ascension124
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Things like: Building a really good physique, starting my business, saving money - These things gave me 10x more satisfactions than the dozens of nights in my early 20s slaying some girl from a bar or Tinder.
I spent my early 20s roiding, partying, and slaying girls at bars and clubs and Tinder. That's all that mattered to me at the time.
After a while slaying started to feel the same to me. The same convo every time, pretending to be interested in her, walking back to my apartment from the bar, the same road, her giving me the same compliments. I didn't even even remember many of the girls. It was pure hedonism, and didn't give me real satisfaction. Often times I felt completely drained and empty the day after.
Many people here wish they were born 6'5 giga chad millionaire. But after experiencing life, I feel the enjoyment comes from the process not the actual results. So just make sure to enjoy the process of looksmaxxing, learning social skills, improving confidence. Although it may sound hard to believe one day you'll slay and realize it wasnt everything you thought it would be, its very very overrated.
When I chose to be celibate for a month - no girls, dating apps, IG I felt very clear headed and calm, I slept better too.
TLDR: Develop actual goals - business, saving money, learning something new, building a good physique, learn a new language, fuck even playing video games can be cool. But do these things for YOURSELF and not for anyone else.
@Amnesia @edodalic29 @ForeverCoping @Heatmiser
I spent my early 20s roiding, partying, and slaying girls at bars and clubs and Tinder. That's all that mattered to me at the time.
After a while slaying started to feel the same to me. The same convo every time, pretending to be interested in her, walking back to my apartment from the bar, the same road, her giving me the same compliments. I didn't even even remember many of the girls. It was pure hedonism, and didn't give me real satisfaction. Often times I felt completely drained and empty the day after.
Many people here wish they were born 6'5 giga chad millionaire. But after experiencing life, I feel the enjoyment comes from the process not the actual results. So just make sure to enjoy the process of looksmaxxing, learning social skills, improving confidence. Although it may sound hard to believe one day you'll slay and realize it wasnt everything you thought it would be, its very very overrated.
When I chose to be celibate for a month - no girls, dating apps, IG I felt very clear headed and calm, I slept better too.
TLDR: Develop actual goals - business, saving money, learning something new, building a good physique, learn a new language, fuck even playing video games can be cool. But do these things for YOURSELF and not for anyone else.
@Amnesia @edodalic29 @ForeverCoping @Heatmiser
