All my life I thought having gf will change my life. It is the opposite actually

[Deleted member 3163]

Will fill my void but no. I finally got a girlfriend 16 yo cute yet still I'm sad and depressed more than before. Having a gf changes nothing. The first few days I had insane confidence but everything changed in next 3 days. I returned to my former autistic self. Is meditation the only cope left? There is a good thing tho after having a gf I haven't masturbated even one time. It has been almost a month now. I don't even think about fappping anymore. This thread was the reason I came back to.me

 

[oatmeal]

Is meditation the only cope left?

yuh

or try creating something of your own. say a piece of art or some small writing idk. doesn't have to be good but its what I do and it works.

 

[thecaste]

 

[Deleted member 3163]

yuh

or try creating something of your own. say a piece of art or some small writing idk. doesn't have to be good but its what I do and it works.

I'm so fucked mentally man.

 

[Deleted member 3163]

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Yeah man funny. Should not spam in a serious post tho

 

[JustAFewMM]

Sad, why doesnr it make ubhappy

 

[Deleted member 1476]

heshtegelu !

 

[Deleted member 5061]

Why would you feel unhappy with a gf, serious?
Theres someone who genuinely likes you (I assume), so everything else you achieve from that point on is like a bonus anyways.
Insecure about your looks still or what is it?

 

[Deleted member 9048]

 

[Deleted member 795]

yuh

or try creating something of your own. say a piece of art or some small writing idk. doesn't have to be good but its what I do and it works.

I do pastry lol

 

[turbocuckcel_7000000]

brutal shit ngl

 

[ovosoundszn]

You need to return to God bro. Look up jesse lee peterson. Satans been lying to you, saying you neee a gf to fill the void, but its simply not true.

 

[Deleted member 5061]

You need to return to God bro. Look up jesse lee peterson. Satans been lying to you, saying you neee a gf to fill the void, but its simply not true.

Its not about filling the void with a gf or becoming happy once you get a gf, but having a gf is the very basic need for every man, to then focus on achieving other/bigger things, since one of your most basic needs is fulfilled.

When your basic needs arent fullfilled, everything else kinda doesnt even matter.

See, all those philisophic quotes and similar shit like "you need to be chasing bigger goals, find your true passion, bla bla" that shit was just designed to keep unnatractive men slaving for the elite, instead of quitting this whole wageslaving shit. They want their slaves to stay as productive as possible. They know that Chads are unlikely to invent new shit, become researchers, technology engineers etc. etc. and instead the unnatractive dudes are more likely to do this kind of shit, to distract themselves from the fact how shitty their personal (in terms of partner+family) and intimate life is. Hence why you have these philosophers and everyone who works for the elite come up with shit like "you should focus on bigger goals, more important things than thinking about women all the time.. bla bla" while this is true, it is only relevant if you can actually get a decently looking gf/wife etc. Otherwise youre just a fkn wageslave, working your ass off, inventing new stuff etc. just for the benefit of others. Ultimate cuckery tbh.

 

[rydofx]

Its not about filling the void with a gf or becoming happy once you get a gf, but having a gf is the very basic need for every man, to then focus on achieving other/bigger things, since one of your most basic needs is fulfilled.

When your basic needs arent fullfilled, everything else kinda doesnt even matter.

See, all those philisophic quotes and similar shit like "you need to be chasing bigger goals, find your true passion, bla bla" that shit was just designed to keep unnatractive men slaving for the elite, instead of quitting this whole wageslaving shit. They want their slaves to stay as productive as possible. They know that Chads are unlikely to invent new shit, become researchers, technology engineers etc. etc. and instead the unnatractive dudes are more likely to do this kind of shit, to distract themselves from the fact how shitty their personal (in terms of partner+family) and intimate life is. Hence why you have these philosophers and everyone who works for the elite come up with shit like "you should focus on bigger goals, more important things than thinking about women all the time.. bla bla" while this is true, it is only relevant if you can actually get a decently looking gf/wife etc. Otherwise youre just a fkn wageslave, working your ass off, inventing new stuff etc. just for the benefit of others. Ultimate cuckery tbh.

but bruh. whats the alternative?

 

[Deleted member 5927]

Bruh why the fuck do you listen to faggots on this site. I’ve been saying it for fucking EVER, happiness comes from within it’s literally just a mental decision. Holy fuck.

Also live a healthy lifestyle hormonal shit affects everything.

 

[Rich/Jewish_Gooner$]

Bruh why the fuck do you listen to faggots on this site. I’ve been saying it for fucking EVER, happiness comes from within it’s literally just a mental decision. Holy fuck.

Also live a healthy lifestyle hormonal shit affects everything.

you are delusional

 

[Deleted member 5927]

you are delusional

No. I’m right. Stay away from my fucking people I’m trying to help. You pessimistic faggots deserve nothing more than to be beaten to death. I hate you fucking queers. I love helping people and you utter pathetic rats just infect people with your absolute toxic idiocy.

 

[Deleted member 7076]

i loved ur singing vids bhai

 

[Rich/Jewish_Gooner$]

No. I’m right. Stay away from my fucking people I’m trying to help. You pessimistic faggots deserve nothing more than to be beaten to death. I hate you fucking queers. I love helping people and you utter pathetic rats just infect people with your absolute toxic idiocy.

you should not help people, youre the one who needs help, i can already tell it based on your response that youre hurt inside

 

[Deleted member 3163]

I always had a goal to look forward to having a gf. Now that I accomplished it and nothing changed. I feel like I lost my cope

 

[rydofx]

Maybe like try to figure out whats important for u in ur life. is it money. i guess it wasn't sex. is it success. is it status. is it recognition?

If u can figure out whats important and strive to accomplish that. Then u will be happier. Looks like u got basics met. House, sex, food

 

[Deleted member 3163]

Maybe like try to figure out whats important for u in ur life. is it money. i guess it wasn't sex. is it success. is it status. is it recognition?

If u can figure out whats important and strive to accomplish that. Then u will be happier. Looks like u got basics met. House, sex, food

I need success yes

 

[Deleted member 5746]

you should not help people, youre the one who needs help, i can already tell it based on your response that youre hurt inside

hes malding that girl didnt wanna fuck him after he told her he's a virgin at 24 yo

 

[Deleted member 756]

hes malding that girl didnt wanna fuck him after he told her he's a virgin at 24 yo

who?

 

[Deleted member 5746]

who?

scroll up in the thread bruh

 

[Deleted member 756]

scroll up in the thread bruh

@Native is only like 20

 

[TheAnomaly]

IDK. I feel happy having a GF.

 

[Deleted member 3163]

IDK. I feel happy having a GF.

Good for you

 

[Ritalincell]

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Damn I really made this man a living meme jfl

 

[TRNA]

Will fill my void but no. I finally got a girlfriend 16 yo cute yet still I'm sad and depressed more than before. Having a gf changes nothing. The first few days I had insane confidence but everything changed in next 3 days. I returned to my former autistic self. Is meditation the only cope left? There is a good thing tho after having a gf I haven't masturbated even one time. It has been almost a month now. I don't even think about fappping anymore. This thread was the reason I came back to.me

guys here think slaying or getting a gf will solve all their problems, it really won't, after awhile you'll still be empty inside, since you were never happy with your life in the first place

 

[antiantifa]

Will fill my void but no. I finally got a girlfriend 16 yo cute yet still I'm sad and depressed more than before. Having a gf changes nothing. The first few days I had insane confidence but everything changed in next 3 days. I returned to my former autistic self. Is meditation the only cope left? There is a good thing tho after having a gf I haven't masturbated even one time. It has been almost a month now. I don't even think about fappping anymore. This thread was the reason I came back to.me

lol sounds like physical problem retard stop watching porn, stop listening to music, stop looking at entertainment. Start lifting, eating good.

 

[Deleted member 3163]

lol sounds like physical problem retard stop watching porn, stop listening to music, stop looking at entertainment. Start lifting, eating good.

I do all that. Man haven't fapped since 2 months

 

[antiantifa]

I do all that. Man haven't fapped since 2 months

Doesn't sound healthy tbh, ur probably suffering from depression/low T.

 

[Deleted member 3163]

Doesn't sound healthy tbh, ur probably suffering from depression/low T.

Could be

 

[Deleted member 6939]

Will fill my void but no. I finally got a girlfriend 16 yo cute yet still I'm sad and depressed more than before. Having a gf changes nothing. The first few days I had insane confidence but everything changed in next 3 days. I returned to my former autistic self. Is meditation the only cope left? There is a good thing tho after having a gf I haven't masturbated even one time. It has been almost a month now. I don't even think about fappping anymore. This thread was the reason I came back to.me

I try telling everyone this but they never listen

 

[Deleted member 275]

Sounds like it did change your life: You realized it wasn't the fix you thought it would be, and now you can open your mind again to new goals, ambitions. A breakthrough in your journey through life.

Well done, OP.

 

[Deleted member 1862]

you're just going through what every teenager/ failed man (ie. virgin after 18/20) on this site goes through.

Let's be honest, you were a fucking idiot for thinking another person was the key to happiness. There are multiple facets to life, you need to tick multiple boxes whilst also maintaining a sense of wellbeing.

 

[JamesHowlett]

I know what will cheer you up bro, mog battling me

 

[Deleted member 6873]

you're just going through what every teenager/ failed man (ie. virgin after 18/20) on this site goes through.

Let's be honest, you were a fucking idiot for thinking another person was the key to happiness. There are multiple facets to life, you need to tick multiple boxes whilst also maintaining a sense of wellbeing.

That's why lifemaxxing is so important. Even once you get a gf (still none ) you'd still have to find other things in life to get happines/excitement out of. THat's why having good male friends is so important tbh. A life without a gf but a group of solid friends is doable, vice versa isnt imo. Im glad when lockdown ends im focussing on getting new hobbies in life like surfing tbh


@Syobevoli @Danish_Retard @jm10
thoughts?

 

[St. Wristcel]

whats her psl tbh

 

[Jeanfrom2001]

Will fill my void but no. I finally got a girlfriend 16 yo cute yet still I'm sad and depressed more than before. Having a gf changes nothing. The first few days I had insane confidence but everything changed in next 3 days. I returned to my former autistic self. Is meditation the only cope left? There is a good thing tho after having a gf I haven't masturbated even one time. It has been almost a month now. I don't even think about fappping anymore. This thread was the reason I came back to.me

If you not giving her wood, she collecting it from someone else my g.

 

[Deleted member 3163]

Sounds like it did change your life: You realized it wasn't the fix you thought it would be, and now you can open your mind again to new goals, ambitions. A breakthrough in your journey through life.

Well done, OP.

Thx man I'm also looking at this same perspective

 

[Deleted member 3163]

you're just going through what every teenager/ failed man (ie. virgin after 18/20) on this site goes through.

Let's be honest, you were a fucking idiot for thinking another person was the key to happiness. There are multiple facets to life, you need to tick multiple boxes whilst also maintaining a sense of wellbeing.

Yea man now my eyes have opened

 

[Deleted member 3163]

whats her psl tbh

Like 5tbh green eyes. We broke up too bad

 

[Deleted member 3163]

That's why lifemaxxing is so important. Even once you get a gf (still none ) you'd still have to find other things in life to get happines/excitement out of. THat's why having good male friends is so important tbh. A life without a gf but a group of solid friends is doable, vice versa isnt imo. Im glad when lockdown ends im focussing on getting new hobbies in life like surfing tbh


@Syobevoli @Danish_Retard @jm10
thoughts?

Even friends ain't a fix u need to fix the deep down default of sadness by facing it

 

[St. Wristcel]

Like 5tbh green eyes. We broke up too bad

JFL how did you find green eyed Stacy in India?
mirin chad status

 

[Deleted member 3163]

JFL how did you find green eyed Stacy in India?
mirin chad status

She is from gaddi community not hard to find green eyes girls and boys in that community.

 

[Deleted member 1862]

Yea man now my eyes have opened

Better now than in 10-15 years man. Think of it like that. Two things you can't really go wrong with are exercise & a musical instrument tbh

 

[Deleted member 3163]

Better now than in 10-15 years man. Think of it like that. Two things you can't really go wrong with are exercise & a musical instrument tbh

Yea and that's exactly what I'm doing atm. Learning guitar and doing calesthenics

 

[Deleted member 3163]

I know what will cheer you up bro, mog battling me

U will beat me easily bhai