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[Deleted member 2268]

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[Deleted member 2268]

@chadison @CupOfCoffee @JamesHowlett

 

[khvirgin]

If you're tall bar and clubs work

 

[Deleted member 2268]

If you're tall bar and clubs work

Did you read my fucking post. Yeah it works but its a ton of effort and unhealthy and you're not usually going to get stacy unless you live in a massive city with good nightlife. I am debating just setting up dates on the weekends instead of going to bars.

 

[Anasurimbor]

no its not. You will soon quikly realise that the quality of your pulls in real life mog by 1/2+ points your online matches.
Its not just the quality of matches is the problem, but the amount of flakes you are going to encounter while trying to set up dates.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

no its not. You will soon quikly realise that the quality of your pulls in real life mog by 1/2+ your online matches.
Its not just the quality of matches is the problem, but the amount of flakes you are going to encounter while trying to set up dates.

I combat flakes by double stacking dates. Setting 2 dates in the same time slot in case one flakes. Quality of my online matches is higher than my pulls. Many Stacie’s and high tier Beckie’s I match with. Another way to combat flakes is to just set up more dates in general.

5 dates set per wk probably 2 will flake. Now you just need to close 1/3 dates to bang a new girl per wk

 

[Anasurimbor]

I combat flakes by double stacking dates. Setting 2 dates in the same time slot in case one flakes. Quality of my online matches is higher than my pulls. Many Stacie’s and high tier Beckie’s I match with

then you are lucky outlier. I/ my friends who are like 1 htn/1 chadlite all ussualy date down in old. In real life quality was always higher.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

then you are lucky outlier. I/ my friends who are like 1 htn/1 chadlite all ussualy date down in old. In real life quality was always

What apps do you use

 

[edodalic29]

another humble brag

 

[khvirgin]

Did you read my fucking post. Yeah it works but its a ton of effort and unhealthy and you're not usually going to get stacy unless you live in a massive city with good nightlife. I am debating just setting up dates on the weekends instead of going to bars.

How is unhealthy?

 

[Deleted member 2268]

How is unhealthy?

Drinking alcohol staying up late etc

 

[2d v2]

setting up dates is useless. havent used tinder in over a year but they were all fat and ugly that i woud never even look at irl.

Learn to socialize IRL and spend free times in clubs and bars, ive never gotten laid on tinder but like two dozen or more times from clubs and bars over the last 4 years. and thats maybe from going 100 different times.

 

[LongForgotten]

no its not. You will soon quikly realise that the quality of your pulls in real life mog by 1/2+ points your online matches.
Its not just the quality of matches is the problem, but the amount of flakes you are going to encounter while trying to set up dates.

This is so true. Just got flaked after a first date I thought went great and haven't felt this bad in ages

 

[Anasurimbor]

What apps do you use

tinder.

This is so true. Just got flaked after a first date I thought went great and haven't felt this bad in ages

you are not alone. had dates ending with a kiss and then getting completely ghosted. And other dates where i felt that convo and vibe was completely dead with 0 chemistry and then boom, a week later they take initiative and propose a 2d date. Like wtf.

And before autists start their favourite - *chad never gets flaked nonsense* - he also does. If you are a chad you gonna want to date stacy and at one point you will encounter the same problem as mtn trying to date hes looksmatch.

 

[LongForgotten]

tinder.

you are not alone. had dates ending with a kiss and then getting completely ghosted. And other dates where i felt that convo and vibe was completely dead with 0 chemistry and then boom, a week later they take initiative and propose a 2d date. Like wtf.

And before autists start their favourite - *chad never gets flaked nonsense* - he also does. If you are a chad you gonna want to date stacy and at one point you will encounter the same problem as mtn trying to date hes looksmatch.

Dude the girl was so my type too, dark hair dark eyes with a good ass. It's almost like the key to slaying is to just have 0 potential attachment to girls and just approach as many as possible.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Dude the girl was so my type too, dark hair dark eyes with a good ass. It's almost like the key to slaying is to just have 0 potential attachment to girls and just approach as many as possible.

Yeah exactly this. Treat it like sales.

 

[Anasurimbor]

Dude the girl was so my type too, dark hair dark eyes with a good ass. It's almost like the key to slaying is to just have 0 potential attachment to girls and just approach as many as possible.

pretty much yh. the *oneitis* and attachment all has to do with oxytocin receptor sensitivity. Some are born with weak ones, while others are very sensitive ( get oneitis for every new girl). Sadly the only sustainable way to *dull* it- experience and meet many partners hence why slutshaming exist because it works for 2 genders and for a female= more males> less chance that a woman will commit in ltr because she just cant get attached to that extent after multiple pumps and dumps.

 

[LongForgotten]

Yeah exactly this. Treat it like sales.

Yes but I feel like the meaning behind it decreases then.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Yes but I feel like the meaning behind it decreases then.

The meaning is to bang girls

 

[LongForgotten]

The meaning is to bang girls

That's pretty subjective depending on who you ask. If your goal is to solely slay yes, dates not necessarily.

 

[LongForgotten]

pretty much yh. the *oneitis* and attachment all has to do with oxytocin receptor sensitivity. Some are born with weak ones, while others are very sensitive ( get oneitis for every new girl). Sadly the only sustainable way to *dull* it- experience and meet many partners hence why slutshaming exist because it works for 2 genders and for a female= more males> less chance that a woman will commit in ltr because she just cant get attached to that extent after multiple pumps and dumps.

Know what makes it even weirder? SHE approached me at a party after they were looking at me all the time.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Know what makes it even weirder? SHE approached me at a party after they were looking at me all the time.

Who cares onto the next one don’t be soft

 

[LongForgotten]

Who cares onto the next one don’t be soft

Alright robot

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Alright robot

Get on tren asap

 

[chadison]

To be honest with u dude, I’ve realized that the best way to get women is to not care about them. A few months ago, and I’m not sure exactly what happened to trigger it, I realized that pursing hobbies and self-improvement really is more fulfilling than women. For me at least, my genetic predisposition is stress and grind rather than hedonism. I would recommend finding something that you can get good at that you enjoy that puts you in the vicinity of women. For me (currently in college) I started to learn how to DJ. Not only did this bring me away from drinking, but I built a huge amount of confidence performing around people, and now I’m working around my town at many venues. Ironically, I get hit on by a lot of women but don’t care that much anymore. You’re probably on the hedonism treadmill moving from FWB to FWB which is fine honestly, just don’t expect it to be fulfilling in the long run. And it’s also not a long term strategy, since as the years go by women will look for looks AND money AND status. So I would do what I’m trying to do, which is build habits and hobbies that are useful, fun, and you’re good at. That builds success and happiness in the long run much more than women.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

To be honest with u dude, I’ve realized that the best way to get women is to not care about them. A few months ago, and I’m not sure exactly what happened to trigger it, I realized that pursing hobbies and self-improvement really is more fulfilling than women. For me at least, my genetic predisposition is stress and grind rather than hedonism. I would recommend finding something that you can get good at that you enjoy that puts you in the vicinity of women. For me (currently in college) I started to learn how to DJ. Not only did this bring me away from drinking, but I built a huge amount of confidence performing around people, and now I’m working around my town at many venues. Ironically, I get hit on by a lot of women but don’t care that much anymore. You’re probably on the hedonism treadmill moving from FWB to FWB which is fine honestly, just don’t expect it to be fulfilling in the long run. And it’s also not a long term strategy, since as the years go by women will look for looks AND money AND status. So I would do what I’m trying to do, which is build habits and hobbies that are useful, fun, and you’re good at. That builds success and happiness in the long run much more than women.

What’s your laycount?

 

[chadison]

What’s your laycount?

11 currently. I stopped trying to hook up this last May. It got boring after I fucked a 6/10 who was pretty into me. I had an epiphany that I was wasting my time, I knew I would get bored and move on to the next girl within a month. Kind of what Amnesia describes about how escalation/sex is very routine/mechanical for him, so much so it takes the fun out of it. As him and I have very similar genetic personalities, I find myself experiencing many of the same things he has spoken about, including that. Sex for me now is literally less fun than getting a good pump on chest day. I realized what I had been chasing was the feeling I was good enough, the validation and dopamine hit I got when I knew a girl wanted to bang me (and then banging her). It was a power thing, which was rooted in insecurity due to bullying and other things in my childhood. Once I confronted this issue head on, I suddenly had much less a desire to engage in sexual conquest.


Most of my lays have been 6/10ish girls, or ~75th percentile in looks. A few average and one 7/10. So not top end, but decent enough (plus they were my type in some way, gym, coloring, personality etc). Most of them have been in college.

 

[Amnesia]

11 currently. I stopped trying to hook up this last May. It got boring after I fucked a 6/10 who was pretty into me. I had an epiphany that I was wasting my time, I knew I would get bored and move on to the next girl within a month. Kind of what Amnesia describes about how escalation/sex is very routine/mechanical for him, so much so it takes the fun out of it. As him and I have very similar genetic personalities, I find myself experiencing many of the same things he has spoken about, including that. Sex for me now is literally less fun than getting a good pump on chest day. I realized what I had been chasing was the feeling I was good enough, the validation and dopamine hit I got when I knew a girl wanted to bang me (and then banging her). It was a power thing, which was rooted in insecurity due to bullying and other things in my childhood. Once I confronted this issue head on, I suddenly had much less a desire to engage in sexual conquest.


Most of my lays have been 6/10ish girls, or ~75th percentile in looks. A few average and one 7/10. So not top end, but decent enough (plus they were my type in some way, gym, coloring, personality etc). Most of them have been in college.

yeah it IS boring, I feel NOTHING like mentally stimulating from it, no excitement. A hot girl can be sucking my cock and I look at her doing it and it's just like "yea ok, theres a girl doing that rn" I don't feel the normal excitement people do from that Living in the Moment dopamine. It's completely routine.

I wish I felt more from sex.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

11 currently. I stopped trying to hook up this last May. It got boring after I fucked a 6/10 who was pretty into me. I had an epiphany that I was wasting my time, I knew I would get bored and move on to the next girl within a month. Kind of what Amnesia describes about how escalation/sex is very routine/mechanical for him, so much so it takes the fun out of it. As him and I have very similar genetic personalities, I find myself experiencing many of the same things he has spoken about, including that. Sex for me now is literally less fun than getting a good pump on chest day. I realized what I had been chasing was the feeling I was good enough, the validation and dopamine hit I got when I knew a girl wanted to bang me (and then banging her). It was a power thing, which was rooted in insecurity due to bullying and other things in my childhood. Once I confronted this issue head on, I suddenly had much less a desire to engage in sexual conquest.


Most of my lays have been 6/10ish girls, or ~75th percentile in looks. A few average and one 7/10. So not top end, but decent enough (plus they were my type in some way, gym, coloring, personality etc). Most of them have been in college.

Idk if it’s the same for @Amnesia but most girls you get from slaying will be average to above average with a hot girl here and there. I enjoy sex and love banging a new girl so I enjoy banging lots of girls. But to each their own. In the end you should do what makes you happy.

 

[chadison]

Idk if it’s the same for @Amnesia but most girls you get from slaying will be average to above average with a hot girl here and there. I enjoy sex and love banging a new girl so I enjoy banging lots of girls. But to each their own. In the end you should do what makes you happy.

Yeah all the 6/10s were because I’m picky. My laycount would be WAY higher if I said yes to every 4 or 5/10 girl that had approached me. It would probably be over 50 if I said yes to all of them (not joking). I usually reject girls that are 5 or below unless they really fit my niche (gym, smart, coloring, etc like I mentioned earlier). I either take a 5 that fits my niche or a 6+, thats my minimum standard (which is not really that high for a guy thats a 6.5ish/10 in SMV himself)

 

[chadison]

I wish I felt more from sex.

Same man. Its hard for me to grasp the concept that normies actually feel the moment during sex. My mind is always zoomed out to the bigger picture/the reality of the situation, which prevents me from actually enjoying sex anymore. It’s like it’s been de-mystified and there’s no way for me to enjoy it. Kind of like playing video games as a kid, but then you grow up and realize they’re a waste of time and they never have that same feeling of beauty/pleasure that they had when you were 13 and could get lost in minecraft/pokemon/COD.

Strange phenomena for sure, but I guess it also has its benefits. You will rarely get trapped in a shitty situation(s) because you know the truth about women/relationships/sex.

 

[Deleted member 2268]

Yeah all the 6/10s were because I’m picky. My laycount would be WAY higher if I said yes to every 4 or 5/10 girl that had approached me. It would probably be over 50 if I said yes to all of them (not joking). I usually reject girls that are 5 or below unless they really fit my niche (gym, smart, coloring, etc like I mentioned earlier). I either take a 5 that fits my niche or a 6+, thats my minimum standard (which is not really that high for a guy thats a 6.5ish/10 in SMV himself)

This is cope. As long as your above looks threshold it doesn’t matter. I doubt you approach enough girls or try hard enough. If you’re picky you should be banging 8+. Especially if you’re in college like bro wtf are you doing. It’s easy mode there. Also 11 is a very low body count. I banged 30 girls my first year after graduating college (in one year). In college I was in a frat at a big state school which gave me a lot of opportunities to meet girls. If you are 6 foot, lift weights, and are social that already puts you in the top 10%.

 

[chadison]

This is cope. As long as your above looks threshold it doesn’t matter.

Naive. When did you find the blackpill? There is no one looks threshold. It varies for every woman. The 7+ will be much higher, because they can be. Basic market supply and demand. The 7s+ have first pick of the harvest, so they’ll choose only the best (hypergamy).

I doubt you approach enough girls or try hard enough.

Actually true. I don’t try that hard. Probably less than most the guys I know. I’ve relied on women giving me strong IOIs or approaching me. That way I minimize time wasted. This strategy may fail to maximize chances with 7+ women though, very true.

If you’re picky you should be banging 8+. Especially if you’re in college like bro wtf are you doing. It’s easy mode there.

Not anymore. Have you seen the rates of sexlessness for men in college? Women are becoming EXTREMELY choosy everywhere, including university. It’s easy mode if you’re above average and are dating/sleeping down. If you’re trying to bang your looksmatch or higher, it’s absolutely not.

Also 11 is a very low body count.

Not really. Not low but definitely not high. It’s probably a bit above average among guys my age, nothing impressive though.

I banged 30 girls my first year after graduating college (in one year). In college I was in a frat at a big state school which gave me a lot of opportunities to meet girls. If you are 6 foot, lift weights, and are social that already puts you in the top 10%.

I’m 5’10 (avg height), jacked (physique is about yours) and somewhat social. Face probably is a weak 6. So (probably?) in the top 10%, but nothing like a Chad. Nowhere near the requirements of 7/10+ girls. The chads here have harems, and the bottom 60% of men have nothing. The dating market is absolutely getting worse day by day based on what I observe at my university. Not that I really care anymore though: it’s just biology/nature taking its course in natural selection.