18 yo cousin invited me to a private party at one of her friends

[Danish_Retard]

I know I should accept, but I feel so weird about it.

My cousin lives 1 hour away, I've never met her friend before, I've only been to my one party at my cousins where we weren't together with family.

I feel weird asf just showing up as a 20 year old no one has met before.

The only people I'll know are my cousin and an exchange student living with her. And I'm autistic so my first impression is never great...

I wonder if my cousin is only inviting me out of pity, perhaps she can smell I'm a loser and need the environmental boost...

I need to go to, because I must overcome my anxiety and self worth problems, but it's fucking hard man fuck, feel like such a loser.


@AspiringMogger @TUSSELEIF

 

[vanillaicecream]

I dont think you should go then, it will probably be awful

 

[Beanermaxxer]

Get drunk before going to the party, so your inhibition lowers a bit and you act a bit more NT

 

[IMPROVINATOR]

Get drunk before + chug a red bull. Both will decrease inhib. But you better go bro.

 

[Deleted member 20370]

go

 

[Deleted member 42009]

You should go, its good training, do it buddy

 

[Deleted member 33826]

cocaine and alco will kill all this inhibness

 

[Danish_Retard]

Get drunk before + chug a red bull. Both will decrease inhib. But you better go bro.

go

You should go, its good training, do it buddy

I guess my biggest problem is the feeling that she is pitying me, I can't really see any reason for her to invite me otherwise.

But fuck man, perhaps I just need to be pathetic and accept, I need the training man fuck.

I'll take 2g pheni and bring a litre vodka.

cocaine and alco will kill all this inhibness

Cocaine is very expensive in Denmark, and with ADHD I don't think it will work as intended, being a stimulant.

 

[Deleted member 42009]

Dont assume its pity, its just helping you to get you out there

 

[TUSSELEIF]

If it was me I’d debloat as much as possible and wear my best clothes before meeting and get drunk. But tbh I would also ask why she was inviting me

Mirin closeness with cousins tho. Me and my female cousin my same age, we only meet on family gatherings, otherwise we don’t talk much

 

[germanlooks]

OPs hope for what will happen:

vs.

What actually will happen:

 

[Danish_Retard]

If it was me I’d debloat as much as possible and wear my best clothes before meeting and get drunk.

I've fasted today, I'll try to eat better, it's in 23 days, so I can lose ~3kg if I leanmaxx hard, but I've just lost my job and I don't have the willpower to fast multiple days at home, so I probably won't be able to stop being fat in time.

When I woke up today after a 24 hr fast and weighed myself I was 79kg, you're the same height but 72kg, you can only imagine how fat I am atm...

But tbh I would also ask why she was inviting me

That feels so akward, perhaps I'll have to do it.

But imagine if she actually says pity

Right now I can at least live in semi-delusion...

Mirin closeness with cousins tho. Me and my female cousin my same age, we only meet on family gatherings, otherwise we don’t talk much

I'm more close with an autistic female cousin than her, and I'm closer with her brother too, that's probably what's bothering me about this...

 

[SubSigma]

Just stop being a high inhib european and go. Take some benzos if you have to

 

[vanillaicecream]

Dont go, trust me I've been in a similar situation and I ended up going home crying

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Go.

 

[WeiWei]

I would SOOO fuck my cousin unless she ugly. Especially if she's a blonde PAWG

 

[Danish_Retard]

Dont go, trust me I've been in a similar situation and I ended up going home crying

What happened?

I would SOOO fuck my cousin unless she ugly. Especially if she's a blonde PAWG

Don't let the intrusive thoughts win bro

 

[vanillaicecream]

What happened?


Don't let the intrusive thoughts win bro

I thought I was going to get ioi's and have my delusions validated but got nothing, my friend tried to hook me up with this girl and she rejected me

 

[Danish_Retard]

I thought I was going to get ioi's and have my delusions validated but got nothing, my friend tried to hook me up with this girl and she rejected me

Last party I went to that she hosted I made out with one of the girls there but couldn't make myself escalate to sex because I'm an abused dog.

Went in with 0 expectations tho, I guess in this instance suffering comes from unmet expectations.

 

[Geoff2024]

you are attractive thats why you got invited

 

[Freakbob]

Fuck all of them

 

[vermillioncorefan]

I know I should accept, but I feel so weird about it.

My cousin lives 1 hour away, I've never met her friend before, I've only been to my one party at my cousins where we weren't together with family.

I feel weird asf just showing up as a 20 year old no one has met before.
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The only people I'll know are my cousin and an exchange student living with her. And I'm autistic so my first impression is never great...

I wonder if my cousin is only inviting me out of pity, perhaps she can smell I'm a loser and need the environmental boost...

I need to go to, because I must overcome my anxiety and self worth problems, but it's fucking hard man fuck, feel like such a loser.


@AspiringMogger @TUSSELEIF

it won’t “fix” u so only go if u want to

 

[Danish_Retard]

you are attractive thats why you got invited

I got mogged by 2 of the 4 guys that there present last time.

Actually perhaps this is just why shes inviting me, the gender ratio is fucked, but it is in the opposite direction it normally is.

Fuck all of them

it won’t “fix” u so only go if u want to

Well, I think the experience will be good, you can only learn from making mistakes...

 

[Geoff2024]

I got mogged by 2 of the 4 guys that there present last time.

Actually perhaps this is just why shes inviting me, the gender ratio is fucked, but it is in the opposite direction it normally is.

Well, I think the experience will be good, you can only learn from making mistakes...

get drunk to lower inhib before going

 

[vermillioncorefan]

get drunk to lower inhib before going

smoke meth*

 

[Deleted member 20399]

Get drunk before going to the party, so your inhibition lowers a bit and you act a bit more NT

No just drop acid. It’s NT as fuark

 

[Joe Rogancel]

I guess my biggest problem is the feeling that she is pitying me, I can't really see any reason for her to invite me otherwise.

But fuck man, perhaps I just need to be pathetic and accept, I need the training man fuck.

I'll take 2g pheni and bring a litre vodka.




Cocaine is very expensive in Denmark, and with ADHD I don't think it will work as intended, being a stimulant.

I wish coke was legal in cucked usa

 

[Deleted member 20399]

I dont think you should go then, it will probably be awful

Dont go, trust me I've been in a similar situation and I ended up going home crying

Alright calm down mate