A serious question for forum slayers.

[enchanted_elixir]

How would the physical attractiveness of the women you get differ if you...

a) Only talked to women who approached you
b) Ones you approached because she was giving you IOIs
c) Ones you cold approached without evaluating interest

Thanks, hoping for a quality and speedy reply.

 

[cannot see myself]

I did 7 cold appreaches in my life, 3/7 end in a "date", the rest didn't.
I think that CA is the best way to talk to a woman, they don't know u, u also don't know her, and u need to use all of your social skills to make it. I made CA's based only on the looks, if the girl was pretty i did it, and i do it now, but just with girls that I like a lot.
Woman don't approach me to take my IG, snap, or anything. But hey, u can always make the first move, and if she likes u and your social skills, then she is gonna be into you.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I did 7 cold appreaches in my life, 3/7 end in a "date", the rest didn't.
I think that CA is the best way to talk to a woman, they don't know u, u also don't know her, and u need to use all of your social skills to make it. I made CA's based only on the looks, if the girl was pretty i did it, and i do it now, but just with girls that I like a lot.
Woman don't approach me to take my IG, snap, or anything. But hey, u can always make the first move, and if she likes u and your social skills, then she is gonna be into you.

What do you mean by CA's?

 

[enchanted_elixir]

@Clavicular
@SlayerJonas
@Amnesia
@Lars2 (its so nice to see you, pal!)

 

[cannot see myself]

What do you mean by CA's?

CA = Cold Approach

 

[BoredPrince]

I'm not a slayer, but often read that it's usually mtbs that approach guys, HTB+ will usually just give signals

 

[russiancelreturns]

its incel forum, jfl with such a question

 

[svarddre]

I’ve never been approached and I don’t approach

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I'm not a slayer, but often read that it's usually mtbs that approach guys, HTB+ will usually just give signals

Would make sense from my own personal experience to be fair. Girls in the bottom 66% in terms of physical attractiveness that you can get are more likely to take initiative, but I think such a belief is definitely incomplete.

 

[SlayerJonas]

@SlayerJonas

I planned on not replying because it'd sound like bragging from my side but I'll do it to share my perspective.

How would the physical attractiveness of the women you get differ if you...

a) Only talked to women who approached you

I get approached irregularly and it depends on the location and other factors like daytime.

These women end up being slightly above average.

b) Ones you approached because she was giving you IOIs

Can be any looks category, both ugly and good-looking girls can give IOIs.

c) Ones you cold approached without evaluating interest

I don't do that because I only approach girls after checking for IOIs.

Just go after the girls you're interested in anyway, the opportunities will be there no matter how you approach the problematic.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I planned on not replying because it'd sound like bragging from my side but I'll do it to share my perspective.

I get approached irregularly and it depends on the location and other factors like daytime.

These women end up being slightly above average.

Can be any looks category, both ugly and good-looking girls can give IOIs.

I don't do that because I only approach girls after checking for IOIs.

Just go after the girls you're interested in anyway, the opportunities will be there no matter how you approach the problematic.

B and A are the only good strategies, B being the best. IMO.

In my experience, strategy A makes you quite prone to getting the lower-end of what you can pull.

Strategy B allows you to get the higher-end of what you can pull, AND gives you a broader pool of women who like you (since the higher end of what you can pull is less likely to initiate, I feel like the women on the lower-end are more desperate)

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Just go after the girls you're interested in anyway, the opportunities will be there no matter how you approach the problematic.

What do you mean by this?

 

[SlayerJonas]

B and A are the only good strategies, B being the best. IMO.

In my experience, strategy A makes you quite prone to getting the lower-end of what you can pull.

Strategy B allows you to get the higher-end of what you can pull, AND gives you a broader pool of women who like you (since the higher end of what you can pull is less likely to initiate, I feel like the women on the lower-end are more desperate)

Yes strategy B should be the best option.

What do you mean by this?

I mean with this there'll be opportunities with out of all three strategies whether we like it or not, so we can still pick out of all options.

e.g. we can't control being approached or not (excluding positioning yourself wisely to get approached, but you get the idea).

 

[Smoove]

its incel forum, jfl with such a question

it's not an incel forum, it's a normie forum raided by incels.

 

[russiancelreturns]

it's not an incel forum, it's a normie forum raided by incels.

PSL forum is a normie forum? get out grey

 

[Smoove]

PSL forum is a normie forum? get out grey

it literally is, what a retard

 

[Lars2]

i have never cold approached irl, kinda akward if you go walk to her, and you instantly ask number/insta/snap, go have a good convo first looking if you guys even match on that level,

because i would rather have an 8/10 lookwise with a 10/10 personality then Visa Versa (even for slaying!!!

 

[enchanted_elixir]

i have never cold approached irl, kinda akward if you go walk to her if you instantly ask number/insta/snap, go have a good convo first looking if you guys even match on that level,

because i would rather have an 8/10 lookwise with a 10/10 personality then Visa Versa

Thanks, and also, nice to see you again!
I thought your new account was an impersonation account.
Came to find out, it's actually the real Lars.

 

[Lars2]

PSL forum is a normie forum? get out grey

JoinedJan 19, 2024

you cant call someone grey if he was before you

 

[ReturnOfTheBO2Cel]

i have never cold approached irl, kinda akward if you go walk to her if you instantly ask number/insta/snap, go have a good convo first looking if you guys even match on that level,

because i would rather have an 8/10 lookwise with a 10/10 personality then Visa Versa

yo you're dutch slayer, i rarely hear dutch women approaching dudes, have you ever been approached and if so how often?

 

[Deleted member 86877]

Suxk my dijhj

 

[Lars2]

yo you're dutch slayer, i rarely hear dutch women approaching dudes, have you ever been approached and if so how often?

i get signs, but like cold approach maybe a few, in clubs its way easier, so i just say something out of the blue, check the vibe move on if not there, i really hated the feeling of rejection when i was fatter so i am good in reading people + adhd (ESTP) so i know the answers before they talk

Now dating, found the one. and now serious
if you know yourself alot you know exactly what you want

 

[ReturnOfTheBO2Cel]

i get signs, but like cold approach maybe a few, in clubs its way easier, so i just say something out of the blue, check the vibe move on if not there, i really hated the feeling of rejection when i was fatter so i just got better to read people so i know the answers before they talk

ayyyy dankjewel bro

 

[Htobrother]

i get approached if i actually stop rotting and go out , milfs , jbs it’s all in there .
but i have a fucking ego , idk why and ignore them
last time 2 18y old jbs approached me asking for something while smiling at me both i didn’t know which one to look at , i just didn’t continue the conversation
i’m changing my personality now into NT and social even tho i’m a fucking psychopath jfl but it works when i pretend actually works very well

 

[laworg]

How would the physical attractiveness of the women you get differ if you...

a) Only talked to women who approached you
b) Ones you approached because she was giving you IOIs
c) Ones you cold approached without evaluating interest

Thanks, hoping for a quality and speedy reply.

Ill reply when im 10% and i got student public transport so imma go to every city in europe and cold approach