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I think i finally realized my thoughts and kind of put them in order, even if this isnt the entirety of it its definately a part. I started self improvement about 3 years ago and in the first 1 or 2 years i actually made significant progress, i had noticed massive improvements in my attractiveness and performance and even in my treatment by other people, i started getting asked out by girls and it seemed like everything i was doing was perfect.However,none of the girls that asked me out were my type and even if 1 or 2 were i didnt take advantage of it, i still wasnt able to make as many friends as i want and to actually progress socially and i think thats what completely derailed me. I guess all the resentment,anger,biterness,sorrow etc i have toward my idols or people i started with or the things that were my reason to start self improvement was misguided, in actuality its not like i hated them or i was sad because they had the things i wanted, its because they had them and i didnt. I still deal with this obviously and just because im able to come logically to a conclussion doesnt immediately fix my mind and spirit but i still think this is part of the truth. Its just that i saw progress, i felt that i had the power to change things, then i completely got knocked off from what i thought was the peak of the world for me.Now in this specific case, i guess the real problem i have about women and getting them and anything related is that i dont get them, its that i dont have it.I obviously still dont know how to get them or what i should even do to be able to get them, i dont know how to stop feeling like that toward the other things or people that ive been clinging to all this time and who were my reason for starting and to keep going on self improvement until they surpassed me and i felt like they left me behind. I just think i need to escape from this jail of getting no women and not even any interactions with them and it will massively improve my mental health and life with a very big jump, for now i guess i want to find a way to escape this and i think my situation will probably improve. although ive been trying to get out of it for years and still havent but there has to be a way right? i cant be like this forever right? it wont end with me still like this right?
 
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interesting read :Comfy:
 
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interesting, gl with that
 
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just looksmax so women will be attracted to you abd youll feel good avout yourself and your dick will be strong and hard when you fuck women. its really simple.
 
just looksmax so women will be attracted to you abd youll feel good avout yourself and your dick will be strong and hard when you fuck women. its really simple.
I know that were on a blackpill forum but will looksmaxing really be enough? Ive been looksmaxxed before and the only thing im missing right now is being lean but im still khhv and get no girls,do you really think if i just get lean therell be a massive change? or is it the social skills im missing?, before you say you can improve social skills i really dont think so, not unless you have enough to get friends and a girl already
 
Bro dont disregaurd getting attention from foids just because they are the ones you dont want because if they are opening up to you for the first time it means the ones you do want attention from are closer than they were before. How much closer? Idk, but definately closer.
 
I think i finally realized my thoughts and kind of put them in order, even if this isnt the entirety of it its definately a part. I started self improvement about 3 years ago and in the first 1 or 2 years i actually made significant progress, i had noticed massive improvements in my attractiveness and performance and even in my treatment by other people, i started getting asked out by girls and it seemed like everything i was doing was perfect.However,none of the girls that asked me out were my type and even if 1 or 2 were i didnt take advantage of it, i still wasnt able to make as many friends as i want and to actually progress socially and i think thats what completely derailed me. I guess all the resentment,anger,biterness,sorrow etc i have toward my idols or people i started with or the things that were my reason to start self improvement was misguided, in actuality its not like i hated them or i was sad because they had the things i wanted, its because they had them and i didnt. I still deal with this obviously and just because im able to come logically to a conclussion doesnt immediately fix my mind and spirit but i still think this is part of the truth. Its just that i saw progress, i felt that i had the power to change things, then i completely got knocked off from what i thought was the peak of the world for me.Now in this specific case, i guess the real problem i have about women and getting them and anything related is that i dont get them, its that i dont have it.I obviously still dont know how to get them or what i should even do to be able to get them, i dont know how to stop feeling like that toward the other things or people that ive been clinging to all this time and who were my reason for starting and to keep going on self improvement until they surpassed me and i felt like they left me behind. I just think i need to escape from this jail of getting no women and not even any interactions with them and it will massively improve my mental health and life with a very big jump, for now i guess i want to find a way to escape this and i think my situation will probably improve. although ive been trying to get out of it for years and still havent but there has to be a way right? i cant be like this forever right? it wont end with me still like this right?
Sorry but dnr
 
I know that were on a blackpill forum but will looksmaxing really be enough? Ive been looksmaxxed before and the only thing im missing right now is being lean but im still khhv and get no girls,do you really think if i just get lean therell be a massive change? or is it the social skills im missing?, before you say you can improve social skills i really dont think so, not unless you have enough to get friends and a girl already
Bro it's 90% looks and 10% not acting like a retard, which comes with looks. I know a guy who was a legit 8/10 back then when we where teenagers, he had an extreme lisp, acne, but had extremely good face, wasn't even tall just average.

Trust and believe, no amount of " self improvement " will get you pussy. You have to hard looksmaxx, if you are still not pulling with low bodyfat.
 
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Bro it's 90% looks and 10% not acting like a retard, which comes with looks. I know a guy who was a legit 8/10 back then when we where teenagers, he had an extreme lisp, acne, but had extremely good face, wasn't even tall just average.

Trust and believe, no amount of " self improvement " will get you pussy. You have to hard looksmaxx, if you are still not pulling with low bodyfat.
im probably a little below 25% rn so maybe theres hope in that aspect, been rated mtn-hmtn mostly
 
im probably a little below 25% rn so maybe theres hope in that aspect, been rated mtn-hmtn mostly
that is already good. keep in mind being mtn-hmtn is still not enough for most women, even the disgusting obese ones. so keep grinding keep hustling and shoot for your dreams.
 
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I think i finally realized my thoughts and kind of put them in order, even if this isnt the entirety of it its definately a part. I started self improvement about 3 years ago and in the first 1 or 2 years i actually made significant progress, i had noticed massive improvements in my attractiveness and performance and even in my treatment by other people, i started getting asked out by girls and it seemed like everything i was doing was perfect.However,none of the girls that asked me out were my type and even if 1 or 2 were i didnt take advantage of it, i still wasnt able to make as many friends as i want and to actually progress socially and i think thats what completely derailed me. I guess all the resentment,anger,biterness,sorrow etc i have toward my idols or people i started with or the things that were my reason to start self improvement was misguided, in actuality its not like i hated them or i was sad because they had the things i wanted, its because they had them and i didnt. I still deal with this obviously and just because im able to come logically to a conclussion doesnt immediately fix my mind and spirit but i still think this is part of the truth. Its just that i saw progress, i felt that i had the power to change things, then i completely got knocked off from what i thought was the peak of the world for me.Now in this specific case, i guess the real problem i have about women and getting them and anything related is that i dont get them, its that i dont have it.I obviously still dont know how to get them or what i should even do to be able to get them, i dont know how to stop feeling like that toward the other things or people that ive been clinging to all this time and who were my reason for starting and to keep going on self improvement until they surpassed me and i felt like they left me behind. I just think i need to escape from this jail of getting no women and not even any interactions with them and it will massively improve my mental health and life with a very big jump, for now i guess i want to find a way to escape this and i think my situation will probably improve. although ive been trying to get out of it for years and still havent but there has to be a way right? i cant be like this forever right? it wont end with me still like this right?
Post a pic of you lil bro
 

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