18 year old incel runs away from foid at party. Needs help!

[dokusleftnut]

So i was at a party 3 weeks ago, i was drunk, dancing like everybody else was. Suddenly i bumped into a guy i kind off knew trough a friend of mine and he was with a girl, since i was drunk i just go up to talk to him, i dont remember exactly what happend but when im done talking with him it somehow ends with me and the girl he is with dancing, and while we are dancing for some reason i decide to grab her ass, but she liked it. After a while we stop dancing and go another place just to chat a bit about eachother, then we go in again to the dancefloor where she asks for bubblegum from the guy i mentioned earlier clearly indicating that we were going to at least make out. She drags me to the womans bathroom that's there, then suddenly i just freeze and run away from her because there were other girls inside the bathroom. What should i have done differently? Im not even sure anything close to this will happen anytime again.

 

[darwizzy27]

Scarily similar to my experience. Don´t think I can help you here pal

 

[TechnoBoss]

So i was at a party 3 weeks ago, i was drunk, dancing like everybody else was. Suddenly i bumped into a guy i kind off knew trough a friend of mine and he was with a girl, since i was drunk i just go up to talk to him, i dont remember exactly what happend but when im done talking with him it somehow ends with me and the girl he is with dancing, and while we are dancing for some reason i decide to grab her ass, but she liked it. After a while we stop dancing and go another place just to chat a bit about eachother, then we go in again to the dancefloor where she asks for bubblegum from the guy i mentioned earlier clearly indicating that we were going to at least make out. She drags me to the womans bathroom that's there, then suddenly i just freeze and run away from her because there were other girls inside the bathroom. What should i have done differently? Im not even sure anything close to this will happen anytime again.

It sounds like she was giving you the slay on a silver plate and your nerves just got the better of you. You need experience in these situations to get yourself out of the flight mindset.

Nothing else really to say here tbh just tldr don’t be a pussy in the future.

 

[dokusleftnut]

Scarily similar to my experience. Don´t think I can help you here pal

yeah i noticed, i can confirm that this is true tho

 

[darwizzy27]

It sounds like she was giving you the slay on a silver plate and your nerves just got the better of you. You need experience in these situations to get yourself out of the flight mindset.

Nothing else really to say here tbh just tldr don’t be a pussy in the future.

It isn´t as easy as you think boss, when you have never done anything like that in the past it is really easy to just keep it the way it is as a KHHV

 

[dokusleftnut]

It sounds like she was giving you the slay on a silver plate and your nerves just got the better of you. You need experience in these situations to get yourself out of the flight mindset.

Nothing else really to say here tbh just tldr don’t be a pussy in the future.

still mad about this because she was like actually good looking as well, i dont even know why she would choose me and those thoughts just got the better of me. A little hard to fix the nerve in those situations tho. Would probably help if the bathroom wasnt filled with people

 

[Deleted member 100569]

so many football pfps

 

[TechnoBoss]

It isn´t as easy as you think boss, when you have never done anything like that in the past it is really easy to just keep it the way it is as a KHHV

Everyone has to go through it at some point. You have to just not panic and think with a level head and don’t let your nerves get the best of you. I know it might be easier said than done but after the first few times you won’t have the anxiety anymore.

 

[darwizzy27]

Everyone has to go through it at some point. You have to just not panic and think with a level head and don’t let your nerves get the best of you. I know it might be easier said than done but after the first few times you won’t have the anxiety anymore.

Yes but for me at least I think a foid talking to me will be a once in a lifetime experience, so I don´t think I´m getting any more chances. And how will I be able to do it a few times, when it hasn´t happened once in my 19 years on this planet

 

[TechnoBoss]

Yes but for me at least I think a foid talking to me will be a once in a lifetime experience, so I don´t think I´m getting any more chances. And how will I be able to do it a few times, when it hasn´t happened once in my 19 years on this planet

You’ll get chances you already got chances but your nerves got the better of you this time. Use it as a learning experience and remember the regret you had when you weren’t able to seal the deal. You can do it. Use this as a learning experience.

 

[darwizzy27]

You’ll get chances you already got chances but your nerves got the better of you this time. Use it as a learning experience and remember the regret you had when you weren’t able to seal the deal. You can do it. Use this as a learning experience.

Got a chance once after going out and partying for well over 3 years