darkness97
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i have been on these sites for nearly a decade. i don't really post that much, nor do i visit it that often. i take massive breaks and this is what i have learned.
Literally none. i have seen guys with no social awareness get beautiful women, i have seen tall good looking dudes get mid women, i have seen dudes with the worst dental hygiene get the best women, i have seen the best looking guys with hot girls. i've seen midgets cheat on hot girls, i have seen hot girls cheat on assholes nice guys or anything.
i have not seen a consistent pattern. dating and life is legit like going to the casino. there are things that can improve your chances but at the end of the day it's still down to luck and the house tends to win slightly more. it's all the luck of the draw. even when i consider how i met my friends it was luck. everything was. being at the right place at the right time.
all you can really do is take your chances. there are just too many factors that we hardly understand as people and in science to make a claim that THIS WILL WORK and this WONT. i remember i was talking to this girl once that i thought hated me and we ended up making out in the washroom when we were both at the same party. this girl asked me out and when we went out her ex messaged her and then immediately fell out of interest. it's all too random to focus on anything other than TRYING and talking to women.
there is literally no guarantee of anything.
Literally none. i have seen guys with no social awareness get beautiful women, i have seen tall good looking dudes get mid women, i have seen dudes with the worst dental hygiene get the best women, i have seen the best looking guys with hot girls. i've seen midgets cheat on hot girls, i have seen hot girls cheat on assholes nice guys or anything.
i have not seen a consistent pattern. dating and life is legit like going to the casino. there are things that can improve your chances but at the end of the day it's still down to luck and the house tends to win slightly more. it's all the luck of the draw. even when i consider how i met my friends it was luck. everything was. being at the right place at the right time.
all you can really do is take your chances. there are just too many factors that we hardly understand as people and in science to make a claim that THIS WILL WORK and this WONT. i remember i was talking to this girl once that i thought hated me and we ended up making out in the washroom when we were both at the same party. this girl asked me out and when we went out her ex messaged her and then immediately fell out of interest. it's all too random to focus on anything other than TRYING and talking to women.
