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Active examples:
Passive examples:
The most important IOIs are:
A special kind of IOI is an Approach invitation, which is simply a cue to approach. The most typical approach invitation is a smile with some coy looking away followed by more smiling. However, there are other more subtle approach Invitations women may give you.
- She re-initiates conversations when you stop talking (So….)
- She giggles and/or laughs at your jokes, even if they’re not funny
- She touches you
- She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you
- If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second
- She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you
- She smiles at you
- While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you
- She uses a functional opener on you or in any way initiates a conversation
- She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said
- She asks for personal details about you (name, age, job)
- She compliments you
- She is playful and tries to challenge you
- She's punching your arm but laughing
- She plays with her hair while talking to you
- She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one
- When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back
- She avoids mentioning her boyfriend
- When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction
- She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking
- She introduces you to friends
- She buys you a drink
- She calls you a player or a heart-breaker
- On her way out, she re-approaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #)
- On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her)
- She invents reasons to be near you, interact with you, or have Isolation with you
- She pushes up her breasts (sexual escalation)
Passive examples:
- She stands nearby (proximity)
- Her friends leave and she stays
- She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods
- If you move she follows you or waits for you
- She doesn't flinch or pull back if you get close
- When your bodies touch in some way she doesn’t break the contact
- She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistance to avoid feeling like a slut)
The most important IOIs are:
- She giggles
- She touches you
- She re-initiates conversation when you stop talking
A special kind of IOI is an Approach invitation, which is simply a cue to approach. The most typical approach invitation is a smile with some coy looking away followed by more smiling. However, there are other more subtle approach Invitations women may give you.