UMIRINBRAH?
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My (25f) boyfriend (27m) and I are dating for 8 months. When we started dating I was putting makeup on every day and I fell asleep sometimes with it still on my face, so my skin wasn't in the best state.
I realized that I wasn't doing it for myself but for the others and that I was scared of going out without makeup. I decided to slowly stop putting makeup on and appreciate my natural face. I started using skincare products and also started doing sport and eating healthy food which helped me feel confident.
My boyfriend is a bit different, he has a more sedentary lifestyle and eats mostly fast food or highly processed foods. He's a bit overweight. I try to get him to take walks with me or to cook for him but he always refuses.
Recently he started doing comments on my appearance such as "you looked prettier with makeup", "you're letting yourself go", or suggesting that he could get any girl he wanted so that I should put more effort into pleasing him.
Yesterday I was getting ready for the day and he went behind me and asked if I was really going out like that. I asked him what he meant and he answered without makeup. Sick of hearing those comments, I snapped.
I told him that he was ugly, always eating shitty food, that he was disgusting to look at, and that maybe I wasn't putting on makeup but that I was doing something fulfilling with my life which he was not.
He looked shocked and went to another room without saying anything. Since I said this he's giving me a silent treatment and I'm wondering if I'm the AH for what I said. I asked my friends for their opinions and some thought that i was right but some thought i was too harsh on him. AITA ?
I realized that I wasn't doing it for myself but for the others and that I was scared of going out without makeup. I decided to slowly stop putting makeup on and appreciate my natural face. I started using skincare products and also started doing sport and eating healthy food which helped me feel confident.
My boyfriend is a bit different, he has a more sedentary lifestyle and eats mostly fast food or highly processed foods. He's a bit overweight. I try to get him to take walks with me or to cook for him but he always refuses.
Recently he started doing comments on my appearance such as "you looked prettier with makeup", "you're letting yourself go", or suggesting that he could get any girl he wanted so that I should put more effort into pleasing him.
Yesterday I was getting ready for the day and he went behind me and asked if I was really going out like that. I asked him what he meant and he answered without makeup. Sick of hearing those comments, I snapped.
I told him that he was ugly, always eating shitty food, that he was disgusting to look at, and that maybe I wasn't putting on makeup but that I was doing something fulfilling with my life which he was not.
He looked shocked and went to another room without saying anything. Since I said this he's giving me a silent treatment and I'm wondering if I'm the AH for what I said. I asked my friends for their opinions and some thought that i was right but some thought i was too harsh on him. AITA ?
