100 approaches and still nothing

[Deleted member 5522]

Today I did my 100th approach. And these are the results I got so far:

• 39 ignored me
• 55 we had a conversation
• 5 got their phone number
• 1 went on a date

I used to think that if I approached 100 girls, there was no way I wouldn't sleep with one of them, and it seems like I was wrong.
Some things I noticed:

• I still struggle to approach
• I'm still very attached to the output
• Most rejections don't really hurt
• So far, I have only approached women that are alone
• There were many days I didn't feel like doing it, but I did it anyway
• I have gotten better at conversation
• Every time a girl reacts positively, I feel energized
• Going out with a friend helps make it more fun (I only had a friend with me 3 days. Most of the days I was by myself)

The process has been tiring and demotivating in many instances, but when I remember the times I had a fun conversation with a beautiful girl, I feel like it's worth it.
It's been one hard month, so I have to keep going or I'll have to start over from zero.

what do you think redditooors kind strangers

 

[Deleted member 6856]

Confirmed and Approved Subhuman

 

[Deleted member 5875]

brutal

 

[Deleted member 5522]

Confirmed and Approved Subhuman

YIKES SWEATY NO NICE

 

[Deleted member 2617]

Approaching on the street? You gotta talk really well to do that shit. Go to bar or club

 

[Deleted member 7820]

Didn't see you in a while.

 

[Chintuck22]

Ngl i can approach only using insta or when they give IOIs

 

[Deleted member 5522]

Approaching on the street? You gotta talk really well to do that shit. Go to bar or club

I copy pasted it from soyyit jfl

 

[Deleted member 6856]

YIKES SWEATY NO NICE

Spoiler: NFSW

 

[Deleted member 7098]

you‘re too autistic to ever do that

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Why did you do such a things, bro?

 

[Deleted member 8165]

mirin low inib

 

[Patrick Baitman]

first 100000 rejections are just warmup.
Learn from my master:

 

[Deleted member 5522]

Why did you do such a things, bro?

I copy pasted it from soyyit jfl

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Over. didnt read

 

[Deleted member 2854]

I did 15 approaches last year and got 1 lay and 1 date. Was worth it tbh.

 

[Deleted member 4438]

imagine having an success rate of 1% nigga

 

[Exodus]

Chad confirmed

 

[Songe]

How is it possible to be ugly and still approach so many women? The feeling of being rejected and despised is so painful...

 

[Deleted]

Today I did my 100th approach. And these are the results I got so far:

• 39 ignored me
• 55 we had a conversation
• 5 got their phone number
• 1 went on a date

I used to think that if I approached 100 girls, there was no way I wouldn't sleep with one of them, and it seems like I was wrong.
Some things I noticed:

• I still struggle to approach
• I'm still very attached to the output
• Most rejections don't really hurt
• So far, I have only approached women that are alone
• There were many days I didn't feel like doing it, but I did it anyway
• I have gotten better at conversation
• Every time a girl reacts positively, I feel energized
• Going out with a friend helps make it more fun (I only had a friend with me 3 days. Most of the days I was by myself)

The process has been tiring and demotivating in many instances, but when I remember the times I had a fun conversation with a beautiful girl, I feel like it's worth it.
It's been one hard month, so I have to keep going or I'll have to start over from zero.

what do you think redditooors kind strangers

"39 ignored me"
jfl tinder doesnt count as approach

 

[Vermilioncore]

i am the ugliest human being to have ever stepped foot on the planet earth

 

[godirl]

Bro, here's the checklist:

- what are you wearing?
- believe it or not - your hair, is it clean and styled, not overstyled though (ditch all products, particularly ones that make your hair appear greasy, shiny, or stiff)
- shoes, can't stress this one enough (make sure they're clean and fit for your clothes - NO SANDALS, you're not Jesus)
- facial hair in good order (if any)
- clothes that accentuate shoulders
- no cargo shorts! You're not me - a dad approaching 40s
- if you're like me 5'8'' then put for clothes that make you look taller - vertical stripes, shorts finishing above knees (I'm talking shorts as it is summer at the moment)
- no chains, or other jewellery, unless you're 2Chainz
- got tattoos? care for them
- space - don't get too close, their feeling of safety is hugely important
- public spaces - more likely to engage if surrounded by people - safety thing
- no creeping - girls have eyes at the back of their heads, so if you plan the approach for too long she will notice and feel aware, which is never a good thing
- don't approach from the back or side - make sure they see your approach
- smile as you walk up and watch her reaction, if she looks and smiles - approach, if she doesn't then you have the option of walking past or giving it a go anyway, your choice
- keep it simple when greeting - hi is always good
- start with a question, just not 'how are you?'
- keep one-liners to yourself, approach is not the time, unless they're into that sort of stuff
- pay attention to what they're wearing - this could help or destroy your approach and it helps you gauge better if they're coming or going somewhere, waiting for someone, etc.
- if you want to sit down and chat ask for permission, it's unlikely they'll be an asshole and say no, if they do That's not the girl you want to chase, trust me, unless the plan is to 'teach and Ditch'

Generally, your clothes, your hygiene, how creepy you are during your approach will decide on whether she engages or not.

No matter what - ALWAYS REMEMBER - you're not everyone's type - there will always be rejections. It's normal!

Most importantly - humour - if you can make her laugh in the first 30 secs to a minute and direct her from that into the flirt zone you'll get much better chances.

If you get rejected and have balls of steel ask what made her say no and learn from it. Make a joke out of it - was it my clothes, is it my hair or anything else that'll make her smirk.

Above else, your stats are banging already, keep it up!

 

[Deleted member 275]

i am the ugliest human being to have ever stepped foot on the planet earth

thats a statusmax

mogs me

 

[Deleted member 1588]

Bro, here's the checklist:

- what are you wearing?
- believe it or not - your hair, is it clean and styled, not overstyled though (ditch all products, particularly ones that make your hair appear greasy, shiny, or stiff)
- shoes, can't stress this one enough (make sure they're clean and fit for your clothes - NO SANDALS, you're not Jesus)
- facial hair in good order (if any)
- clothes that accentuate shoulders
- no cargo shorts! You're not me - a dad approaching 40s
- if you're like me 5'8'' then put for clothes that make you look taller - vertical stripes, shorts finishing above knees (I'm talking shorts as it is summer at the moment)
- no chains, or other jewellery, unless you're 2Chainz
- got tattoos? care for them
- space - don't get too close, their feeling of safety is hugely important
- public spaces - more likely to engage if surrounded by people - safety thing
- no creeping - girls have eyes at the back of their heads, so if you plan the approach for too long she will notice and feel aware, which is never a good thing
- don't approach from the back or side - make sure they see your approach
- smile as you walk up and watch her reaction, if she looks and smiles - approach, if she doesn't then you have the option of walking past or giving it a go anyway, your choice
- keep it simple when greeting - hi is always good
- start with a question, just not 'how are you?'
- keep one-liners to yourself, approach is not the time, unless they're into that sort of stuff
- pay attention to what they're wearing - this could help or destroy your approach and it helps you gauge better if they're coming or going somewhere, waiting for someone, etc.
- if you want to sit down and chat ask for permission, it's unlikely they'll be an asshole and say no, if they do That's not the girl you want to chase, trust me, unless the plan is to 'teach and Ditch'

Generally, your clothes, your hygiene, how creepy you are during your approach will decide on whether she engages or not.

No matter what - ALWAYS REMEMBER - you're not everyone's type - there will always be rejections. It's normal!

Most importantly - humour - if you can make her laugh in the first 30 secs to a minute and direct her from that into the flirt zone you'll get much better chances.

If you get rejected and have balls of steel ask what made her say no and learn from it. Make a joke out of it - was it my clothes, is it my hair or anything else that'll make her smirk.

Above else, your stats are banging already, keep it up!

COPES.ME

 

[Deusmaximus]

Meanwhile chad gets creepy pictured on his way home, and girls try to find out his name/number to ride his dick.

 

[LDNPari]

are you ugly?

 

[eduardkoopman]

are you ugly?

the first 10,000 approaches are just warm ups.

tbh. If it's true that this man chatted up 10,000 women.

 

[ezio6]

Today I did my 100th approach. And these are the results I got so far:

• 39 ignored me
• 55 we had a conversation
• 5 got their phone number
• 1 went on a date

I used to think that if I approached 100 girls, there was no way I wouldn't sleep with one of them, and it seems like I was wrong.
Some things I noticed:

• I still struggle to approach
• I'm still very attached to the output
• Most rejections don't really hurt
• So far, I have only approached women that are alone
• There were many days I didn't feel like doing it, but I did it anyway
• I have gotten better at conversation
• Every time a girl reacts positively, I feel energized
• Going out with a friend helps make it more fun (I only had a friend with me 3 days. Most of the days I was by myself)

The process has been tiring and demotivating in many instances, but when I remember the times I had a fun conversation with a beautiful girl, I feel like it's worth it.
It's been one hard month, so I have to keep going or I'll have to start over from zero.

what do you think redditooors kind strangers

Use tinder game as suplement bro, anyway mirin ur effort tbh, ove always get rejected at club because of my height

 

[Deleted member 5634]

Ngl nice copypasta

 

[Lihito]

Today I did my 100th approach. And these are the results I got so far:

• 39 ignored me
• 55 we had a conversation
• 5 got their phone number
• 1 went on a date

I used to think that if I approached 100 girls, there was no way I wouldn't sleep with one of them, and it seems like I was wrong.
Some things I noticed:

• I still struggle to approach
• I'm still very attached to the output
• Most rejections don't really hurt
• So far, I have only approached women that are alone
• There were many days I didn't feel like doing it, but I did it anyway
• I have gotten better at conversation
• Every time a girl reacts positively, I feel energized
• Going out with a friend helps make it more fun (I only had a friend with me 3 days. Most of the days I was by myself)

The process has been tiring and demotivating in many instances, but when I remember the times I had a fun conversation with a beautiful girl, I feel like it's worth it.
It's been one hard month, so I have to keep going or I'll have to start over from zero.

what do you think redditooors kind strangers

As one user on my rate me thread Said "inb4 100 approaches are a warmup"

 

[Callooh_Calais]

Today I did my 100th approach. And these are the results I got so far:

• 39 ignored me
• 55 we had a conversation
• 5 got their phone number
• 1 went on a date

I used to think that if I approached 100 girls, there was no way I wouldn't sleep with one of them, and it seems like I was wrong.
Some things I noticed:

• I still struggle to approach
• I'm still very attached to the output
• Most rejections don't really hurt
• So far, I have only approached women that are alone
• There were many days I didn't feel like doing it, but I did it anyway
• I have gotten better at conversation
• Every time a girl reacts positively, I feel energized
• Going out with a friend helps make it more fun (I only had a friend with me 3 days. Most of the days I was by myself)

The process has been tiring and demotivating in many instances, but when I remember the times I had a fun conversation with a beautiful girl, I feel like it's worth it.
It's been one hard month, so I have to keep going or I'll have to start over from zero.

what do you think redditooors kind strangers

People actually do this? Why?