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When it comes to fashion, and looks in general, the best approach is to try to be mass appealing, or, in other words, to be appealing to the most women possible. And there is a specific way to do this when choosing your outfits as a man.
Most guys dont do that tho, they choose very "niche" fashion styles that some girls find unattractive, and only a certain type of girls will find it stylish. Emo fashion, Heavy metal fashion, exotic indie fashion, and also some overly exaggerated streetwear outfits with giant baggy pants and unconventional shirts. All of these are very niche and will certainly repell some girls. Here are some examples of them:
Examples of what NOT to wear:
As I said, these fashion styles are not mass appealing.
Now, of course a chad would be able to look good in any style, even in these, but as you are probably not one, you are gonna look ridiculous in these styles and be made fun of. And honestly I wouldnt recommend this to you even if you were chad as a chad would look even better if he implemented what Im about to tell you.
The thing is, if you wanna appeal to the most women possible, you need to keep it simple. But there are some things that you need to keep an eye on so that you can stand out. Im gonna cover each topic at a time so that you can understand everything about what to wear to attract as much girls as possible. Here we go.
CLOTHING ITEMS YOU SHOULD BUY:
- Plain T-shirts
- Linen pants
- Hoodies and sweaters
- Silver jewelry and accessories
Here is a step by step explanation:
1. Plain T-shirts
When it comes to T-shirts, the best option is to wear plain ones, without logos or striking colors. Go for neutral colors like black, navy, beige, dark green, dark burgundy, etc. These colors look more masculine and as they are very neutral, they will make your silver jewelry pop out even more, which will give you a cool and simple aesthetic like this:
Also, its really important that you choose T-shirts that fit you well. I usually get my T-shirts taylored by a professional so that I can get a personalized fit for my body type. This makes a HUGE difference. And it sounds expensive but it isn't. I live in Brazil and here I pay the equivalent of 4 dollars per clothing piece, on average.
- Linen pants
Linen pants are such a fucking cheat code. First of all, linen is a summer fabric so these are the only pants u can wear no matter how hot the weather gets in where you live, and they look better than wearing shorts. Also, they have a looser fit so if u have skinny legs people wont be able to see it. Also, they have this "high status" aesthetic to them that can elevate your outfit a lot:
linen pants + plain t shirt = solid base for your outfit. Plus, look at how well the T-shirt fits him
- Hoodies and sweaters
Hoodies are also a good option, but they need to either have no graphics or just some minimal ones. Dont go for these all over the place hoodies. Aas they are a winter piece, you can pair them with some heavier pants. Hoodies are great for you to implement a more streetwear look without exaggerating it. The secret is to keep it simple when going for a more street style, it looks great and this type of look is very appealing to younger girls. Remember to stick to neutral colors.
Sweaters are also a great winter option. More on the classier side, but still modern. Stick to the plain ones, or the ones with very small logos on the side. Always go for neutral colors on them as well. This will give you a clean look.
Almost all girls with who I used to hook up/have some kind of relationship (including my ex lol) have this type of boy style/aesthetic saved in their pinterest as their type. Girls simp over this type of men, trust me.
- Jewelry and accesories
Most people buy the wrong ones. Stainless steel jewelry is NOT the best option. You should go for silver jewelry as they shine much brighter and look higher status. Are they almost 2x the price of the steel ones? Yes. Is it worth it to spend more on them? For sure.
You will need to be careful when wearing a silver jewelry tho. You cant shower with it or wet it in any situation, as this will result in the silver getting darker and losing its shine. But, if it you accidentally wet it, there are silver cleansing liquids you can buy that bring back the original shine of the jewelry, and it works 100%. Im not gonna recommend the one I use tho cause its a local brand that is only available here in my country but Im sure most brands will work for that.
Here are my recommendations of measures for your jewelry pieces:
This is just my opinion btw, but I recommend you to go with:
- necklace: around 55cm of length and 1.5mm of width.
- bracelets: length depends on how thick your wrist is, but the ideal width is around 2mm.
As you can see, they are not these super thick rappers chains. Just keep it simple bro. If you are gonna add a pendant (which I recommend), go for a minimalistic and small one as well. You dont wanna look like a fake gangster.
A good necklace and a good bracelet are all you need in terms of jewelry. But we cant forget about watches. They are the best men's accessory by far and are gonna elevate your style. Im not gonna get too deep on that. If you have the money I recommend you to buy an expensive one, but, as watches can be very expensive, you can always go for a cheaper option if u want. Regardless of that, I'd recommend going for this type of style:
Honestly, thats it for the accessories and jewelry. You dont wanna overdo it because If u wear too many accessories you are gonna look weird.
Why does this fashion style work?
Keeping your outfits simple works because you minimize the chance of girls not liking something about them. Why do girls think some fashion styles are ugly as hell? Because people usually take too many risks. Too many statement pieces. Too many unconventional stuff. There is a very high chance of the girls not liking something about it. And that's a turn off for them. Plus, by keeping your fashion simple, you make it way easier for yourself to pull it off. Everyone can wear a basic and well made outfit, no one is gonna clown you for that, even if you are ugly. I know people usually say "men need to take risks" but no, not in this. Stop fucking up your outfits by "trying to stand out". Look at the outfit pics of this post. All of these guys would stand out wearing them, because they look masculine, high status, put together and aesthetic. You dont need to wear crazy stuff to stand out.
To sum it up: Neutral colors + simple clothing that fits well in your body type + clean aesthetic + high quality accesories = great outfit that appeals to most girls.
Here are some more inspiration pics of this aesthetic.
Most guys dont do that tho, they choose very "niche" fashion styles that some girls find unattractive, and only a certain type of girls will find it stylish. Emo fashion, Heavy metal fashion, exotic indie fashion, and also some overly exaggerated streetwear outfits with giant baggy pants and unconventional shirts. All of these are very niche and will certainly repell some girls. Here are some examples of them:
Examples of what NOT to wear:
As I said, these fashion styles are not mass appealing.
Now, of course a chad would be able to look good in any style, even in these, but as you are probably not one, you are gonna look ridiculous in these styles and be made fun of. And honestly I wouldnt recommend this to you even if you were chad as a chad would look even better if he implemented what Im about to tell you.
The thing is, if you wanna appeal to the most women possible, you need to keep it simple. But there are some things that you need to keep an eye on so that you can stand out. Im gonna cover each topic at a time so that you can understand everything about what to wear to attract as much girls as possible. Here we go.
CLOTHING ITEMS YOU SHOULD BUY:
- Plain T-shirts
- Linen pants
- Hoodies and sweaters
- Silver jewelry and accessories
Here is a step by step explanation:
1. Plain T-shirts
When it comes to T-shirts, the best option is to wear plain ones, without logos or striking colors. Go for neutral colors like black, navy, beige, dark green, dark burgundy, etc. These colors look more masculine and as they are very neutral, they will make your silver jewelry pop out even more, which will give you a cool and simple aesthetic like this:
Also, its really important that you choose T-shirts that fit you well. I usually get my T-shirts taylored by a professional so that I can get a personalized fit for my body type. This makes a HUGE difference. And it sounds expensive but it isn't. I live in Brazil and here I pay the equivalent of 4 dollars per clothing piece, on average.
- Linen pants
Linen pants are such a fucking cheat code. First of all, linen is a summer fabric so these are the only pants u can wear no matter how hot the weather gets in where you live, and they look better than wearing shorts. Also, they have a looser fit so if u have skinny legs people wont be able to see it. Also, they have this "high status" aesthetic to them that can elevate your outfit a lot:
linen pants + plain t shirt = solid base for your outfit. Plus, look at how well the T-shirt fits him
- Hoodies and sweaters
Hoodies are also a good option, but they need to either have no graphics or just some minimal ones. Dont go for these all over the place hoodies. Aas they are a winter piece, you can pair them with some heavier pants. Hoodies are great for you to implement a more streetwear look without exaggerating it. The secret is to keep it simple when going for a more street style, it looks great and this type of look is very appealing to younger girls. Remember to stick to neutral colors.
Sweaters are also a great winter option. More on the classier side, but still modern. Stick to the plain ones, or the ones with very small logos on the side. Always go for neutral colors on them as well. This will give you a clean look.
Almost all girls with who I used to hook up/have some kind of relationship (including my ex lol) have this type of boy style/aesthetic saved in their pinterest as their type. Girls simp over this type of men, trust me.
- Jewelry and accesories
Most people buy the wrong ones. Stainless steel jewelry is NOT the best option. You should go for silver jewelry as they shine much brighter and look higher status. Are they almost 2x the price of the steel ones? Yes. Is it worth it to spend more on them? For sure.
You will need to be careful when wearing a silver jewelry tho. You cant shower with it or wet it in any situation, as this will result in the silver getting darker and losing its shine. But, if it you accidentally wet it, there are silver cleansing liquids you can buy that bring back the original shine of the jewelry, and it works 100%. Im not gonna recommend the one I use tho cause its a local brand that is only available here in my country but Im sure most brands will work for that.
Here are my recommendations of measures for your jewelry pieces:
This is just my opinion btw, but I recommend you to go with:
- necklace: around 55cm of length and 1.5mm of width.
- bracelets: length depends on how thick your wrist is, but the ideal width is around 2mm.
As you can see, they are not these super thick rappers chains. Just keep it simple bro. If you are gonna add a pendant (which I recommend), go for a minimalistic and small one as well. You dont wanna look like a fake gangster.
A good necklace and a good bracelet are all you need in terms of jewelry. But we cant forget about watches. They are the best men's accessory by far and are gonna elevate your style. Im not gonna get too deep on that. If you have the money I recommend you to buy an expensive one, but, as watches can be very expensive, you can always go for a cheaper option if u want. Regardless of that, I'd recommend going for this type of style:
Honestly, thats it for the accessories and jewelry. You dont wanna overdo it because If u wear too many accessories you are gonna look weird.
Why does this fashion style work?
Keeping your outfits simple works because you minimize the chance of girls not liking something about them. Why do girls think some fashion styles are ugly as hell? Because people usually take too many risks. Too many statement pieces. Too many unconventional stuff. There is a very high chance of the girls not liking something about it. And that's a turn off for them. Plus, by keeping your fashion simple, you make it way easier for yourself to pull it off. Everyone can wear a basic and well made outfit, no one is gonna clown you for that, even if you are ugly. I know people usually say "men need to take risks" but no, not in this. Stop fucking up your outfits by "trying to stand out". Look at the outfit pics of this post. All of these guys would stand out wearing them, because they look masculine, high status, put together and aesthetic. You dont need to wear crazy stuff to stand out.
To sum it up: Neutral colors + simple clothing that fits well in your body type + clean aesthetic + high quality accesories = great outfit that appeals to most girls.
Here are some more inspiration pics of this aesthetic.
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