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The battlefield is rigged. Dating has become a minefield of delusion, entitlement, and red flags that glow brighter than a nuclear meltdown.
Therefore, I present to you:
40 Red Flags That Scream Abort Mission 
These signs should offer some guidance to prevent you from turning into future cucks, simps, and divorce settlement victims. You ignore them, you deserve whatâs coming.
So, without further ado, weâre diving straight into the minefield. Buckle up.
1. She is not a virgin.
2. She doesnât want children.
3. She had an unhealthy upbringing.
4. She dyes her hair black and wears dark clothes.
5. She is obsessed with social media or her phone.
6. She has male friends she hangs out with without you.
7. She asks about your financial status.
8. She is extremely jealous.
9. She cares too much about her appearance.
10. She researches feminism and cares about womenâs rights.
11. She has tattoos.
12. She has a septum piercing.
13. She says sheâs "figuring out her dating goals."
14. She is a single mother.
15. She wants "princess treatment."
16. She calls herself an "alpha female."
17. She says "men are trash."
18. She says "I deserve it all."
19. She calls herself a "goddess."
20. She claims sheâs funny.
21. She gets offended easily.
22. She calls herself a "career woman"/brags about her degrees.
23. She says "spoil me."
24. She calls herself an "entrepreneur."
25. She smokes/takes drugs.
26. She lists demands but offers nothing.
27. She wants a man who can cook.
28. She is vaccinated and/or identifies with the latest trends.
29. She calls herself a leftist/Marxist/communist.
30. She has a male dog.
31. She likes to travel.
32. She likes to party.
33. She likes Marvel movies.
34. She drinks alcohol.
35. She has a public Instagram profile.
36. She dresses like a whore.
37. She doesnât eat healthy.
38. She is overweight/out of shape.
39. She is obsessed with the gym/working out.
40. She moved out of her parentsâ house at a young age.
That concludes the list of 40 red flags that men should look for. Hopefully, this will be helpful to some of you guys out there.
Most of these things should be common sense, but this is just some guidance to set you on your way.
Let me know if there are other things I could have added/changed to the list.



Therefore, I present to you:





These signs should offer some guidance to prevent you from turning into future cucks, simps, and divorce settlement victims. You ignore them, you deserve whatâs coming.
So, without further ado, weâre diving straight into the minefield. Buckle up.



1. She is not a virgin.
If sheâs been with even one guy before you, your relationship is doomed. She will always have him in her head. Even if sheâs not thinking about him 24/7, she will never truly forget him. If he died, maybe there will be a chance, but mentally, she will never be the same. The attraction of a woman comes from her inexperience - that will never return.
Something is biochemically/hormonally wrong with her. She asks you to use a condom, preventing any real biochemical connection. Or sheâs on the pill, which ruins her mood and makes her unbearable. Alternatively, sheâs infertile and wonât admit it or caught an STD that ruined her womb.
If her parents divorced or she lacked proper contact with her father, she has daddy issues. She will never be able to maintain a stable relationship with a man. Youâre likely not her first, and you wonât be her last.
She listens to masculine music like metal or belongs to the gothic scene. Girls like this have severe mental issues. A natural, innocent girl is what you should be looking for.
She watches TikTok, follows other women on Instagram, and consumes their content on YouTube. NPC behavior. She worships celebrities instead of you. If she has a Tinder account or any other dating apps, sheâs already ruined: modern women and feminism have corrupted her.
Theyâre all into her, and sheâs probably into some of them. Women should never spend time with men who arenât their partners. Men and women are never just friends.
If she truly liked you, she wouldnât ask. Itâs none of her business. If she expects you to pay for everything while pursuing a career herself, sheâs a hypocrite. If her bank account is full, money shouldnât even be a topic.
If she wonât let you meet your friends or family, sheâs controlling. She will talk badly about everyone around you to isolate you.
She is insecure and seeks attention. She wears excessive makeup, dresses slutty, and exposes herself to other men. If she openly talks about sex around others or sends nudes early on, sheâs done this with many guys before.
She cuts her hair short and dyes it pink, blue, or green. At that point, sheâs a lost cause. You might think you can fix her, but you canât. She will ruin you and your future relationships.
They've been indoctrinated through the media and through the education system, and so on, to have a feminist mindset. A feminist is just an insecure man-hater.
They're usually also ugly and so upset about the fact that they're ugly that they become angry towards men.
And if you see a woman who's attractive and she calls herself a feminist, she's even more insidious because she's got less reason to be an insecure man hater, but yet she still is. These types are either extreme narcissists or psychopaths, avoid at all costs.
They've been indoctrinated through the media and through the education system, and so on, to have a feminist mindset. A feminist is just an insecure man-hater.
They're usually also ugly and so upset about the fact that they're ugly that they become angry towards men.
And if you see a woman who's attractive and she calls herself a feminist, she's even more insidious because she's got less reason to be an insecure man hater, but yet she still is. These types are either extreme narcissists or psychopaths, avoid at all costs.
Tattoos = no class. She follows pop culture blindly. If she had class, she wouldnât deface her body permanently. Even if she regrets it, she's not going to let you convince her that what she's done to her body conveys a lack of class because she probably doesn't have enough money to get them removed so she's just gonna bury her head in the sand even deeper and dig her heels in.
Absolutely disgusting. These are usually women who do not have a mind of their own, they're total sheep, they just copy the latest trend. No matter how ridiculous it is, they go ahead and do that. Septum piercings are an indication that a girl just has no mind of her own, most likely a total slut too.
Translation: Sheâs sleeping around. This is just the modern version of "itâs complicated."
Avoid at all costs. If she was wife material, she wouldnât be single with a kid. Youâre raising another manâs child, like a cuck. It also means their judgment is poor and somebody with poor judgment isn't somebody that you want to be with.
Code for lazy and entitled. She expects you to spoil her while bringing nothing to the table.
Doesnât exist in nature - zero self-awareness. No man wants a masculine woman. The masculine energy is attracted to feminine energy. There is nothing feminine about alpha. That is a masculine energy. And yet these women around here calling themselves ââalpha femalesââ, ââboss bitchesââ and all this type of shit.
Women naturally look for men who are taller than themselves, stronger than themselves, decisive leaders, and so forth. And that's what these alpha female types are completely clueless about. Opposites attract. Masculine men need feminine women. That's how it goes
Women naturally look for men who are taller than themselves, stronger than themselves, decisive leaders, and so forth. And that's what these alpha female types are completely clueless about. Opposites attract. Masculine men need feminine women. That's how it goes
Women who say men are trash are the type of women who when you break up with them will run around talking shit about you to everybody trying to ruin your reputation. If they can, they'll make false allegations about you.
They are bitter and vindictive. Avoid them at all costs unless you want your life to go upside down. Unless you want to end up in serious problems.
They are bitter and vindictive. Avoid them at all costs unless you want your life to go upside down. Unless you want to end up in serious problems.
You are dealing with an absolute narcissist. Narcissism is a trait that can work better in a relationship, but only when it's a narcissistic man as opposed to a narcissistic woman.
A narcissistic woman is completely useless in a family who will ship off the kids all the time to her parents or to anybody that can babysit them so she can go out partying. A narcissistic woman is gonna do nothing for a man. All she's gonna do is take.
A narcissistic woman is toxic in a relationship. You don't want a narcissistic woman, a woman who's self-obsessed. The whole thing about feminine energy is that it isn't narcissistic. It's nurturing, it's caring, and it's there, which is more selfless than selfish. The masculine energy is more selfish.
A narcissistic woman is completely useless in a family who will ship off the kids all the time to her parents or to anybody that can babysit them so she can go out partying. A narcissistic woman is gonna do nothing for a man. All she's gonna do is take.
A narcissistic woman is toxic in a relationship. You don't want a narcissistic woman, a woman who's self-obsessed. The whole thing about feminine energy is that it isn't narcissistic. It's nurturing, it's caring, and it's there, which is more selfless than selfish. The masculine energy is more selfish.
These are not just narcissists. These are malignant narcissists, extreme narcissists. If a man called himself a god, people would laugh. If you get involved with a woman like that, you are a fucking idiot. It's just that simple. Avoid at all costs.
If she has to tell you, she isnât. 10 times out of 10, when a woman claims to be funny, she is the least funny person you have ever met in your entire life. People who are genuinely funny don't need to advertise it. Women, in general, are not funny. Humor is really a man's thing.
Neurotic. Sheâll rant about "toxic masculinity" and make your life hell. A woman who's neurotic is not someone you want to date.
Clueless. Men donât care about a womanâs education when it comes to attraction. If she prioritizes a degree/career over a family, discard.
They will have all of these meaningless accolades and qualifications, yet they cannot for the life of them figure out the way men think and what men want. They just don't get it, future cat moms.
They will have all of these meaningless accolades and qualifications, yet they cannot for the life of them figure out the way men think and what men want. They just don't get it, future cat moms.
Sheâs a parasite. She's just there to drain your resources. She's there for no other purpose. She doesn't intend to give anything back. If you fall for it, you deserve what you get.
Either an OnlyFans whore or drowning in debt.
If women worked as hard on themselves as they do on their ââentrepreneurshipââ and all of this garbage, most of them would be married with children. But because they are focused on the wrong things, theyâre not.
If women worked as hard on themselves as they do on their ââentrepreneurshipââ and all of this garbage, most of them would be married with children. But because they are focused on the wrong things, theyâre not.
Drug use and smoking signal low value, akin to excessive drinking, reflecting poor judgment. Risk-taking is inherently masculine: women should preserve value, not diminish it.
The only reason that a woman wouldn't mention what she brings to the table after a long list of demands is because she doesn't bring anything to the table. It's dead simple.
A woman saying she wants a man who can cook means that she either can't cook, won't cook or worse, both.
As a man, why would you want to be with a woman who has no intention of cooking in the house? Literally useless for a household. How the fuck you can have children with a woman who can't cook? Get the fuck out of here.
As a man, why would you want to be with a woman who has no intention of cooking in the house? Literally useless for a household. How the fuck you can have children with a woman who can't cook? Get the fuck out of here.
NPC alert. She follows whatever the government tells her. Mentally ill and has no grasp on reality. Walking ideology, not an individual.
She's an NPC with no ability to think for herself. Herd mentality, herd mindset. One day it's vaccinated, the next day it's Palestine, the next day it's Ukraine etc. These people can't fucking think for themselves. You do not want a woman who takes her orders from the government and corporations. That means will literally have an agent of those insidious organizations in your home if you're with a woman like that.
She's an NPC with no ability to think for herself. Herd mentality, herd mindset. One day it's vaccinated, the next day it's Palestine, the next day it's Ukraine etc. These people can't fucking think for themselves. You do not want a woman who takes her orders from the government and corporations. That means will literally have an agent of those insidious organizations in your home if you're with a woman like that.
Mentally ill. Zero understanding of the world works. They think you if you keep on trying out communism it's somehow going to work when all it ever did was cause genocide. Bound to fuck up your country.
If it's a little chihuahua, that's okay. But if it's a woman who's got a pitbull or any kind of like aggressive/powerful looking dog and it's a male, avoid at all costs. My hypothesis is that this is an extension of her desire to control human males.
She has got this powerful male animal on a leash which she can control.
When she tells it sit, it sits. This is her way of asserting some type of control and some type of power over the masculine energy. This is indicative of a woman who wants to try and be an ââalphaââ herself in a lot of instances.
She has got this powerful male animal on a leash which she can control.
When she tells it sit, it sits. This is her way of asserting some type of control and some type of power over the masculine energy. This is indicative of a woman who wants to try and be an ââalphaââ herself in a lot of instances.
Sheâs a slut who will try to pass it off as ââexploring herselfââ.
Excuse for being a slut/sleeping around.
She's got the mental age of a 7-year-old. Bunch of adults in there behaving like children, utterly embarrassing.
Gateway to promiscuity, premature ageing etc.
Sheâs a slut desperate for male attention.
No explanation needed.
A disaster waiting to happen. Being biochemically unhealthy breeds mental illnesses, infertility etc.
Fixable, but being out of shape when not having any children is still unacceptable.
Most likely has body dysmorphia. Reduces her lifespan by stressing out her body constantly, speedrunning infertility. Also shows off her body to other men in the gym for attention, avoid.
Excuse to sleep around and be a slut without consequences. Doesnât respect her father. Lost cause.
That concludes the list of 40 red flags that men should look for. Hopefully, this will be helpful to some of you guys out there.
Most of these things should be common sense, but this is just some guidance to set you on your way.
Let me know if there are other things I could have added/changed to the list.

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