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The average rating of a user on this forum is high ltn - low mtn, that is the world average in looks, and it's not like we have billions of men struggling to get married or have friends and being social, so why is it so proactive on this forum?
It's simply because most of you act high inhib, and everytime you do, it fuels your system to take it in as more of a habit, as a part of you. Things like standing away when your friends talk to their friends who you don't know instead of joining in on the conversation and meeting new people, being scared to ask someone in your classroom or workplace for something you need, staying in your room when guests you don't know are over instead of going out and meeting them. Little things like this is present in 90% of the active users on this forum that struggle with relationships/social habitats.
Being high inhib is kind of like a halo over looking average/below average. It's a direct sign that tells people both consciously and subconsciously that they should view you for your looks and nothing else since your behavior immediately affirms any subconscious bias they may have had before meeting you. Think of every social person that ever approached you and asked about something or you had a chat with, did you notice their looks? I'm sure if you think back on it now, they were most likely not very good looking, they may have even been below average, but at the moment you probably didn't think of that did you? No, you were too preoccupied in the conversation and with the person themselves to notice. This is how each and every one of you would be perceived if you went from high inhib to low inhib.
Here is a study that proves that people with social anxiety (high inhib) were perceived worse in speed dating:
https://www.ovid.com/journals/jpspy...and-liking-towards-understanding-the-role-of?
The good news is, this is extremely fixable. Once you get rid of your copes like "muh female hypergamy females only want chad" or "I'm subhuman," and start pushing yourself to get into social situations more, your high inhib will eventually die down once you realize that people are not these evil creatures that are disgusted by your very presence and instead that you simply never approached people and kept to yourself so you never found out. I'm sure a lot of you have had negative experiences before, people were mean, you got bullied, etc, but that shouldn't stop you from going out and making yourself more social. Being high inhib has absolutely zero benefits besides "muh not humiliating myself" which is just pure copium because you also stop yourself from making new friends, any chance of getting into a relationship, and enjoying the one chance at life that you have.
Some good places to start pushing down high inhibitions by engaging in social activities are:
Fairs
Any type of nightlife (clubs, bars, etc)
College life (If you have a dorm, socialize with your roommate and get into college activites)
Join clubs, a sport, any place where you are regularly forced to be there and interact with other people. This is excellent for both highschoolers and college students.
Some habits to break that encourage LowInhibmaxxing:
Being scared to ask someone at your workplace/classroom for something
Avoiding talking to new people when at a social event
Trying to act nonchalant when women are around and just looking at your phone instead of talking with your friends
Standing off by yourself whenever your friends are talking to their friends that you don't know
Camping in your room when there are guests over at your house that you don't know
These are very little things that a lot of you do constantly, it may feel hard, but you must push yourself, and just do it, once you start you won't stop.
An extra that isn't required but watch shows where the characters are low inhib/NT and are extremely forward. A personal recommendation of mine is Shameless, all the characters in that show are low inhib and are very forward, it'll give you an idea of what people are capable of whenever they don't have their inhibitions to stop them out of shyness. Obviously don't copy the characters but take it in, I promise you it'll help.
It takes a human being an average of 66 days of continuously doing something for it to become a habit. (Source.) The best time for you to have started becoming low inhib was 10+ years ago in first grade whenever your teacher asked the class to choose their own partners for a project and you had no friends in the class and had to go up to someone you didn't know to get started on your project. The second best time for you to start becoming low inhib is now.
It's simply because most of you act high inhib, and everytime you do, it fuels your system to take it in as more of a habit, as a part of you. Things like standing away when your friends talk to their friends who you don't know instead of joining in on the conversation and meeting new people, being scared to ask someone in your classroom or workplace for something you need, staying in your room when guests you don't know are over instead of going out and meeting them. Little things like this is present in 90% of the active users on this forum that struggle with relationships/social habitats.
Being high inhib is kind of like a halo over looking average/below average. It's a direct sign that tells people both consciously and subconsciously that they should view you for your looks and nothing else since your behavior immediately affirms any subconscious bias they may have had before meeting you. Think of every social person that ever approached you and asked about something or you had a chat with, did you notice their looks? I'm sure if you think back on it now, they were most likely not very good looking, they may have even been below average, but at the moment you probably didn't think of that did you? No, you were too preoccupied in the conversation and with the person themselves to notice. This is how each and every one of you would be perceived if you went from high inhib to low inhib.
Here is a study that proves that people with social anxiety (high inhib) were perceived worse in speed dating:
https://www.ovid.com/journals/jpspy...and-liking-towards-understanding-the-role-of?
The good news is, this is extremely fixable. Once you get rid of your copes like "muh female hypergamy females only want chad" or "I'm subhuman," and start pushing yourself to get into social situations more, your high inhib will eventually die down once you realize that people are not these evil creatures that are disgusted by your very presence and instead that you simply never approached people and kept to yourself so you never found out. I'm sure a lot of you have had negative experiences before, people were mean, you got bullied, etc, but that shouldn't stop you from going out and making yourself more social. Being high inhib has absolutely zero benefits besides "muh not humiliating myself" which is just pure copium because you also stop yourself from making new friends, any chance of getting into a relationship, and enjoying the one chance at life that you have.
Some good places to start pushing down high inhibitions by engaging in social activities are:
Fairs
Any type of nightlife (clubs, bars, etc)
College life (If you have a dorm, socialize with your roommate and get into college activites)
Join clubs, a sport, any place where you are regularly forced to be there and interact with other people. This is excellent for both highschoolers and college students.
Some habits to break that encourage LowInhibmaxxing:
Being scared to ask someone at your workplace/classroom for something
Avoiding talking to new people when at a social event
Trying to act nonchalant when women are around and just looking at your phone instead of talking with your friends
Standing off by yourself whenever your friends are talking to their friends that you don't know
Camping in your room when there are guests over at your house that you don't know
These are very little things that a lot of you do constantly, it may feel hard, but you must push yourself, and just do it, once you start you won't stop.
An extra that isn't required but watch shows where the characters are low inhib/NT and are extremely forward. A personal recommendation of mine is Shameless, all the characters in that show are low inhib and are very forward, it'll give you an idea of what people are capable of whenever they don't have their inhibitions to stop them out of shyness. Obviously don't copy the characters but take it in, I promise you it'll help.
It takes a human being an average of 66 days of continuously doing something for it to become a habit. (Source.) The best time for you to have started becoming low inhib was 10+ years ago in first grade whenever your teacher asked the class to choose their own partners for a project and you had no friends in the class and had to go up to someone you didn't know to get started on your project. The second best time for you to start becoming low inhib is now.
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