A Chad I work with said even he'd get turned down at least 90% of the time

[BadLuck7892]

He's a 43 year old Chad (or at the very least, Chadlite)

As he put it, he said 9 out of 10 foids would turn him down right off the bat, whether it be because they already have a husband/boyfriend, they're a lesbian, or for a variety of other reasons. Next he said (and I'm quoting him verbatim) "which means only 1 out of 10 might say yeah"

It sounds like he's talking about cold approaches on strangers. If cold-approaching strangers, then yeah, even a Chad/Chadlite might get turned down 90% of the time.

Yet here's what separates him from us: If he shot his shot with foids he already knew were single and straight, he wouldn't get turned down anywhere near 90% of the time (whereas a lot of us would get turned down 90% of the time or worse, even with foids we know for a fact are single and straight)

 

[BadLuck7892]

@AryanSchizo

@SoundnVision

@CorinthianLOX

 

[CorinthianLOX]

@AryanSchizo

@SoundnVision

@CorinthianLOX

Interesting but still brutal nontheless

 

[BadLuck7892]

Interesting but still brutal nontheless

At first when he said even he'd get turned down 90+% of the time, I thought maybe there's nothing "wrong" with me to cause my sky high rejection rate.

Then when I thought on it further, it dawned on me that he was obviously talking about cold approaches

 

[CorinthianLOX]

At first when he said even he'd get turned down 90+% of the time, I thought maybe there's nothing "wrong" with me to cause my sky high rejection rate.

Then when I thought on it further, it dawned on me that he was obviously talking about cold approaches

Yeah chads are oblivious

 

[BadLuck7892]

Yeah chads are oblivious

The fact he's still a Chad/Chadlite at 43 is impressive

 

[rawr]

I likely asked this a million times but why can't you get girls if you're a average height HTN?
Is it because of your autism? Even then, couldn't you just mask and score a one night stand?

 

[SoundnVision]

I likely asked this a million times but why can't you get girls if you're a average height HTN?
Is it because of your autism? Even then, couldn't you just mask and score a one night stand?

Can't get one night stand as HTN unless tall and NT

 

[BadLuck7892]

I likely asked this a million times but why can't you get girls if you're a average height HTN?
Is it because of your autism? Even then, couldn't you just mask and score a one night stand?

Autism is why, yeah.

I mask pretty well overall. Yet shooting my shot with a foid is one area where it's unfortunately impossible to mask.

I can flirt with foids no problem...until it comes time to officially shoot my shot

 

[BadLuck7892]

Can't get one night stand as HTN unless tall and NT

I got one night stands in my younger days using Craigslist. Yet Craigslist no longer allows sex ads.

The downfall of Craigslist led to the downfall of my sex life

 

[rawr]

Can't get one night stand as HTN unless tall and NT

Meh he's 5'9 thats a normal height. You can easily fraud an inch to 5'10.
But yeah NT is the part i agree with

 

[BadLuck7892]

Meh he's 5'9 thats a normal height. You can easily fraud an inch to 5'10.
But yeah NT is the part i agree with

Unfortunately, seduction is one area that can't be faked.

Back in March, a former coworker was watching TV with me on my couch, yet I still couldn't get her into bed (I didn't even try. Because I lack seduction skills)

 

[Whirr22222]

Cold approaching is just so fake. Like if u were a girl and a guy approached u u wouldnt be comfortable. Its like porn brain thinking that would be succesful.

There has to be some sort of common ground first to talk to them.

 

[BadLuck7892]

Cold approaching is just so fake. Like if u were a girl and a guy approached u u wouldnt be comfortable. Its like porn brain thinking that would be succesful.

There has to be some sort of common ground first to talk to them.

I cold-approached a 35 year old mid-tier foid when I was 23 (I offered to buy her cigarettes at a mini mart)

She took me up on the offer. We exchanged numbers.

Yet most the time, you're right, cold-approaching won't lead anywhere

 

[Whirr22222]

I cold-approached a 35 year old mid-tier foid when I was 23 (I offered to buy her cigarettes at a mini mart)

She took me up on the offer. We exchanged numbers.

Yet most the time, you're right, cold-approaching won't lead anywhere

Did u slay in the end

 

[Rater727]

Can't get one night stand as HTN unless tall and NT

There' tall incels on here

Imo as long as you're NT/very sociable and MTN+ and not very short (5'5<) you can get a night stand easily
Of course not every girl will agree, but a lot will

NTpill is brutal. Autistic chad will suffer a lot

 

[BadLuck7892]

Did u slay in the end

No I did not.

She came over my place a few days later (but brought a male friend as a chaperone)

I get it; wanting protection when visiting a stranger's private place. Yet at the same time, I knew his presence meant no action would happen

 

[Whirr22222]

No I did not.

She came over my place a few days later (but brought a male friend as a chaperone)

I get it; wanting protection when visiting a stranger's private place. Yet at the same time, I knew his presence meant no action would happen

Damn thats brutal haha

 

[BadLuck7892]

There' tall incels on here

Imo as long as you're NT/very sociable and MTN+ and not very short (5'5<) you can get a night stand easily
Of course not every girl will agree, but a lot will

NTpill is brutal. Autistic chad will suffer a lot

Yeah. You have a more accurate assessment.

Height alone doesn't mean much.

Autism renders looks and height irrelevant. I know a 6'4" dude with decent looks who's a virgin at 34 (autism is why)

If the same 6'4" dude was 5'7" and neurotypical (along with the same facial attractiveness level he has now), he'd have an easier time getting a one night stand than he does as a 6'4" autist

 

[BadLuck7892]

Damn thats brutal haha

The worst part is they both compared me to Jeffrey Dahmer when they were at my place (for those who don't know, Jeffrey Dahmer was a cannibal who killed and ate his victims)

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

Humblemaxxing

 

[BadLuck7892]

Humblemaxxing

Come to think of it, he really is humble.

He makes 6 figures, yet said he doesn't even like to brag when talking to high school classmates

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

Come to think of it, he really is humble.

He makes 6 figures, yet said he doesn't even like to brag when talking to high school classmates

if you aren't EXTREALELY humble as succesful people with hate you and will want to bring them to their level, why do you think chads tell you to "just be confident and get a haircut", do you really think sean o'py doesn't see how well treated he is compared to his friends.

(I hate having to do this tbh)

 

[BadLuck7892]

if you aren't EXTREALELY humble as succesful people with hate you and will want to bring them to their level, why do you think chads tell you to "just be confident and get a haircut", do you really think sean o'py doesn't see how well treated he is compared to his friends.

(I hate having to do this tbh)

Foids do the same thing (give us worthless canned advice that won't work for us)

 

[BadLuck7892]

You know what though, @GonorrhoeaGobbler?

I resent NT men in general more than I hate Chads in particular.

Probably because I (in terms of looks alone) was bordering on Chadlite in my youth. Yet I've never been (and never will be) NT.

In other words, neurotypicality is much more out-of-reach for me than Chadness

 

[GonorrhoeaGobbler]

You know what though, @GonorrhoeaGobbler?

I resent NT men in general more than I hate Chads in particular.

Probably because I (in terms of looks alone) was bordering on Chadlite in my youth. Yet I've never been (and never will be) NT.

In other words, neurotypicality is much more out-of-reach for me than Chadness

same thing I've ascended and my respect has slightly improved but still have to rot here

 

[BadLuck7892]

same thing I've ascended and my respect has slightly improved but still have to rot here

Autism is why even when my 17 year old self was bordering on Chadlite, all I could get was one pity dance at homecoming