almost broke up w my girl

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was talking to her on snap yesterday and i was trying to tell her that she changed ever since school started but she turned it around and said ive been acting like a retard since the start of august. somehow got her back but tbh shes right so imma js kms
 
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was talking to her on snap yesterday and i was trying to tell her that she changed ever since school started but she turned it around and said ive been acting like a retard since the start of august. somehow got her back but tbh shes right so imma js kms
seems like she's not as interested in you anymore, maybe another dude is in the picture. Foids love to project to justify their actions; have that conversation with her. Also depends on how you have been acting when she said acting like a retard

maybe if u give more context into how shes changed it could help
 
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seems like she's not as interested in you anymore, maybe another dude is in the picture. Foids love to project to justify their actions; have that conversation with her. Also depends on how you have been acting when she said acting like a retard

maybe if u give more context into how shes changed it could help
we've been going out for almost a year now ( not much tho) and been together since may. ive also ascended and grew a shit load since then (i was 14 back then) so looks are most likely not the problem. the thing is, ive been treating her really bad since the start of august since we were going to go to different secondary schools in the start of september and i was scared that she will lose interest and start texting other dudes. shes also quite pretty, around mhtb front, but a recessed side (jfl), the only problem is that shes really quiet in general and doesnt open up about problems she has, she just vents to friends (funny enough she talks to me about beefs she has with other people but doesnt start talks about whatd be wrong in our relationship). but as i was saying, im pretty sure im the problem here since i was just leaving her on seen quite often, being dry (irl and over text) and sometimes leaned away when she tried to kiss me which i had no reason for lmao. (i have a shit load of trauma and for some reason dont feel as much empathy when im with people, so i just do do shit like this sadly, im trying to work on it though), she hasnt changed much except for the amount of guys that try to get her but she really isnt interested
 
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anyways, im taking her out tomorrow and i got her her favorite flowers so i might be able go fix it
 
we've been going out for almost a year now ( not much tho) and been together since may. ive also ascended and grew a shit load since then (i was 14 back then) so looks are most likely not the problem. the thing is, ive been treating her really bad since the start of august since we were going to go to different secondary schools in the start of september and i was scared that she will lose interest and start texting other dudes. shes also quite pretty, around mhtb front, but a recessed side (jfl), the only problem is that shes really quiet in general and doesnt open up about problems she has, she just vents to friends (funny enough she talks to me about beefs she has with other people but doesnt start talks about whatd be wrong in our relationship). but as i was saying, im pretty sure im the problem here since i was just leaving her on seen quite often, being dry (irl and over text) and sometimes leaned away when she tried to kiss me which i had no reason for lmao. (i have a shit load of trauma and for some reason dont feel as much empathy when im with people, so i just do do shit like this sadly, im trying to work on it though), she hasnt changed much except for the amount of guys that try to get her but she really isnt interested
you should care more about her, shes your girlfriend
 
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we broke up, she lost feelings while i was trying to distance myself away from her. had the first real genuine talk with her and we realized we're both org rotters. still cant change anything tho. she lost feelings
 

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