A girl I ghosted writes me back after 3 weeks

[Deusmaximus]

Made out with a girl and almost fucked her 2 months ago while clubbing.
Then we wrote back and forth a lot, also had a phone call, but she always declined to meet up. One date she cancelled 4 hours before with "sry I am not fit".
Suddenly 3 weeks ago I totally stopped writing her and now this night she randomly sent me a "heeey " out of nowwhere.

Btw she also told me from the beginning that she is only looking for something serious and wants to have kids. She had one night stands and friends with benefits but is not interested in this type.

What should I do? Just ignore her text or write back something provocative? I felt like she was just using me for her entertainment and enjoyed my attention.
Since she is also on Tinder, it means she has not found any better guy during these 2 months of having contact with me?

 

[StarvedEpi]

 

[deepfuckingvalue]

she is only looking for something serious and wants to have kids.

Pump and dump but be especially vigilant.

 

[Suns9999]

she also told me from the beginning that she is only looking for something serious and wants to have kids.

She had one night stands and friends with benefits but is not interested in this type.

 

[ihearvoices]

Ran through whore, wouldn't ltr

 

[Entschuldigung]

Have kids??
How old are you

 

[Deusmaximus]

Ran through whore, wouldn't ltr

yeah I know there are more than enough red flags, but still I am 30yrs old and the girl is 24. Despite her being overweight, she has a pretty cute face.
Tbh I dont have much more options... I take what I can get. Otherwise I will stay single for the rest of my life.
Also she told me that her ex boyfriend has punched her multiple times.

 

[Yliaster]

Logging into Tinder looking for something serious is nasty work

 

[deepfuckingvalue]

overweight

Don’t bother

 

[Deusmaximus]

Don’t bother

I have no other options

 

[Deleted member 90484]

I have no other options

I'm sorry, but all of your posts have been so funny to read

 

[ihearvoices]

yeah I know there are more than enough red flags, but still I am 30yrs old and the girl is 24. Despite her being overweight, she has a pretty cute face.
Tbh I dont have much more options... I take what I can get. Otherwise I will stay single for the rest of my life.
Also she told me that her ex boyfriend has punched her multiple times.

Cruel world we live in

But understandable

 

[ivan.kuk]

yeah I know there are more than enough red flags, but still I am 30yrs old and the girl is 24. Despite her being overweight, she has a pretty cute face.
Tbh I dont have much more options... I take what I can get. Otherwise I will stay single for the rest of my life.
Also she told me that her ex boyfriend has punched her multiple times.

hillarious

 

[pirichichuchuchu]

Made out with a girl and almost fucked her 2 months ago while clubbing.
Then we wrote back and forth a lot, also had a phone call, but she always declined to meet up. One date she cancelled 4 hours before with "sry I am not fit".
Suddenly 3 weeks ago I totally stopped writing her and now this night she randomly sent me a "heeey " out of nowwhere.

Btw she also told me from the beginning that she is only looking for something serious and wants to have kids. She had one night stands and friends with benefits but is not interested in this type.

What should I do? Just ignore her text or write back something provocative? I felt like she was just using me for her entertainment and enjoyed my attention.
Since she is also on Tinder, it means she has not found any better guy during these 2 months of having contact with me

If ur talking about her rn ur interested so answer

 

[Arthur schopenhauer]

Made out with a girl and almost fucked her 2 months ago while clubbing.
Then we wrote back and forth a lot, also had a phone call, but she always declined to meet up. One date she cancelled 4 hours before with "sry I am not fit".
Suddenly 3 weeks ago I totally stopped writing her and now this night she randomly sent me a "heeey " out of nowwhere.

Btw she also told me from the beginning that she is only looking for something serious and wants to have kids. She had one night stands and friends with benefits but is not interested in this type.

What should I do? Just ignore her text or write back something provocative? I felt like she was just using me for her entertainment and enjoyed my attention.
Since she is also on Tinder, it means she has not found any better guy during these 2 months of having contact with me?

You ghosted her because she disrespected you, I did the same with a foid, who cancelled my appointment the day before. If she comes back maybe things won't change and she will continue to have disrespectful behavior of getting your hopes up and then leaving you wanting. I would give her a second chance, but I would be very cautious.