A healthy low sexual drive is ideal

[koalendo]

low but HEALTHY low like once or twice a week
this way you're way less frustrated or desperate and as a result, you would be happier while you're single and even when you're in a relationship you would be less needy, also it helps you to be calmer and more focused in general.

this is just my personal opinion, I'm way happier in periods where I have a low sexual drive

 

[alriodai]

pareil

 

[Deleted member 1140]

im much happier when my sex drive is high. i just love looking at girls and just use them as sex objects

 

[JamesHowlett]

Agreed, I’m dieting (T is lower) and am completely happy being single

 

[Chadethnic101]

I'm a dog tbh, Id fuck LTBs with body halo no probs, I would legit want sex twice a day if not more if I was in a relationship

But dieting has made me not as horny as usual, and I'm happy being single while I ascend some more

 

[TsarTsar444]

im much happier when my sex drive is high. i just love looking at girls and just use them as sex objects

Same, haven't felt horny in a long time since nuking my hormones permanently on a caloric deficit, miss that warm cheek feeling and my dick going rock hard when i get horny

 

[JamesHowlett]

Same, haven't felt horny in a long time since nuking my hormones permanently on a caloric deficit, miss that warm cheek feeling and my dick going rock hard when i get horny

Bruh the way you described it bought back mad memories haha

Once I get a flat stomach I’m increasing my calories (slowly) to get all those feelings back

 

[Deleted member 15748]

Same, haven't felt horny in a long time since nuking my hormones permanently on a caloric deficit, miss that warm cheek feeling and my dick going rock hard when i get horny

being libidoless sounds good theoretically, obviously especially if you are incel/temporarycel but in reality its horrible, anhedonic lifeless feeling.

 

[TsarTsar444]

being libidoless sounds good theoretically, obviously especially if you are incel/temporarycel but in reality its horrible, anhedonic lifeless feeling.

Yeah it just sounds good in theory, but its almost always a symptom of some form of anhedonia/low dopamine and other neurotransmitters. I have some mild anhedonia not somethinf serious can enjoy stuff but i never get horny anymore. I enjoy food a lot for example, video games also somewhat, watching stuff, music is also moderatly good. Just my sexual anhedonia is insane. But maybe this is caused because i have a gf for 3 years now and my brain is used to have real life sex instead of porn. For example i get horny easily and have a rock hard dick when i fuck her and can coom for 3 times in 1 hour sometimes, but for porn? Nope, didn't think of porn or masturbating in days

 

[Deleted member 9467]

being in a loving ltr is best

 

[Deleted member 15748]

Yeah it just sounds good in theory, but its almost always a symptom of some form of anhedonia/low dopamine and other neurotransmitters. I have some mild anhedonia not somethinf serious can enjoy stuff but i never get horny anymore. I enjoy food a lot for example, video games also somewhat, watching stuff, music is also moderatly good. Just my sexual anhedonia is insane. But maybe this is caused because i have a gf for 3 years now and my brain is used to have real life sex instead of porn. For example i get horny easily and have a rock hard dick when i fuck her and can coom for 3 times in 1 hour sometimes, but for porn? Nope, didn't think of porn or masturbating in days

that doesn't sound so bad since you have a gf. sounds a little unusual. porn is basically just hyper stimulation that generally mogs irl in terms of visuals, variety.

 

[Deleted member 17763]

What in the cope

 

[koalendo]

What in the cope

how is it a cope?

 

[Deleted member 17763]

how is it a cope?

Ngl I just read the title and assumed it was cope for having a low sex drive but if you’re genuinely happy and productive without being distracted by horninees then I guess it is a W

 

[looksmaxxed]

just be an oblivious low t cuck. if you don't feel like there's a problem, then there's no problem, clearly. this is coping with incelism/virginity 101.

swallow the blackpill

 

[Deleted]

I'm a low t cuck tbh, jerk off like 3-4 times a day don't even need porn just close my eyes or look in mirror ded srs

 

[Deleted member 17763]

Ngl I just read the title and assumed it was cope for having a low sex drive but if you’re genuinely happy and productive without being distracted by horninees then I guess it is a W

Idk why I said this @looksmaxxed is right this shit is cucked there’s no way a perpetually low sex drive isn’t an indicator of a whole host of other issues

 

[Spiritualcell]

This is one of the reasons i started ssris

 

[koalendo]

just be an oblivious low t cuck. if you don't feel like there's a problem, then there's no problem, clearly. this is coping with incelism/virginity 101.

swallow the blackpill

so anyone that is ok with having sex twice a week is "an oblivious low t cuck"?

 

[SubhumanCurrycel]

man since ive hopped on AI's my sex drive has gotten a little too high. As a non-incel it might be beneficial but its literal torture rn.

 

[Deleted member 16758]

I get horny 1 2 times a week i think this is how it works when you dont stimulated by social media and porn

 

[TsarTsar444]

man since ive hopped on AI's my sex drive has gotten a little too high. As a non-incel it might be beneficial but its literal torture rn.

Why did they increase your libido so much?

 

[TsarTsar444]

I get horny 1 2 times a week i think this is how it works when you dont stimulated by social media and porn

Same, quit porn for few months and my brain got completely rewired, now i need to force myself to watch porn just to experiment if it will come back, but it doesn't, i need to forcibly get horny with porn

 

[AefreTreow]

Low sex drive is a godsend

 

[SubhumanCurrycel]

Why did they increase your libido so much?

Probably less E more T
I’m assuming my E isn’t crashed otherwise I’d be fucked

 

[mulattomaxxer]

I can agree. I usually get horny in cycles, although I am not sure if that is due to depressive episodes or not.

There are weeks where I bascially can't sit still unless I have coomed atleast once a day. I will be in work and my whole day will be spent having sexual fantasies until I bust a nut after work (I have jacked off in work toliets before. I don't do this now due to time pressure).

Other times I can not coom for 2-3 days and be fine. I am usually in a shit mood when this happens though.