Gus17
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So I recently got into BDSM shit as a form of niche-maxxing (80% of girls into it while like only 20% of guys
) and I realized something. Alot of modern dating revolves around the same basic concepts of providing security for a woman whether that be emotional, financial, or physical.
For example in a bluepilled
context a man will provide resources and act as his girlfreinds emotional punching bag (ie happy wife, happy life). In this scenario where the man doesn't have the power and bends to the will of his wife he is used as an abused dog . But how this can be displayed can vary greatly for example in a BDSM soft-dom sense (form of redpill
) you dominate the girl and make her perform punishments when she misbeaves . This provides emotional security
as she doesn't have to think (the turn my brain off thing girls will talk about on tiktok) and she knows that you will keep her in check if she acts irrationally. In contrast to the bluepilled scenario, in the BDSM scenario the man gets what he wants out of the relationship and since will bends another's he is secure in his feeling of strength and status compared to the dog being walked in the bluepill.
Both bluepilled and BDSM-pilled men must put effort into the relationship punching bag vs Soft-Dom, but the results very greatly merely just by having the dominate position. From a blackpilled
sense both are jestering or relying on personality yet the results could not be more different.
Anyways yea, I think most guys should do this. It's alot more mentally fufilling to not worry about pleasing a woman, but instead punishing her when she misbehaves and if she ever cheats (all women cheat) at least you have clips of her basically worshipping you JFL
. Both fufill the same fundamental role of security it's just a different approach can often have better results.
Also
JFL at every trying to reason with a woman. They work on emotion which is directly linked to their pain receptors. She should feel good when she does what you want and bad when she doesn't. This is the only language they understand. I think this makes BDSM partly black pilled as it relies on women's innate biology rather then copium of reason or logic.
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For example in a bluepilled
Both bluepilled and BDSM-pilled men must put effort into the relationship punching bag vs Soft-Dom, but the results very greatly merely just by having the dominate position. From a blackpilled
Anyways yea, I think most guys should do this. It's alot more mentally fufilling to not worry about pleasing a woman, but instead punishing her when she misbehaves and if she ever cheats (all women cheat) at least you have clips of her basically worshipping you JFL
Also
@i cant lie cant lie @trashbinxoxo @le_paria_social @ItsSoGymMaxx @Serial Coomer @MaxorDie @Don Alejo Garza @hungrythanos414 @Gobnull