji? Nvm i need to give more substance to interact with" so I also sent "send me ur christmas recap vids", even though I don't really give a fuck.
By doing so, not only did I make her giggle (maybe) but also i didn't make it awkward nor set myself up for a shitty reply like "lol".
You must be thinking "but bro if she gives low effort replies then she doesn't give a fuck about you". This leads me on to my next point:
4. Getting low-effort replies doesn't necessarily mean it's over
It depends on the girl, obviously.
From experience, the time she takes to reply to your messages is a better indicator of her interest.
If she consistenly takes a few mins or less to reply, then she is interested because she can't resist clicking on the notification.
This is also why snap is better, because she actually has to click on the notification (or open the app) to see your message.
Giving her the possibility to see the message without opening it is suboptimal, especially if the convo isn't engaging.
Many girls are kinda autistic, inexperienced texters, or simply not interesting, and thus struggle with giving high-value replies. You need to figure this out quickly, since it would be a shame to give up on a girl who genuinely was interested in you but who just had no game.
5. Never be a pick-me
Imagine these scenarios:
#1 You see that your girl has been online but hasn't replied to you. You feel like she doesn't give a fuck about you so you say "guess i'm too ugly to deserve a reply". She comes back and replies "no no sorry I just had to quickly tell my friend that her dog escaped and I was chasing him".
#2 Your girl sends you a pic of you she found on your instagram and asks about the place you were visiting. You reply "damn i hate that pic i'm so fucking ugly in it delete that".
#3 Your girl talks about a male classmate of hers and says "yeah he is really intelligent". You reply "I also bet he's a lot hotter than me, maybe you should ask him out".
Never do this.
Being a pick-me is the easiest way to give a girl the ick. It screams insecurity, dependance, low self-esteem, and ADS (Abused Dog Syndrome).
You are literally telling the girl that your sense of self-worth is entirely dependant on what she thinks of you.
It isn't playful, it isn't "hot jealousy", it is CRINGE.
It is very hard to get away with being a pick me. It must be executed perfectly and counterbalanced with some pull back afterwards.
At one point in my life I used to get called a pick-me by girls all the time. I thought it was funny, but it genuinely was turning them off.
6. Taking long to reply does NOT make you seem like a busy guy
Unless you're some multibillionaire CEO of world-renowned artist, you're not fooling anyone.
But "muh I am an alpha male I go gym at 6am bro I have online business and meeting with clients i have 15 min screen time per day bro she knows i am high value man
” stfu no one is buying that shit. Trust me I tried it for years. Never got me any bitches.Attention spans are so short, it only takes a few days for a girl to get bored of you if you aren't exciting enough.
You need to stop trying to be someone you're not and reply to this girl. I'm not saying reply within seconds, but aim to reply (or simply open the message) within 20 minutes.
Texting will actually be enjoyable and the conversation will flow. Messages will be shorter, thus less painful to reply to.
7. Messaging will never be on par with facetiming
As much as I hate calling and facetiming, I have to admit that it MOGS texting.
No need to explain really. It's more engaging
, you get better replies , easier to gauge her interest in you , easier to escalate to sexual/romantic topics that can be awkward over text, she isn't giving her attention to anyone else , you get to show her your best asset (face) , etc.8. Daytime for casual, nightime for sexual
Simple as that. You may be horny all day, but girls are horny at night.
Small talk during the day, and hold the longer convos at night. 9pm-midnight is optimal.
Also, don't initiate the sex stuff. Wait for her to make a subtle double-entendre or say anything to do with intimacy first.
This is your green light to take over and make the convo gradually more sexual.
You can also try a subtle hint to intimacy to test the waters, but you must be extremely light about it.
The last thing you want is to seem like a creep, or to want her for her body only.
9. Flirting over text is bullying without going too far
You can be mean to her as long as you stay clear of topics like her past relationships, her promiscuity (?), her mental health, her close friends and family, her insecurities.
Examples:
Girl: "I made my friend this painting for her birthday *shows snap of painting*"
You: "I would kill myself if my friend made that for my birthday"
—
Girl: *sends a video snap where her older brother can be seen*
You: "Well, at least you can be grateful your nose isn't as big as your brother's
"—
Girl: *sends snap of her outfit, wearing a short revealing top and a skirt*
You: "Your outfit looks like utter shit, cover up"
If you are unable to tell which examples are tolerable and which are not, then you should not be texting a girl.
10. Emojis are a skill you must master
Adding an emoji to your message is a great way to remind her that you’re only joking when you are bullying her.
They can make light of any situation, and make you seem cool and sarcastic.
This cheeky message:
«Sounds like you’re gonna have to beg for me again»
Becomes:
“Sounds like you’re gonna have to beg for me again
”Her reply goes from “huh” to « in your dreams
».Another emoji i like to use a lot is «
».This annoying message:
“ shit i didn’t bring condoms”
Becomes:
“i didn’t bring condoms
”Makes it more playful and less serious. Less boring and more likely to elicit a positive reply like “i guess we’ll have to go raw
”You get the idea. You want to be sarcastic at all times. It’s the best form of humour. Makes you look cool and is optimal for flirting.
Here’s my list of favourite emojis:
Use them SARCASTICALLY.
I don’t have any screenshots of normal conversations where i used them properly, but you get the point.
My texting helps me get girls from this:
To this:
In just under 10 days.
There’s a lot of other manipulation techniques I use, i may go over them in another thread, idk.
a high IQ, high effort thread by phenylpiracetam
