A guy from my school got cheated on

[SpearOfOrion]

His gf literally told him "you are too nice" lmfao (he sent screenshot).

He also told me he got cheated on in his past relationship too. Yikes, it's what happens when women mistake friendship for love. He is now one step closer to blackpill

 

[Vidyacoper]

blackpill him, do it

 

[JustTrynaGrow]

nice guys finish last

 

[Morpheus]

Not surprised. Younger girls especially want “the thrill.” If the relationship is too consistent, you’re too available, and you’re too nice no matter what she does, then they get bored. Without any lows, there are no highs.

You gotta keep them on their toes so things don’t feel routine and have your own life where she’s not involved so she doesn’t feel like she there’s nothing left to explore. And if she does something wrong, call her out or she’ll lose respect for you. I guarantee you when the dude found out she cheated he started asking her what he did wrong and saying a bunch of other beta shit instead of immediately ghosting her.

 

[Pillarman]

He got cheated 2 fucking times, he probably told her he got cheated on while in a relationship too JFLLLLL

How does he cope ? It's either cucked for life or he has to destroy that whore's bones, preferably smash her legs so she doesn't get to fuck for couple of months

 

[Deleted member 2632]

There is no way to truly prevent cheating tbh, you can only take preventive steps

The only thing you can do is looksmaxx to the point it is easy to talk to other women, let her know your hot and can fuck other women and never let her know how much you care about her.

Some days be loving towards her, and then other days act like she isnt good enough, have to do the old push/pull method for their emotional highs/lows

 

[Chadeep]

There is no way to truly prevent cheating tbh, you can only take preventive steps

The only thing you can do is looksmaxx to the point it is easy to talk to other women, let her know your hot and can fuck other women and never let her know how much you care about her.

Some days be loving towards her, and then other days act like she isnt good enough, have to do the old push/pull method for their emotional highs/lows

It's about not being submissive to them. That's it

 

[theA_rab]

Not surprised. Younger girls especially want “the thrill.” If the relationship is too consistent, you’re too available, and you’re too nice no matter what she does, then they get bored. Without any lows, there are no highs.

You gotta keep them on their toes so things don’t feel routine and have your own life where she’s not involved so she doesn’t feel like she there’s nothing left to explore. And if she does something wrong, call her out or she’ll lose respect for you. I guarantee you when the dude found out she cheated he started asking her what he did wrong and saying a bunch of other beta shit instead of immediately ghosting her.

+1

This is my own list. Obviously this does not to apply to Incels.
In order for this to work, you need to be 5 + PSL, decently tall, have some muscle and somehow a Dom face if you're not in the aestectics side

You don't have to be a Chad neither..although Chad would do this naturally and he doesn't have to learn it.

- Be always mysterious. Do not tell her everything. Do 20 % of the talking and let her do the remaining 80 %
- Do not give her attention unless she's earned it.
- Do your own thing. Do not center your life around her, but around your own self..
- Fuck her good and rough. Be aggressive, borderline violent. Do no cuddle too much but do it sometimes when she's earned it.
- Tease her, make fun of her, her clothes, her friends, etc. and say NO to her, juste for the sake of saying no.
- Bitches love surprises. Surprise her with some stuff, from time to time.
- Never, ever..ask her which restaurant she prefers. Just pick one and she'll come along 90% of cases. If she doesn't, there is something wrong in your relationship
- Give her ultimatums and warnings if she fucks up. Walk away if she does something really bad.

 

[ElliotRodgerJr]

+1

This is my own list. Obviously this does not to apply to Incels.
In order for this to work, you need to be 5 + PSL, decently tall, have some muscle and somehow a Dom face if you're not in the aestectics side

You don't have to be a Chad neither..although Chad would do this naturally and he doesn't have to learn it.

- Be always mysterious. Do not tell her everything. Do 20 % of the talking and let her do the remaining 80 %
- Do not give her attention unless she's earned it.
- Do your own thing. Do not center your life around her, but around your own self..
- Fuck her good and rough. Be aggressive, borderline violent. Do no cuddle too much but do it sometimes when she's earned it.
- Tease her, make fun of her, her clothes, her friends, etc. and say NO to her, juste for the sake of saying no.
- Bitches love surprises. Surprise her with some stuff, from time to time.
- Never, ever..ask her which restaurant she prefers. Just pick one and she'll come along 90% of cases. If she doesn't, there is something wrong in your relationship
- Give her ultimatums and warnings if she fucks up. Walk away if she does something really bad.

Autism

 

[Deleted member 4464]

His gf literally told him "you are too nice" lmfao (he sent screenshot).

He also told me he got cheated on in his past relationship too. Yikes, it's what happens when women mistake friendship for love. He is now one step closer to blackpill

one step closer to stop being used by women

 

[CarnivoreDiet]

Not surprised. Younger girls especially want “the thrill.” If the relationship is too consistent, you’re too available, and you’re too nice no matter what she does, then they get bored. Without any lows, there are no highs.

You gotta keep them on their toes so things don’t feel routine and have your own life where she’s not involved so she doesn’t feel like she there’s nothing left to explore. And if she does something wrong, call her out or she’ll lose respect for you. I guarantee you when the dude found out she cheated he started asking her what he did wrong and saying a bunch of other beta shit instead of immediately ghosting her.

You know what are you talking about. From my expirience - this works.
Can you comment and write more about this? thanks.

 

[Morpheus]

You know what are you talking about. From my expirience - this works.
Can you comment and write more about this? thanks.

Yeah man. Basically it comes down to being the type of dude that’s not dependent on her. In addition to good looks, girls are attracted to dudes that they feel don’t really need them. That have great lives on their own, which make the girls want to join in on that. A lot of people here think the lesson to be learned from this cheating situation is that you have to just be as much of an asshole as possible but that’s not going to work either. Girls like affection and attention. But you devalue it when you keep giving it to her constantly and for no reason.

Honestly you shouldn’t talk to girls that differently than you talk to your boys. If you got disrespected by a friend and they said something blatantly stupid or mean, you would call them out for it instead of taking it like a bitch. Don’t give her too much too soon, like showering her with a lot of gifts and praise. Yeah in the moment she might love it but long term all it’s going to do is set a standard you can’t uphold and also make it seem like you need to do that kind of stuff to keep her around, so she’ll lose respect for you. And when you keep complimenting her all you’re doing is making it seem like she’s out of your league. When you give it sparingly it actually seems genuine and she appreciates it more.

Don’t constantly text her and don’t constantly hang with her and be too available. That’s one of the biggest mistakes I made with my ex where we had this constant all day everyday text convo going and it made things feel routine and dry. It’s better to say nothing than to have a boring conversation. So if you’re busy or you have nothing to say, that’s fine, just don’t. And make sure you regularly do things without her and have your own hobbies because again there needs to be some mystery to you that she’s not around for. Even if it leads to fights, so what. If she gets upset that means she cares and it’s better than indifference. Plus it’s good to be independent anyways for your own sake.

Make sure you’re not stagnating. Keep pushing hard in school, your career, your hobbies, lifting, and even looksmaxxing because by seeing that kind of drive and constant improvement, you make a girl want to see what you have in store in the future. Finally, good sex is crucial and it makes girls stay in even toxic relationships way longer than they should. So make sure you dick her down right.

 

[CarnivoreDiet]

Yeah man. Basically it comes down to being the type of dude that’s not dependent on her. In addition to good looks, girls are attracted to dudes that they feel don’t really need them. That have great lives on their own, which make the girls want to join in on that. A lot of people here think the lesson to be learned from this cheating situation is that you have to just be as much of an asshole as possible but that’s not going to work either. Girls like affection and attention. But you devalue it when you keep giving it to her constantly and for no reason.

Honestly you shouldn’t talk to girls that differently than you talk to your boys. If you got disrespected by a friend and they said something blatantly stupid or mean, you would call them out for it instead of taking it like a bitch. Don’t give her too much too soon, like showering her with a lot of gifts and praise. Yeah in the moment she might love it but long term all it’s going to do is set a standard you can’t uphold and also make it seem like you need to do that kind of stuff to keep her around, so she’ll lose respect for you. And when you keep complimenting her all you’re doing is making it seem like she’s out of your league. When you give it sparingly it actually seems genuine and she appreciates it more.

Don’t constantly text her and don’t constantly hang with her and be too available. That’s one of the biggest mistakes I made with my ex where we had this constant all day everyday text convo going and it made things feel routine and dry. It’s better to say nothing than to have a boring conversation. So if you’re busy or you have nothing to say, that’s fine, just don’t. And make sure you regularly do things without her and have your own hobbies because again there needs to be some mystery to you that she’s not around for. Even if it leads to fights, so what. If she gets upset that means she cares and it’s better than indifference. Plus it’s good to be independent anyways for your own sake.

Make sure you’re not stagnating. Keep pushing hard in school, your career, your hobbies, lifting, and even looksmaxxing because by seeing that kind of drive and constant improvement, you make a girl want to see what you have in store in the future. Finally, good sex is crucial and it makes girls stay in even toxic relationships way longer than they should. So make sure you dick her down right.

Great , thanks

 

[Stingray]

I can tell some of you guys watch AMS

 

[Deleted member 3043]

Not surprised. Younger girls especially want “the thrill.” If the relationship is too consistent, you’re too available, and you’re too nice no matter what she does, then they get bored. Without any lows, there are no highs.

You gotta keep them on their toes so things don’t feel routine and have your own life where she’s not involved so she doesn’t feel like she there’s nothing left to explore. And if she does something wrong, call her out or she’ll lose respect for you. I guarantee you when the dude found out she cheated he started asking her what he did wrong and saying a bunch of other beta shit instead of immediately ghosting her.

but... if you love her?...

 

[homesick]

It's strange.

I was gonna to write a long reply, but I don't feel like it rn. female natrue is super strange. treat them like trash tbh

 

[SixFootManlet]

nice guys finish last

Anyone who isn't Chad finishes last

 

[Vermilioncore]

It’s over for many men, man. Broads have rocket high standards these days.

 

[chadpreetcel123]

There is no way to truly prevent cheating tbh, you can only take preventive steps

The only thing you can do is looksmaxx to the point it is easy to talk to other women, let her know your hot and can fuck other women and never let her know how much you care about her.

Some days be loving towards her, and then other days act like she isnt good enough, have to do the old push/pull method for their emotional highs/lows

Yeah push/pull method is legit

Act nice to her then just ghost her for a few days or even weeks

 

[Morpheus]

but... if you love her?...

Even if you love someone you don’t bend over backwards to please them, give them too much leeway and attention, and let them dominate your life. There’s a difference between love and infatuation and too many dudes fall in the trap of the second one. You gotta give each other space so you can still be your own person and not just X’s boyfriend, and you have to set boundaries of what’s okay and what isn’t.

If you’re where you need to be in life, you won’t even have to force any of this stuff. It’ll come naturally because you genuinely do have your own life to worry about and you can’t just cater to her every need and whim. And generally when talking to your girlfriend or any girl really, think to yourself, how embarrassed would I be if my friends saw these texts or heard this conversation. It’s okay to be a little lovey dovey but by asking that question you’ll be able to tell pretty easily if you’re going overboard with it.

 

[Deleted member 3043]

Even if you love someone you don’t bend over backwards to please them, give them too much leeway and attention, and let them dominate your life. There’s a difference between love and infatuation and too many dudes fall in the trap of the second one. You gotta give each other space so you can still be your own person and not just X’s boyfriend, and you have to set boundaries of what’s okay and what isn’t.

If you’re where you need to be in life, you won’t even have to force any of this stuff. It’ll come naturally because you genuinely do have your own life to worry about and you can’t just cater to her every need and whim. And generally when talking to your girlfriend or any girl really, think to yourself, how embarrassed would I be if my friends saw these texts or heard this conversation. It’s okay to be a little lovey dovey but by asking that question you’ll be able to tell pretty easily if you’re going overboard with it.

So true... I mean, i thought only beeing dominant and masculine and not simp would have been enough, but my super sensibility don't let me to be dominant 24/7 - i act kind, despite beeing dominant.
And imo it's very bad, because i get feelings very fast and don't want to lose the girl...

 

[Vidyacoper]

So true... I mean, i thought only beeing dominant and masculine and not simp would have been enough, but my super sensibility don't let me to be dominant 24/7 - i act kind, despite beeing dominant.
And imo it's very bad, because i get feelings very fast and don't want to lose the girl...

simp

 

[Deleted member 3043]

simp

so what to do ?
Just ignore 24/7 ?
I already am dominant like hell

 

[Vidyacoper]

so what to do ?
Just ignore 24/7 ?
I already am dominant like hell

dont be a simp

 

[Deleted member 3043]

dont be a simp

hard to do... i try my best...

 

[Got the hunter eyes]

So true... I mean, i thought only beeing dominant and masculine and not simp would have been enough, but my super sensibility don't let me to be dominant 24/7 - i act kind, despite beeing dominant.
And imo it's very bad, because i get feelings very fast and don't want to lose the girl...

Simp

 

[Deleted member 3043]

Simp

jfl if you think i am.
But yes i still need to learn

 

[Got the hunter eyes]

jfl if you think i am.
But yes i still need to learn

Bro just be 6+ psl and no one would have the courage of doing nothing to you

 

[PubertyMaxxer]

He wasnt too nice jfl

She just found a chad

 

[Deleted member 616]

How does he look?

 

[Deleted member 3043]

Bro just be 6+ psl and no one would have the courage of doing nothing to you

this is cope tbh, and i even can reach 6 psl realistically with good surgeries.
Girls are girls, even the gigachad can be cheated on if they are not perfectly containing the relationship

 

[Deleted member 616]

this is cope tbh, and i even can reach 6 psl realistically with good surgeries.
Girls are girls, even the gigachad can be cheated on if they are not perfectly containing the relationship

That’s why LTRs are cope nowadays

 

[Got the hunter eyes]

this is cope tbh, and i even can reach 6 psl realistically with good surgeries.
Girls are girls, even the gigachad can be cheated on if they are not perfectly containing the relationship

True but with whom do the female goes? A more gl person of course

 

[Deleted member 3043]

That’s why LTRs are cope nowadays

why am i so different for this Gay world ?

True but with whom do the female goes? A more gl person of course

it never began then... i'm done, i thought i could be gl soon, but not worth it then

 

[Got the hunter eyes]

why am i so different for this Gay world ?

it never began then... i'm done, i thought i could be gl soon, but not worth it then

No wait, being gl is worth it, ltr aren't

 

[Deleted member 3043]

No wait, being gl is worth it, ltr aren't

but i want to be happy...

 

[Deleted member 3202]

jfl if you think i am.
But yes i still need to learn

I'm just going to start liking your comments until your post to reputation ratio looks good.

 

[Deleted member 3043]

I'm just going to start liking your comments until your post to reputation ratio looks good.

bro

 

[Got the hunter eyes]

but i want to be happy...

Everyone wants to, but no one knows how to reach it. Imo is by getting dopamine from looking good and shit, that's why I'm here

 

[Turanid_Bull]

nice guys finish last

nice guys get cucked

 

[Usum]

but... if you love her?...

Goreanmaxx
Quick.

 

[Entschuldigung]

jfl cuck twice