illusion
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Adultery/Cheating has always been a disgusting thing for me, I don't get why it's promoted so much, it's literally everywhere you look.
In the rap industry especially all I see are people, both men and women rapping about sex and having multiple sexual partners and treating them like they're some sort of animal. It's so widespread that it's actually a challenge to find a place where people are making genuine songs that aren't just about murder and sex.
It's no better in movies and films either, for example the really popular movie "The Notebook," which I've seen is substantially more popular with women, almost romanticizes cheating as a normal part of what you have to go through in a relationship. Similarly with the male audience there's "The Wolf Of Wall Street," you see the main character leave his devoted wife (who he had already cheated on on numerous occasions) for someone he found more attractive and only because he found her more attractive, although the movie has a much more realistic ending with his new wife leaving him and him ending up all alone.
I don't get why people promote and romanticize/sexualize adultery and cheating so much. It's not a good feeling at all, to do it or to be the one whom it happens to. I don't want multiple partners, it takes away the actual feeling behind it when there are multiple women/men. It's just not special, at the end of the day all they are to you are pieces of meat you can have intercourse with and nothing more. There's no love, no feeling, just a huge surge of lust. I don't want that, yes I want to find my future partner attractive but I also want to love her in non-sexual ways. There's so much more to life than sex, so much more to people, and I don't get why the media is so hyper focused on just that one thing, it honestly disgusts me.
In the rap industry especially all I see are people, both men and women rapping about sex and having multiple sexual partners and treating them like they're some sort of animal. It's so widespread that it's actually a challenge to find a place where people are making genuine songs that aren't just about murder and sex.
It's no better in movies and films either, for example the really popular movie "The Notebook," which I've seen is substantially more popular with women, almost romanticizes cheating as a normal part of what you have to go through in a relationship. Similarly with the male audience there's "The Wolf Of Wall Street," you see the main character leave his devoted wife (who he had already cheated on on numerous occasions) for someone he found more attractive and only because he found her more attractive, although the movie has a much more realistic ending with his new wife leaving him and him ending up all alone.
I don't get why people promote and romanticize/sexualize adultery and cheating so much. It's not a good feeling at all, to do it or to be the one whom it happens to. I don't want multiple partners, it takes away the actual feeling behind it when there are multiple women/men. It's just not special, at the end of the day all they are to you are pieces of meat you can have intercourse with and nothing more. There's no love, no feeling, just a huge surge of lust. I don't want that, yes I want to find my future partner attractive but I also want to love her in non-sexual ways. There's so much more to life than sex, so much more to people, and I don't get why the media is so hyper focused on just that one thing, it honestly disgusts me.
