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Can anyone with divorced parents help me out with something I’m going through right now
 
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whats up man :feelswhy:
 
yeah boyo
 
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I recently found out that my parents separated because of my dad cheating, and he told me that during the divorce my mom offered for him to not pay child support to not be in our lives anymore.

Should I be mad at my mom for that?
 
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I recently found out that my parents separated because of my dad cheating, and he told me that during the divorce my mom offered for him to not pay child support to not be in our lives anymore.

Should I be mad at my mom for that?
no its difficult for her too, someone she agreed to raise a kid with betrayed her.
its nice that ur dad turned down the offer but don't let what he says impact the opinions of your mother.
if anything I would be mad at my dad.
 
I recently found out that my parents separated because of my dad cheating, and he told me that during the divorce my mom offered for him to not pay child support to not be in our lives anymore.

Should I be mad at my mom for that?
thats something tough to say but your mom might know something that you dont or she might be trying to protect you. Dont forget divorce and betrayal leads to clouded judgement. My opinion is: go to her and tell her how you feel
 
no its difficult for her too, someone she agreed to raise a kid with betrayed her.
its nice that ur dad turned down the offer but don't let what he says impact the opinions of your mother.
if anything I would be mad at my dad.
I am but it’s hard to be mad at my idol, it’s just that he ended up marrying the girl he cheated on my mom with and I dislike her a lot and am finding it easier to blame this on her which is unfair
 
thats something tough to say but your mom might know something that you dont or she might be trying to protect you. Dont forget divorce and betrayal leads to clouded judgement. My opinion is: go to her and tell her how you feel
She doesn’t know that I know and my dad was hiding it from me to protect her but accidentally told me
 
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I recently found out that my parents separated because of my dad cheating, and he told me that during the divorce my mom offered for him to not pay child support to not be in our lives anymore.

Should I be mad at my mom for that?
brutal i was pretty much in the same situation as you. Like the other guy said she could be holding onto info for your own sake.

when my mum kicked my dad out i was mad too. however i could atleast arrange something while my mum to keep it touch. so I can regularly atleast visit or call him now, which you could try
 
brutal i was pretty much in the same situation as you. Like the other guy said she could be holding onto info for your own sake.

when my mum kicked my dad out i was mad too. however i could atleast arrange something while my mum to keep it touch. so I can regularly atleast visit or call him now, which you could try
He declined the offer instantly which upset her and it’s a 66/33 split between my parents right now, he told me he cheated because my mom emotionally abused him and he met someone that made him feel good about himself.
 
He declined the offer instantly which upset her and it’s a 66/33 split between my parents right now, he told me he cheated because my mom emotionally abused him and he met someone that made him feel good about himself.
well idk about your life and family situation, I cant figure out whether you.

You don't have to pick a side right now, just reflect on yourself and how you feel. If both are true, both parents are in the wrong but at this point just put yourself first. It's okay to feel overwhelmed because i went through the same thing. Whatever happened between the marriage is between them, and from now it should be your relationship with them individually
 
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I recently found out that my parents separated because of my dad cheating, and he told me that during the divorce my mom offered for him to not pay child support to not be in our lives anymore.

Should I be mad at my mom for that?
Brutal similar happened to me
 

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