SpanishSlayer
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Before I was so desesperante to get girls and shit, overthinking every step that I made and I was very afraid of losing them.
But nowadays I don't care anymore about how many girls I get, now care more about myself since i see more productive investing in yourself(looksmaxxing,etc) than playing the numbers game wasting time chasing girls which doesn't change your intrinsic value.
Also I have noticed that I give way less fucks about what I say and I overthink things less.
I think that the mainstream culture focus too much on the importance of what you say or how you act that ironically makes you more insecure and more tryhard.
Many people and myself when I was younger thought that chad has girls because he had the magic key or said the right words had more confidence.When in reality girls just liked them. And you were left thinking what I did wrong that I'm not getting his results
When you are blackpilled you are like whatever I will just say/text her X and of she finds me chadish enough I got her.
Maybe you are still wasting your life away but at least we aren't waisting our life watching and reading cringe bluepill/pick up artist tips on how to get a girl to like you.
Just my 2cents.
Any of guys has experienced also this whatever it doesn't really matter that much actitude after being blackpilled.
But nowadays I don't care anymore about how many girls I get, now care more about myself since i see more productive investing in yourself(looksmaxxing,etc) than playing the numbers game wasting time chasing girls which doesn't change your intrinsic value.
Also I have noticed that I give way less fucks about what I say and I overthink things less.
I think that the mainstream culture focus too much on the importance of what you say or how you act that ironically makes you more insecure and more tryhard.
Many people and myself when I was younger thought that chad has girls because he had the magic key or said the right words had more confidence.When in reality girls just liked them. And you were left thinking what I did wrong that I'm not getting his results
When you are blackpilled you are like whatever I will just say/text her X and of she finds me chadish enough I got her.
Maybe you are still wasting your life away but at least we aren't waisting our life watching and reading cringe bluepill/pick up artist tips on how to get a girl to like you.
Just my 2cents.
Any of guys has experienced also this whatever it doesn't really matter that much actitude after being blackpilled.
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