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pprimus43
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Hey guys, I’m a 20-year-old KHHV (kissless, hugless, handholdless virgin) and I’ve been struggling with inexperience, which is really starting to mess with my head. I’ve been working on my looksmaxxing—hitting the gym, fixing my skincare, and upgrading my style—but no matter what, my lack of experience with women keeps holding me back. It’s like this massive mental block that makes me anxious, awkward, and kills my confidence when I try to put myself out there.
I’ve been seriously thinking about seeing an escort to just get it over with and finally know what it’s like to be intimate with someone. I’m not looking for a relationship or anything emotional; I just want to gain some basic experience so I’m not completely clueless. I feel like this could give me a bit of a confidence boost and make approaching women in real life a lot less daunting. I’m tired of feeling like I’m stuck on the outside while everyone else has already got their reps in.
But I’m also worried about the downsides—like, is it actually going to help me in the long run, or am I just wasting my time and money? I get that it’s not a substitute for real interactions, but I’m hoping it could be a stepping stone to get me past this mental hurdle. Would love to hear if anyone here has been in a similar spot or has any advice on whether seeing an escort is worth it, or if I should just keep grinding and try to build my experience naturally. They are about $200 where I am located.
I’ve been seriously thinking about seeing an escort to just get it over with and finally know what it’s like to be intimate with someone. I’m not looking for a relationship or anything emotional; I just want to gain some basic experience so I’m not completely clueless. I feel like this could give me a bit of a confidence boost and make approaching women in real life a lot less daunting. I’m tired of feeling like I’m stuck on the outside while everyone else has already got their reps in.
But I’m also worried about the downsides—like, is it actually going to help me in the long run, or am I just wasting my time and money? I get that it’s not a substitute for real interactions, but I’m hoping it could be a stepping stone to get me past this mental hurdle. Would love to hear if anyone here has been in a similar spot or has any advice on whether seeing an escort is worth it, or if I should just keep grinding and try to build my experience naturally. They are about $200 where I am located.