StressShady
I am Jack's wasted life
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Hello everyone, long time lurker here.
Before I go on with this thread, I want to make it clear that my advice is to late virgins and/or sexually inexperienced men. This is NOT for those forum members that are already getting laid. Please keep this in mind.
Many people don't know how hard it is to be a late virgin. I lost my virginity to a prostitute at 25 because I couldn't take it anymore. The social pressure was huge.
I have to say that this is one of the best decisions I've made in my life and I don't regret it one bit.
I've been lurking enough to know for a fact that there are many members in this forum that are either virgins or have had very few sexual partners.
So this is my advice to you:
Please do yourself a favor and stop wasting your time reading ebooks and watching videos about how to be more successful with women.
Stop with the hundreds of cold approaches only to get a couple of makeouts here and there.
And don't even think about spending thousands of dollars on bootcamps.
These things will not help you.
If you are like I was 3 years ago then you're probably so scared and afraid of having sex with a woman that it doesn't matter at all if you have the best seduction knowledge in the planet.
It doesn't matter how many hours of meditation you have under your belt or how "independent of outcome" you've trained yourself to be.
When I had no experience with sex I was always insecure around women, especially those who were somewhat attractive or those who I knew had a good amount of sexual experience. Sex was something rare and unknown to me. I thought it was a huge deal.
It was as if there was something inside of me that stopped me from being comfortable around women. No amount of meditation or cognitive behavioral therapy could solve this problem.
Here's the thing man:
Only sex can give you sexual confidence.
The more sex you have with the more amount of women, the more comfortable and confident overall you will be around them.
Some people might argue that sex with prostitutes is not real sex and that it cannot help.
Well, that's BULL****.
That is obviously coming from people who have never ****ed a prostitute before.
I gained more confidence from having sex with prostitutes that I ever had in 3 years of reading seduction material, cold approaching, and meditating.
I no longer know what performance anxiety is. I actually laugh at the concept of performance anxiety.
If a hot and experienced woman tells me she wants to have sex, I no longer feel "I can't handle her".
If a friend introduces me to a cute girl, I no longer feel nervous or anxious.
Now, I'm not saying I became a player. I am definitely not ****ing hot babes left and right.
What I'm saying is that having sex with prostitutes helped me 100x times more than any seduction material I ever studied.
I feel sorry for those who watch DVDs and download ebooks/products from the community. But I can understand them because I was the same. Self help is addictive. It feels good to watch Tyler doing speeches or to download the latest product from a private site.
But if you're a virgin or sexually inexperienced, none of that **** is going to help you get women.
It is up to you if you want to take my advice. I just know it worked very well for me.
Just remember to use condoms for vaginal/anal sex every single time without exception.
Oh, by the way, speaking of porn.
Do not masturbate to porn ever again in your life.
Porn is poison. It creates unrealistic sexual expectations. It kills your libido. When I used to watch porn on a regular basis I never wanted to go out. I was lazy as ****. I had erectile dysfunction and women didn't turn me on unless they had huge tits and round asses. You become "pornosexual" instead of heterosexual.
Try to go a month without masturbation and without porn. It is insanely difficult, but it will make you so horny that it will override many of your insecurities with women. You will also start to appreciate life more.
Just my advice.
PS/ Remember that the whole point of having sex with prostitutes is to get you comfortable with intimacy, so that eventually you can be confident enough around girls. I believe that having sex with 10 prostitutes is WAY BETTER than attending a bootcamp
Discuss
Hello everyone, long time lurker here.
Before I go on with this thread, I want to make it clear that my advice is to late virgins and/or sexually inexperienced men. This is NOT for those forum members that are already getting laid. Please keep this in mind.
Many people don't know how hard it is to be a late virgin. I lost my virginity to a prostitute at 25 because I couldn't take it anymore. The social pressure was huge.
I have to say that this is one of the best decisions I've made in my life and I don't regret it one bit.
I've been lurking enough to know for a fact that there are many members in this forum that are either virgins or have had very few sexual partners.
So this is my advice to you:
Please do yourself a favor and stop wasting your time reading ebooks and watching videos about how to be more successful with women.
Stop with the hundreds of cold approaches only to get a couple of makeouts here and there.
And don't even think about spending thousands of dollars on bootcamps.
These things will not help you.
If you are like I was 3 years ago then you're probably so scared and afraid of having sex with a woman that it doesn't matter at all if you have the best seduction knowledge in the planet.
It doesn't matter how many hours of meditation you have under your belt or how "independent of outcome" you've trained yourself to be.
When I had no experience with sex I was always insecure around women, especially those who were somewhat attractive or those who I knew had a good amount of sexual experience. Sex was something rare and unknown to me. I thought it was a huge deal.
It was as if there was something inside of me that stopped me from being comfortable around women. No amount of meditation or cognitive behavioral therapy could solve this problem.
Here's the thing man:
Only sex can give you sexual confidence.
The more sex you have with the more amount of women, the more comfortable and confident overall you will be around them.
Some people might argue that sex with prostitutes is not real sex and that it cannot help.
Well, that's BULL****.
That is obviously coming from people who have never ****ed a prostitute before.
I gained more confidence from having sex with prostitutes that I ever had in 3 years of reading seduction material, cold approaching, and meditating.
I no longer know what performance anxiety is. I actually laugh at the concept of performance anxiety.
If a hot and experienced woman tells me she wants to have sex, I no longer feel "I can't handle her".
If a friend introduces me to a cute girl, I no longer feel nervous or anxious.
Now, I'm not saying I became a player. I am definitely not ****ing hot babes left and right.
What I'm saying is that having sex with prostitutes helped me 100x times more than any seduction material I ever studied.
I feel sorry for those who watch DVDs and download ebooks/products from the community. But I can understand them because I was the same. Self help is addictive. It feels good to watch Tyler doing speeches or to download the latest product from a private site.
But if you're a virgin or sexually inexperienced, none of that **** is going to help you get women.
It is up to you if you want to take my advice. I just know it worked very well for me.
Just remember to use condoms for vaginal/anal sex every single time without exception.
Oh, by the way, speaking of porn.
Do not masturbate to porn ever again in your life.
Porn is poison. It creates unrealistic sexual expectations. It kills your libido. When I used to watch porn on a regular basis I never wanted to go out. I was lazy as ****. I had erectile dysfunction and women didn't turn me on unless they had huge tits and round asses. You become "pornosexual" instead of heterosexual.
Try to go a month without masturbation and without porn. It is insanely difficult, but it will make you so horny that it will override many of your insecurities with women. You will also start to appreciate life more.
Just my advice.
PS/ Remember that the whole point of having sex with prostitutes is to get you comfortable with intimacy, so that eventually you can be confident enough around girls. I believe that having sex with 10 prostitutes is WAY BETTER than attending a bootcamp
Discuss