A Serious problem about me for 7+ years

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Please read all this is serious and i need help give opininos if you love me a bit.I dont initiate conversations.I dont do what i love to do.I just flow with the sea.Or wait for others to approach.I have a massive fear of rejection.As an example if i try to talk to people and they reject me or give signs of it or just stare at me when im trying to be friends with them instead of being happy with me being their friends.I dont have the same problem with cold approaching.Just friends.Do you guys think i should message people initiating first conversations to hang out with them.Even though it will make me look like im trying hard to hangout with them.Does that make me a prey.
@Volksstaffel @marshadow @cobicado901 @Brus Wane i like you @LKSMAXPerson
 
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Please read all this is serious and i need help give opininos if you love me a bit.I dont initiate conversations.I dont do what i love to do.I just flow with the sea.Or wait for others to approach.I have a massive fear of rejection.As an example if i try to talk to people and they reject me or give signs of it or just stare at me when im trying to be friends with them instead of being happy with me being their friends.I dont have the same problem with cold approaching.Just friends.Do you guys think i should message people initiating first conversations to hang out with them.Even though it will make me look like im trying hard to hangout with them.Does that make me a prey.
@Volksstaffel @marshadow @cobicado901 @Brus Wane i like you @LKSMAXPerson
Am i a narcissist for not initiating conversations and waiting others to approach.Or am i too scared of risks
 
I never bothered to talk to other people. These guys I hang out with rn came from alone kinda
 
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I never bothered to talk to other people. These guys I hang out with rn came from alone kinda
There is couple guys i can talk to and i will open a social media acc making it open to public maybe will get some followers i dont care if people make fun of me tbh
 
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I relate, it’s not as hard for me to accept rejection tho
 
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I relate, it’s not as hard for me to accept rejection tho
It is for me it makes me feel not enough im deefinitely a narcissist.A narcissit that runs away from everything with a possibility of failure
 
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Im exactly like this so idk if my advice is any good

I aint gonna text first & look desperate

Besides, i can cope relatively well on my own anyway
 
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so everyone on this post is just shy
i think its normal to a DEGREE. some people are just geneticlaly shy but some are shaped to be shy
 
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Please read all this is serious and i need help give opininos if you love me a bit.I dont initiate conversations.I dont do what i love to do.I just flow with the sea.Or wait for others to approach.I have a massive fear of rejection.As an example if i try to talk to people and they reject me or give signs of it or just stare at me when im trying to be friends with them instead of being happy with me being their friends.I dont have the same problem with cold approaching.Just friends.Do you guys think i should message people initiating first conversations to hang out with them.Even though it will make me look like im trying hard to hangout with them.Does that make me a prey.
@Volksstaffel @marshadow @cobicado901 @Brus Wane i like you @LKSMAXPerson
literally be yourself. if you want something take it
 
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