Advice to every young (<18) user here from someone that did it wrong

[luuk]

• Do not waste your time. These are the best years most of you will get. If they aren’t good right now, you probably have the potential to turn it around before you lose them. Stop doing things in your free time that you don’t truly cherish- doomscrolling, rotting, sleeping excessively, gaming too much etc
• Fill your time with as many memorable experiences as possible. We encode memories based on novelty, if your days are all the same you’ll feel like your teen years are slipping away and you’ll remember very little. Take risks, go outside more, do stuff whilst you can still get away with it and real consequences don’t exist.
• Chose your friends wisely and build lifelong bonds with them. The most important quality to look out for in a friend is how they treat you. Do they truly value you, or are you the groups punching bag? Are they loyal, would they have your back if it meant sacrificing popularity or punishment? When you find the right friends, stay in contact with them no matter what, keep them around and check up on them too.
• Take care of yourself. Exercise regularly, eat healthy, minimise stress, get enough sleep, stay away from drugs and preserve your mental health. Get treatment if needed, there is no shame in it. Your future self will thank you.
• Don’t keep waiting for the right moment or overthink things. If you keep waiting, it will just pass you by. The right moment is now, you’ll learn in life that things won’t fall into your lap, you have to chase them, seize them, and that the cost of this is often embarassment of rejection, learn to be comfortable with them.
• Invest in your future. Keep your grades up, work on developing skills that will serve you your whole life. Learn how to make and manage money, to talk to people, to sell things and ideas, to adapt and be resourceful.
• Cherish the impermanent. You’ll probably live to see your parents die, your pets too. Older relatives, maybe even siblings, friends. And regardless, people will grow apart as you get older and distance increases. So show people that you appreciate them whilst they’re still a part of your life, you could lose them sooner than you think. Places too, one day you’ll long for a home that no longer exists.
• Stop worrying so much. This may seem contradictory to the rest of this list but it won’t help you at all. Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks, about the future, about your problems. Worrying takes you out of the present and makes you experience imaginary suffering from a future that hasn’t even happened yet. Stay grounded, live in the present and just enjoy it, one day you’ll actually have things worth worrying about, at least leave yourself with the memory of a better time..

 

[mcmentalonthemic]

Created by IsraelGPT

 

[looksovernt]

did not read

 

[luuk]

Created by IsraelGPT

niggas read so little that anything more than 3 lines must be ai generated

 

[sergdying]

This is like telling someone to do something they already do

 

[ascendtocl122]

valid advice

 

[ascendtocl122]

Unc

 

[luuk]

This is like telling someone to do something they already do

Kids on here at 14 are absolutely not doing this they are setting themselves up for failure
Or rather the vile algorithms that led them here did

 

[sergdying]

Kids on here at 14 are absolutely not doing this they are setting themselves up for failure
Or rather the vile algorithms that led them here did

I made my account when i was 14 and i've been pretty happy.

Im not a loser, make money, have fucked 2 foids and had countless foids

 

[luuk]

I made my account when i was 14 and i've been pretty happy.

Im not a loser, make money, have fucked 2 foids and had countless foids

You’ve posted 800 times in 1 and a half years you aren’t a rotter, hardly a tourist
This is a compliment btw

 

[Luquier]

Easier said than done sadly

 

[pflmaxx]

niggas read so little that anything more than 3 lines must be ai generated

gen z literary crisis

 

[Jason Voorhees]

Nice one bro. I wasted my teenage years unfortunately

 

[negativ_canthalshit]

valid advice

whos the girl in ur pfp bro

 

[polonaecel]

• Do not waste your time. These are the best years most of you will get. If they aren’t good right now, you probably have the potential to turn it around before you lose them. Stop doing things in your free time that you don’t truly cherish- doomscrolling, rotting, sleeping excessively, gaming too much etc
• Fill your time with as many memorable experiences as possible. We encode memories based on novelty, if your days are all the same you’ll feel like your teen years are slipping away and you’ll remember very little. Take risks, go outside more, do stuff whilst you can still get away with it and real consequences don’t exist.
• Chose your friends wisely and build lifelong bonds with them. The most important quality to look out for in a friend is how they treat you. Do they truly value you, or are you the groups punching bag? Are they loyal, would they have your back if it meant sacrificing popularity or punishment? When you find the right friends, stay in contact with them no matter what, keep them around and check up on them too.
• Take care of yourself. Exercise regularly, eat healthy, minimise stress, get enough sleep, stay away from drugs and preserve your mental health. Get treatment if needed, there is no shame in it. Your future self will thank you.
• Don’t keep waiting for the right moment or overthink things. If you keep waiting, it will just pass you by. The right moment is now, you’ll learn in life that things won’t fall into your lap, you have to chase them, seize them, and that the cost of this is often embarassment of rejection, learn to be comfortable with them.
• Invest in your future. Keep your grades up, work on developing skills that will serve you your whole life. Learn how to make and manage money, to talk to people, to sell things and ideas, to adapt and be resourceful.
• Cherish the impermanent. You’ll probably live to see your parents die, your pets too. Older relatives, maybe even siblings, friends. And regardless, people will grow apart as you get older and distance increases. So show people that you appreciate them whilst they’re still a part of your life, you could lose them sooner than you think. Places too, one day you’ll long for a home that no longer exists.
• Stop worrying so much. This may seem contradictory to the rest of this list but it won’t help you at all. Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks, about the future, about your problems. Worrying takes you out of the present and makes you experience imaginary suffering from a future that hasn’t even happened yet. Stay grounded, live in the present and just enjoy it, one day you’ll actually have things worth worrying about, at least leave yourself with the memory of a better time..

None of my friends invite me anywhere and when i ask they say no, i've already wasted 14 years of not going outside, why should i star now at 15? its pointless. the only thing i do on the list is invest in my future and take care of myself occasionally

 

[PharmaPhaggot]

Water, anyone that does not understand this is mentally subhuman and will fail no natter what anyway

 

[PharmaPhaggot]

Water, anyone that does not understand this is mentally subhuman and will fail no natter what anyway

 

[ja37viggenlover]

• Do not waste your time. These are the best years most of you will get. If they aren’t good right now, you probably have the potential to turn it around before you lose them. Stop doing things in your free time that you don’t truly cherish- doomscrolling, rotting, sleeping excessively, gaming too much etc
• Fill your time with as many memorable experiences as possible. We encode memories based on novelty, if your days are all the same you’ll feel like your teen years are slipping away and you’ll remember very little. Take risks, go outside more, do stuff whilst you can still get away with it and real consequences don’t exist.
• Chose your friends wisely and build lifelong bonds with them. The most important quality to look out for in a friend is how they treat you. Do they truly value you, or are you the groups punching bag? Are they loyal, would they have your back if it meant sacrificing popularity or punishment? When you find the right friends, stay in contact with them no matter what, keep them around and check up on them too.
• Take care of yourself. Exercise regularly, eat healthy, minimise stress, get enough sleep, stay away from drugs and preserve your mental health. Get treatment if needed, there is no shame in it. Your future self will thank you.
• Don’t keep waiting for the right moment or overthink things. If you keep waiting, it will just pass you by. The right moment is now, you’ll learn in life that things won’t fall into your lap, you have to chase them, seize them, and that the cost of this is often embarassment of rejection, learn to be comfortable with them.
• Invest in your future. Keep your grades up, work on developing skills that will serve you your whole life. Learn how to make and manage money, to talk to people, to sell things and ideas, to adapt and be resourceful.
• Cherish the impermanent. You’ll probably live to see your parents die, your pets too. Older relatives, maybe even siblings, friends. And regardless, people will grow apart as you get older and distance increases. So show people that you appreciate them whilst they’re still a part of your life, you could lose them sooner than you think. Places too, one day you’ll long for a home that no longer exists.
• Stop worrying so much. This may seem contradictory to the rest of this list but it won’t help you at all. Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks, about the future, about your problems. Worrying takes you out of the present and makes you experience imaginary suffering from a future that hasn’t even happened yet. Stay grounded, live in the present and just enjoy it, one day you’ll actually have things worth worrying about, at least leave yourself with the memory of a better time..

tutorial on how to talk to women when you're already a socialite?? I feel like a degenerate even approaching women

 

[SnowyWeather]

Young and 18 in the same sentance

@klip11