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AITAH for telling my fiance I will become a better cook once he becomes a real man like my brother?
My fiancé (25M) proposed to me (24F) last month, we have been dating for 4 years. My fiancé loves his mum’s food, but it annoys me whenever he says I should cook like her and open up my cooking repertoire. I have told him many times before that I don’t like the comparisons; but he doesn't stop, and keeps talking about his mom's cooking. It makes me very insecure, and I feel sort of worthless because I try my best every time I cook for my fiance.
Well a couple of nights ago, I sort of snapped. My fiancé has always had a thin physique and has been insecure about his body. He always asks reassurances from me that I find him attractive, which I always give him. However, a couple of nights ago, when he asked me to cook like his mum again, I said that I would become a better cook once he becomes a real man like my brother. My brother served in the military; he is built differently than my fiance, he has a muscular build with a lot of tattoos, while my fiancé is skinny and works in IT.
The minute I said that, my fiancé became silent and did not to speak to me the rest of the night. He seemed really sad even the next day, and we barely spoke. I feel guilty for hitting at one of his insecurities; I just wanted him to stop comparing me with his mother.
Was it the AH?
My fiancé (25M) proposed to me (24F) last month, we have been dating for 4 years. My fiancé loves his mum’s food, but it annoys me whenever he says I should cook like her and open up my cooking repertoire. I have told him many times before that I don’t like the comparisons; but he doesn't stop, and keeps talking about his mom's cooking. It makes me very insecure, and I feel sort of worthless because I try my best every time I cook for my fiance.
Well a couple of nights ago, I sort of snapped. My fiancé has always had a thin physique and has been insecure about his body. He always asks reassurances from me that I find him attractive, which I always give him. However, a couple of nights ago, when he asked me to cook like his mum again, I said that I would become a better cook once he becomes a real man like my brother. My brother served in the military; he is built differently than my fiance, he has a muscular build with a lot of tattoos, while my fiancé is skinny and works in IT.
The minute I said that, my fiancé became silent and did not to speak to me the rest of the night. He seemed really sad even the next day, and we barely spoke. I feel guilty for hitting at one of his insecurities; I just wanted him to stop comparing me with his mother.
Was it the AH?
