25M Context: went to a church in Curitiba (Brazil) to help with an English class. I speak English and the Elder with me is a native speaker(american).

[LTNDEPRESSEDLATINO]

Problem: During the activity, a man in his 40s started mocking us, calling us “dumb” and comparing me to Mr. Bean, as if I were acting goofy or caricatured. I laughed it off to avoid conflict because it was a church environment, but it felt humiliating. I said: '' Are you a loser/ Are you a fool?'', cuz he doesnt understand english very well, he was on a basic level. Later, the same guy even asked me to pay for his Uber. This really sucks when you are trying to get ouf of depression, and then i remember that my depression was caused by society, therefore i started to avoid exposing myself in public.

I’ve dealt with bullying my whole life. I’m 25, short (1.68m), and I feel like people often treat me as less masculine or less respectable. This kind of thing has happened since school, and even now that I’m trying to rebuild my mental health, stuff like this hits hard.

I want honest feedback: is there something in my appearance or vibe that makes people feel comfortable disrespecting me? Do I come across as passive or easy to mess with?

Also, I feel like people underestimate how much long-term humiliation can destroy someone’s mental health. I’m not justifying violence at all — I hate violence — but constant humiliation can push people into very dark places mentally.

Do you think this is genetics + plus behavior or genetics only? I act confidently, speak out loud and i try to impose respect, im not weak or anything;

This is probably my last post. Feel free to be brutally honest. My face is a bit swollen cuz i woke up 1h ago.

Any honest feedback on my looks, demeanor, or presence is welcome.

 

[TheTD7]

fat loss then bimax after

 

[LTNDEPRESSEDLATINO]

fat loss then bimax after

whats my issue?