25 year old virgin incel, never kissed, barely partied. Life's over.

N

notalive

Iron
Joined
Aug 13, 2022
Posts
83
Reputation
46
My first post. I'm a 25 virgin in the US. I'm a currycel, have severe acne scarring on face and body, and recessed and asymmetric bone structure.
Never kissed a girl. The most I've done is gone on a few failed dates. Because of my shit appearance, don't have friends and barely partied either.
Now approaching late 20s without any life experiences. So close to roping.
Currently coping with scar treatments and looking into bimax. Moneymaxxing as well but don't see the point when I don't think a woman will ever look at me with desire and attraction.
If these last couple hardmaxxes don't work, then will probably rope once 30.
 
  • So Sad
  • +1
Reactions: V1P3R, tall0ner, watah and 9 others
currycel
 
  • Love it
Reactions: ningenshikaku
PM pics. I've seen plenty of LTN get laid and slay, you might be overplaying your unattractiveness
 
  • Hmm...
Reactions: moreplatesmoreweigh
It's not just that though. I'm pretty light-skinned. It's more the severe acne scarring (think craters and potholes all over my face) and recession (small lower third and very asymmetric).
 
  • JFL
Reactions: Xangsane
sounds like you're living the dream, my nigga!
 
  • +1
  • JFL
Reactions: tall0ner, sportsmogger, ihatewhiterose and 2 others
you most likely haven't talked to enough girls
 
none of the things you described matter, whats your height and is your hair receeding only shit that matters
 
i know man, cruel for us
 
My first post. I'm a 25 virgin in the US. I'm a currycel, have severe acne scarring on face and body, and recessed and asymmetric bone structure.
Never kissed a girl. The most I've done is gone on a few failed dates. Because of my shit appearance, don't have friends and barely partied either.
Now approaching late 20s without any life experiences. So close to roping.
Currently coping with scar treatments and looking into bimax. Moneymaxxing as well but don't see the point when I don't think a woman will ever look at me with desire and attraction.
If these last couple hardmaxxes don't work, then will probably rope once 30.
You don't get girls at partys to fuck you just get them to have attention or their insta, you'll have more success being in groups of friends with females in it.
 
let us see u man
I haven't reached that level of comfort to share here yet. Once I figure out how to properly anonymize my photos and feel comfortable about maintaining my privacy, I might do it on this post or a later one.
 
you most likely haven't talked to enough girls
I know you have good intentions but I'm tired of coping, all that does is waste more time.
You don't think 25 years is enough time to have talked to girls? If I wasn't sub-human, don't you think a girl and I would've naturally gotten together if she found me attractive? And I did go on a few first dates. If I was attractive, maybe one of them would've stayed with me. But all of them said they couldn't see things going further.
If a man is attractive, a woman will find her way into his life by 25 years old without it being insanely difficult. I'm playing life on extreme difficulty.
 
Last edited:
You don't get girls at partys to fuck you just get them to have attention or their insta, you'll have more success being in groups of friends with females in it.
I do not have a groups of friends with females in them. However, I am in a working environment where there are plenty of young female co-workers, who I regularly see hit on or gossip about being attracted to my other male co-workers.

I also think my looks prevent people from becoming my friend. What is there to gain by dragging an ugly weasel along with you everywhere? People have good looking friends because being good looking is an indicator of better life experiences and adventure.
 
I know you have good intentions but I'm tired of coping, all that does is waste more time.
You don't think 25 years is enough time to have talked to girls? If I wasn't sub-human, don't you think a girl and I would've naturally gotten together if she found me attractive? And I did go on a few first dates. If I was attractive, maybe one of them would've stayed with me. But all of them said they couldn't see things going further.
If a man is attractive, a woman will find her way into his life by 25 years old without it being insanely difficult. I'm playing life on extreme difficulty.
i play it on easy mode
i talk shit with my 3 gf and they keep texting me everyday that I look good
 
i play it on easy mode
i talk shit with my 3 gf and they keep texting me everyday that I look good
Is this supposed to be a joke or satire? I've seen beautiful women crave attractive guys with absolutely 0 personality or a douchebag persona just for their looks, and they still can't get away from them even after being abused or ignored or cheated on.
 
can you even rope tho, the noose would probably slip off your receeding chin
 
  • JFL
Reactions: Youssef_ and notalive
none of the things you described matter, whats your height and is your hair receeding only shit that matters
Well, let me be proof that this cope is false. Being attractive to the female gaze is what matters, regardless of any specific feature. I'm 6'0" with a maturing hairline. I have long hair though so it looks like this picture from online:
1731280696526
 
how do u get dates pmo lil curry nigga
 
how do u get dates pmo lil curry nigga
Dating apps with good pictures and swiping thousands of times. Unfortunately, pictures can be very deceiving from in-motion. Basically catfishing.
 
  • +1
Reactions: Yerico7 and faustianspirit
I feel you bro, I am not gonna come up with some cope because I know from my own experience how over things can feel and probably are too. I am extremely assymetric with a none existent lower third aswell. I am white but that doesn't help. I am also mid 20s and never had a relationship. I will also take the surgery route and see if it will change something. If it doesn't, I am in the grave by thirty too, I really hope we both make it my man. Stay strong out there. I know how lonely things can become and how lost you can feel. There is no cope to this but just know that many experience the same thing. The only thing you can do is to try everything to get out of it. It might not be possible but it's worth the fight atleast
 
  • +1
Reactions: mazzi and notalive
Dating apps with good pictures and swiping thousands of times. Unfortunately, pictures can be very deceiving from in-motion. Basically catfishing.
keep swiping ur soulmate is almost there
 
I feel you bro, I am not gonna come up with some cope because I know from my own experience how over things can feel and probably are too. I am extremely assymetric with a none existent lower third aswell. I am white but that doesn't help. I am also mid 20s and never had a relationship. I will also take the surgery route and see if it will change something. If it doesn't, I am in the grave by thirty too, I really hope we both make it my man. Stay strong out there. I know how lonely things can become and how lost you can feel. There is no cope to this but just know that many experience the same thing. The only thing you can do is to try everything to get out of it. It might not be possible but it's worth the fight atleast
Everything's cope because I've already softmaxxed everything I can.
I'm tall, good hair, stubble, muscular, good money, hygienic, have hobbies, just not a lot of friends.
There's no cope left for me to hang onto except for a couple of far-fetched hardmaxxes like scar treatments and bimax. Anything else like "talk to more girls" or "get more friends" is delusional schizo cope.
Even if those hardmaxxes are finished by 26 or 27, that's almost 10-12 years of experience with women I could've had but never did.
 
Last edited:
  • +1
Reactions: yue
keep swiping ur soulmate is almost there
I ran out of profiles to swipe on in my city. That's when I knew it was over. And I live in a city with tens of thousands of young women.
 
Everything's cope because I've already softmaxxed everything I can.
I'm tall, good hair, stubble, muscular, good money, hygienic, have hobbies, just not a lot of friends.
There's no cope left for me to hang onto except for a couple of far-fetched hardmaxxes like scar treatments and bimax. Anything else like "talk to more girls" or "get more friends" is delusional schizo cope.
Even if those are finished by 26 or 27, that's almost 10-12 years of experience with women I could've had but never did.
how is talking to more girls cope jfl
if u arent chad do not expect chad treatment
u need to chase bitches, to hunt them down type shit (metaphorically of course dont kill them)
 
  • JFL
Reactions: iwanttoascend1234
Everything's cope because I've already softmaxxed everything I can.
I'm tall, good hair, stubble, muscular, good money, hygienic, have hobbies, just not a lot of friends.
There's no cope left for me to hang onto except for a couple of far-fetched hardmaxxes like scar treatments and bimax. Anything else like "talk to more girls" or "get more friends" is delusional schizo cope.
Even if those hardmaxxes are finished by 26 or 27, that's almost 10-12 years of experience with women I could've had but never did.
I mean yes there are no copes. Copes are mostly for when you have gave up. You can cope instead of rope. And yes this life is extremely unfair, and its a clown world overall. To be fair bimax will not be able to save me, my whole skull is fucked so yes it's over. I should actually cope with goon fiesta and video games. But I know that it won't work long-term
 
sad, focus on other stuff mate, there's beauty in the world
 
how is talking to more girls cope jfl
if u arent chad do not expect chad treatment
u need to chase bitches, to hunt them down type shit (metaphorically of course dont kill them)
It's cope because I've tried talking to women since high school into college and beyond, and there's a pattern of continuous rejection. What point is there in torturing myself with continued rejection when it clearly will not work. It's like trying to out-run a car. You can try really hard, but never will.

Also, is it not odd that a single women has ever complimented me or expressed genuine attraction towards me? No one except my mother has ever said "handsome kid" or "good looking!". Not even relatives on Facebook photo posts lmao. Not even the women I've been on dates with. When will a women even give me a second look or eye contact??? At the gym or literally anywhere. I would die if that ever happened.
 
  • +1
Reactions: akz
I mean yes there are no copes. Copes are mostly for when you have gave up. You can cope instead of rope. And yes this life is extremely unfair, and its a clown world overall. To be fair bimax will not be able to save me, my whole skull is fucked so yes it's over. I should actually cope with goon fiesta and video games. But I know that it won't work long-term
Coping with those things is such a temporary fix. The underlying cause of the suffering is what matters and you will always come back to it if it isn't fixed. If I really wanted to cope successfully, I could just do drugs like opioids, alcohol, weed, or stimulants paired with video games and shit.

And I wouldn't write-off bimax that quickly dude, it's one of the only real solutions out there with a measurable improvement in looks. I'd say go for it!
 
  • +1
Reactions: akz
just send pics idk what you expect us to tell you
 
sad, focus on other stuff mate, there's beauty in the world
The primal human desire of partnership and intimacy is something one can never deny. Not even to mention the enrichment of life and new experiences that having a partner brings to your life.
 
  • +1
Reactions: akz
Coping with those things is such a temporary fix. The underlying cause of the suffering is what matters and you will always come back to it if it isn't fixed. If I really wanted to cope successfully, I could just do drugs like opioids, alcohol, weed, or stimulants paired with video games and shit.

And I wouldn't write-off bimax that quickly dude, it's one of the only real solutions out there with a measurable improvement in looks. I'd say go for it!
Yes I already booked, Its happening. But it will rip my financials but if it improves looks + health issues I have it def worth it. But if it fails then I am out of this bs
 
The primal human desire of partnership and intimacy is something one can never deny. Not even to mention the enrichment of life and new experiences that having a partner brings to your life.
whilst you may never find a wife that doesn't mean you have to be a social outcast, can't experience sex with hookers, can't get pets and bond with them, can't go on adventures throughout the world
 
  • +1
Reactions: notalive
The primal human desire of partnership and intimacy is something one can never deny. Not even to mention the enrichment of life and new experiences that having a partner brings to your life.
There are plenty of married men btw who are stuck in worse situations than you, they have sexless thankless marriages with kids who hate them, and they will either blow up one day or wither away because their life is so incongruent.
 
My first post. I'm a 25 virgin in the US. I'm a currycel, have severe acne scarring on face and body, and recessed and asymmetric bone structure.
Never kissed a girl. The most I've done is gone on a few failed dates. Because of my shit appearance, don't have friends and barely partied either.
Now approaching late 20s without any life experiences. So close to roping.
Currently coping with scar treatments and looking into bimax. Moneymaxxing as well but don't see the point when I don't think a woman will ever look at me with desire and attraction.
If these last couple hardmaxxes don't work, then will probably rope once 30.
kill yourself you don’t deserve to live
 
It's cope because I've tried talking to women since high school into college and beyond, and there's a pattern of continuous rejection. What point is there in torturing myself with continued rejection when it clearly will not work. It's like trying to out-run a car. You can try really hard, but never will.

Also, is it not odd that a single women has ever complimented me or expressed genuine attraction towards me? No one except my mother has ever said "handsome kid" or "good looking!". Not even relatives on Facebook photo posts lmao. Not even the women I've been on dates with. When will a women even give me a second look or eye contact??? At the gym or literally anywhere. I would die if that ever happened.
damn u might be very ugly then
still what do u expect to happen? if u dont chase women and they dont chase u either how are u getting out of ur current situation?
 
kill yourself you don’t deserve to live
I knew this post was going to attract trolls, and you're probably a kid. Buddy, I don't need anyone to tell me that. I'll figure out when it's the right time to do that on my own.
 
damn u might be very ugly then
still what do u expect to happen? if u dont chase women and they dont chase u either how are u getting out of ur current situation?
True
 
start an MNC and surgerymax
 
I knew this post was going to attract trolls, and you're probably a kid. Buddy, I don't need anyone to tell me that. I'll figure out when it's the right time to do that on my own.
i’m 18 , you should asap
 
Also I've done the dating app tests and Omegle test multiple times, both when I was younger at ~18-19 and even now.
Dating apps - like 1 match in every 500 swipes.
Omegle - skipped by literally everyone and called ugly or "eww" by every single women.
 
  • JFL
Reactions: Xangsane
Its not over , get surgeries now and ascend
 
My first post. I'm a 25 virgin in the US. I'm a currycel, have severe acne scarring on face and body, and recessed and asymmetric bone structure.
Never kissed a girl. The most I've done is gone on a few failed dates. Because of my shit appearance, don't have friends and barely partied either.
Now approaching late 20s without any life experiences. So close to roping.
Currently coping with scar treatments and looking into bimax. Moneymaxxing as well but don't see the point when I don't think a woman will ever look at me with desire and attraction.
If these last couple hardmaxxes don't work, then will probably rope once 30.
Beyond over, not your fault you were never meant to succeed.
 
I dont understand how people have these kinds of problems. At 13 years old, I was getting all the girls could ever want, and I was an LTN. I think you either have the worst personality ever or you just can't talk to women.I Going to parties every weekend with my older friends who would sneak me in. Honestly, you might just be really unlucky and have just given up. But its almost never over.
My first post. I'm a 25 virgin in the US. I'm a currycel, have severe acne scarring on face and body, and recessed and asymmetric bone structure.
Never kissed a girl. The most I've done is gone on a few failed dates. Because of my shit appearance, don't have friends and barely partied either.
Now approaching late 20s without any life experiences. So close to roping.
Currently coping with scar treatments and looking into bimax. Moneymaxxing as well but don't see the point when I don't think a woman will ever look at me with desire and attraction.
If these last couple hardmaxxes don't work, then will probably rope once
 
  • +1
  • Ugh..
Reactions: mazzi and autistic_tendencies

Users who are viewing this thread

Back
Top