good luck in the real worldNo
Thanks bro
Honestly people are so fucking stupid. Youtube is now filled with Hamza copycats and Looksmaxshit. Its funny that 20 years old niggas became mentor when they had small glow up
Validations happens when u are social not vica versa. Its very hard to get validation irl if u are introverted person.
If you are an introverted person it means that while growing up you were not on par with the genetically superior people. So you were left behind, achieving that mythical abused dog syndrome.
Its def not. Lol I know plenty of good looking person that are struggling with women because they have shitty social skills. U need to have full package.
Nah Its comes from childhood. There are plenty of good looking introverted people. Its probably genetic trait. I was introverted when I was 3-5 years old. I was cutest mother fucking kid in planet.
yes from childhood, it comes from social conditioning that comes from the perception on how others are vieving you. the most important ages are probably 5-14 when it's being shaped, because that's when your brain is learning the patterns, on who is who in social hierarchy. I think all people are actually ambiverts by nature, but because of the programming, based on looks, it can range from high introvert incel to high extravert chad for example. So you can be ugly in childhood but good looking as an adult cause you hit late puberty or get surgery or whatever, but you're still conditioned into being on that introvertish scale.
Nah. Its genetic feature most likely. My cousin is short subhuman extroverted social person and he gets millions of rejection. I got more validation than him and im still introverted. My brain is adjusted like this since birth. When u are handsome introverted you will most likely blow up all opportunities that allow boost u confidence. LIKE When girl was interested on me.. I had 0% guts to ask her out. Missed opportunity of validation boost. We are like good looking outside but are trapped in ugly niggas Mindset inside.
I do not get this point because this makes fundamentally no sense. While yes being good looking will make you feel more validated, its not gonna make you a better friend maker. Making friends is possible no matter how confident you are, and confidence will help you appeal to lot of people but thats about it. Good looking people may feel more confident but it does not really help them have friends outside of appealing to them. Being confident and validated does not mean you can succesfully interact and form relationships with people. What you fail to understand is you think validation can somehow bypass social skills. Chads that look very good will have easy time with women, but if they are abused dogs with no social skills, they wont be able to create lot of genuine friendships. Thats the thing, looks help you with being appealing, which is what matter for a relationship with a woman but how is that gonna make you make friends. Someone may see you are good looking but since a friend is not attracted to you, how much you are appealing to them is not really a factor. It may help you talk to people initially but thats it, if thats all you want you are simply gonna talk to people but your lack of social skills or awkwardness will make it hard to form a friendship. Social skills are entirely genetic factor that depend on the people, like everything behaviorial can be trained some people will have different success at it. Most people are good at making friends because they have normal brain chemistry which made them fit and easy for them to interact with people from the start. These people were never rejected or bullied because they were never weird or not normal. Lot of people who have hard time making friends are usually people with fucked up brain chemistry who genuinely are simply different than most people. People may consider them weird which is why they get rejection and a lot of them decide to isolate themselves. This brain chemistry is entirely dependant on your genetic, and better looks wont make that go away. The point OP is trying to make is that focusing on looks while isolating yourself on a forum like this is gonna make you a social reject. And it is good advice because if you have fucked up brain chemistry like a lot of people in this forum, isolating yourself will simply make it worse. The only way you can try to combat autism and be social is to practice and try your best to be normal. Staying inside will never help that.
The explaination to this is brain chemistry. Your ugly short subhuman cousin has simply better brain chemistry that makes him a better talker and better social person. You have brain chemistry that makes it hard to do the same. The reason you blew all of this is because your brain overthinks and is scared. All of this causes your behaviour. The only way you can try to counter it is taking medication or learning how normal people do it. Its not your fault, you were born that way.
That is not true simply because the brain chemistry is not something that will change depending on your social conditioning. People who are introvert are introvert because they have genetic that makes their brain harder to learn pattern that normal brains can. You could be a chad since birth, with the best social life and that may help you counter that disadvantage you have but still be harder for you to make friends. You create false causation where attractiveness somehow is correlated to that ability to make friends. In every schools people that are introverted usually have brain chemistry that makes it hard to connect to people. They will have different interest because of their lack of ability to connect with the activities of normal people. They end up online in weird spaces like this or a gamer. Because of that they will give less interest in taking care of their appearance because their brain cares about things differently. People that are extraverted are not necessarily the "better looking ones" they will be the one with generally more social brain chemistry that have had good success because of that. They are generally gonna be better looking due to them caring about looks due to being socially conditioned because of people they hangout with. People here range from chads to incels but a lot of people here have trouble learning normal social stuff. Most people will never have to looksmaxx or stuff like this because its normally conditioned to them due to how their brain work. People here share advice to this autistic niche of people who generally were more autistic socially. If you end up here, you could be ugly or attractive but you are probably a abused dog. Behaviour is genetic, and that genetic has nothing to do with physiology. There is no correlation, but you try to invent one.
The mythical dog syndrome is due to brain chemistry. Brain chemistry is genetic, and is not correlated to better looking genetics. In fact the people that have mythical dog syndrome are not conditioned to be that way due to social treatment. Usually their brain chemistry makes them weird and thats what make them have less friends. Some people are autistic and weird and they are like this not because they got rejected, they get rejected due to genetic behaviour. The behaviour is a cause not a symptom. You think behaviour is the symptom because you barely understand how humans works. Do you understand?
So you are saying that the personality is genetics, and I made wrong assumption, thinking Chad got all that social life therefore he's in constant dopamine state of being validated and wanted to be befriended. So now I think about it a bit differently. What you say actually is right. Looks can be a tool, to get the validation and better treatment. But if you got shit neurotransmitters, you won't be able to use that tool, it won't reward you maybe like you just don't get to enjoy social validation, you may be neurotic, anxiety, low dopamine levels in brain ect. so abused dog syndrome is caused not by a lack of validation, but it's predetermined by genetics.
I actually managed to get good chemistry when I was temporarily depressed because of my pet was dying. I had this feeling of I dont give shit about anything. Did not feel any anxiety. It felt good.
Thats the thing with blackpill, is that while i think thinking that looks matter is generally a realistic point of view. A lot of things are caused by genetics and how the human is made in the first place. Personality is less changeable than you could think. Our society has kind of lied to us that you can change everything but a lot of people are not in control of that. Being depressed is an symptom of having a shitty life yes, and fixing that cause may make you feel better. My point is that lot of humans get shit situations and depending on the human, some get suicidal, some just live their life. The reaction and behaviour you will have after you have a moment in your life is genetic. Which i think is the real blackpill, not that looks is what made your personality what it is. But the fact that your personality is simply unchangeable and result of a complicated set of hormones. The only way a human can become a different person is by changing these hormones. Thats why drugs works, why people get addicted to drugs. Its because these molecules give things that your genetics dont give you, so you take a external source to get those molecules. But thats also why people react differently to drugs, because everyone brain is entirely different in how it works, changing a molecule may do something to someone and nothing to someone else. The common things we share are because we share a certain degree of common genetic makeup that makes us human. But the more genetically different you are, the more unique of a human you will be.
I agree, especially with personality being unchangeable, unless under drugs, it all seems to be predetermined since birth. hormonal profile and neurotransmitters are somewhat your personality, and looks is the external which gives you variations on how that personality and attitude is perceived by the environment. I think we got to a conclusion
Nigga if you're good looking your advice doesn't mean shit, It looks like you're trying to gatekeep looksmaxxing telling ugly folks to just quit Jfl
