Am I deluded as a 43 year old Male

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I have posted my pics before..I will post one again..I think do to my age which is 43 and women having endless options with online dating it's over..I really thought I was a handsome Male..but my online results are indicating otherwise..I can't even get women my own age bracket online
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youre handsome
 
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You are decent-looking for a 43-year-old. Either your standards are too high or you are spending too much time on Tinder. Try meeting bitches through hobbies, sports activities, or some more serious dating websites.
 
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You think I am a homo..Rate the pic big boy..I can't get any poon and I don't like Men..I think I would let a good looking fem trap give me a blowjob
no post a pic confirming this is actually you
 
Women of your age are probably aiming for someone younger online, so I concur with the comment above trying in real life
 
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You are decent-looking for a 43-year-old. Either your standards are too high or you are spending too much time on Tinder. Try meeting bitches through hobbies, sports activities, or some more serious dating websites.
I have alot of obese ugly women..That maybe could pass as human on pof..I am trying Bumble
 
Probably because girls in your age bracket care more about your lifestyle than just your looks and since your pics are basic they just assume you’re poor
 
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high tier for 43
but u have to be non NT to post here at this age and this is why you get no foids
 
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obese single mother of 5 can easily have a 20 yo hot male model, you are fucked. It's over
 
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you look like hollywood actor.
 
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You are not attractive or handsome you are just average with severe asymmetrical face. and not really attractive people like you should get married pretty fast in their life with any option they have otherwise they will end up alone as you are rn _if you want a serious long lasting relationship of course_(rich guys are always exception)
And caging at bluepilled comments rn :lul: some teenage retards telling you look good and you should have hope :lul:
 
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Try badoo, i have no luck on tinder but on badoo there are actually quite a few mid tier beckies responding and even agreeing to go on a date.
 
Old females on tinder are taking way younger guys when it comes to sex. I fucked a lot of 40+ females, and they all told me they like young guys in their 20s.
When they are looking for a relationship, money is everything that matters. So either way, if you are not rich ITS OVER.
And you definitely dont look rich or successful.
 
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You’re decent looking, could definitely still get a partner.
 
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2 points I can give as tips, imo. as mentioned before maybe by me.

1. Meeting new women offline, other streams of meeting women (outside of online dating).
2. clothing style, looks cheap and styleless to me. Bad fit/baggy. Looks like borderline wrong size. boring color, cheap fabric/style, looks old/worn out clothings also. Non-saying; boring style.

the difference. low effort looking in clothing and high effort clothing looks. Will not cause a massive differnce in dating, but will halp some for sure. And will help more irl with other stuff, on top of it.

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You look poor in these pics, like a good looking homeless
 
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Men tend to overrate themselves, and this is a case. No offense intended, i do the same.

Also internet dating is brutal, too much competition.

Did you just get divorced and thought you were going to slay single moms? or maybe you set your bar too high?
 
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You look fine. I wont lie and say “ah you look great youll have no problems”, but you definitely have enough appeal to get a woman. The dating market at your age is rough though because while you look fine and take care of yourself, the same cannot he said for most of the women who will be interested in you. Meeting women in person is much better than online unless youre some 22 year old chad. The market is saturated with people younger and better looking than you, but you are white and above average and have hair so there is still hope.
 
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dude by your age looks are little bit less important but you better have a good bank account. if you are having hard time getting a women by 40 you are probably not that rich.
 
online dating at your age is really hard. try going to a bar or shit like that
 
dude by your age looks are little bit less important but you better have a good bank account. if you are having hard time getting a women by 40 you are probably not that rich.

Agree to this.

I did steroids and then had cash. There was a difference between showing off my car and not showing it. I knew what kind of women i was attracting, but i was smart enough to ignore them after sex
 
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You think I am a homo..Rate the pic big boy..I can't get any poon and I don't like Men..I think I would let a good looking fem trap give me a blowjob
NOOOO!! DONT DO IT BRO ITS A TRAAAPP!!!!
 
Men tend to overrate themselves, and this is a case. No offense intended, i do the same.

Also internet dating is brutal, too much competition.

Did you just get divorced and thought you were going to slay single moms? or maybe you set your bar too high?
No divorce..Just thought I could slay women in their late 30's..With online they can get a 25 year old ripped stud
 
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Youre fucked obv. Girls your age are fucking dudes like me and above.
 
Men tend to overrate themselves, and this is a case. No offense intended, i do the same.

Also internet dating is brutal, too much competition.

Did you just get divorced and thought you were going to slay single moms? or maybe you set your bar too high?
Men don't really overrate themselves. Its moreso that women prefer the giga goodlooking. Sl
 
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Men tend to overrate themselves, and this is a case. No offense intended, i do the same.

Also internet dating is brutal, too much competition.

Did you just get divorced and thought you were going to slay single moms? or maybe you set your bar too high?
Even a literal obese 400lb with an ogre nose and no neck would look at me and say "hmm thats my level". Im also gym maxxed with fitness model body as well jfl
 
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Even a literal obese 400lb with an ogre nose and no neck would look at me and say "hmm thats my level". Im also gym maxxed with fitness model body as well jfl
This is true..I have women that are 350 lbs contact me..No joke they think they are healthy also which evens makes it more funny
 
You looks good but u looks like u comed straight from 1980, non nt, pretty much older guy vibes a bit

Try more nt grooming, follow guy like Bateman and Di Vaio and copy them

I looks like them and i slayed hard even sub 20 last year, 39 now
 
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Jfl at people saying your only top 20% you mog every 40yr old male I know to the grave. So yes your delusional
 
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Go up to your room, get out your luggage, sit on your bed, fold your clothes, put it all into the luggage. You know, get some water, get something in your stomach. Get your sunglasses on. Take your luggage, walk out of the house, and leave. Cuz it’s over for you.
 
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Men don't really overrate themselves. Its moreso that women prefer the giga goodlooking. Sl
I am not even asking that much..Do to online sites these landwhales have endless options
 
Jfl at people saying your only top 20% you mog every 40yr old male I know to the grave. So yes your delusional
Go up to your room, get out your luggage, sit on your bed, fold your clothes, put it all into the luggage. You know, get some water, get something in your stomach. Get your sunglasses on. Take your luggage, walk out of the house, and leave. Cuz it’s over for you.
but I own my own house..
 
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Some here have said that it's because you're not rich, I disagree.

The main reason why you can't get laid is because your photos are boring and they make you look very poor.

Those details don't matter for young men but at your age, women usually look for men who have more money, not because they want to use him, but because women have different standards in their 30s and 40s than when they're younger.

So, you need cool photos set in fun events (crazy parties, festivals, concerts), cool hobbies (scuba diving, skiing, skydiving, paragliding, and so on).

Nowadays, it's not enough to simply look good, you also need to look cool, your life has to look so cool that women want to be a part of it.
If you do this well, your photos will look way better than everyone else.

The main problem right now is that those events or hobbies may be difficult to do because of the pandemic which is preventing us from travelling or going to events, so in the meantime, you'll have to wait and focus on getting the money to do those things in the future.
 
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Some here have said that it's because you're not rich, I disagree.

The main reason why you can't get laid is because your photos are boring and they make you look very poor.

Those details don't matter for young men but at your age, women usually look for men who have more money, not because they want to use him, but because women have different standards in their 30s and 40s than when they're younger.

So, you need cool photos set in fun events (crazy parties, festivals, concerts), cool hobbies (scuba diving, skiing, skydiving, paragliding, and so on).

Nowadays, it's not enough to simply look good, you also need to look cool, your life has to look so cool that women want to be a part of it.
If you do this well, your photos will look way better than everyone else.

The main problem right now is that those events or hobbies may be difficult to do because of the pandemic which is preventing us from travelling or going to events, so in the meantime, you'll have to wait and focus on getting the money to do those things in the future.
This is the part I have a hard time with..The standards just keep raising..I own my own home... have my own money..and I take good care of my health..If I have to Jestermax to that extent I am out..Women have built a hell on earth
 
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Honestly below average and Tinder is for hookups with hot people and you don't qualify.
 
Honestly below average and Tinder is for hookups with hot people and you don't qualify.

This is another level of coping

U are dumbass to be honest

He has a hair, he is lean, he is non manlet he mogs 90 percent + people of his age

His problem is competition, he is nly attarcted to prime foids and competition is brutal for 43 years old who dont looks NT at all
 
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This is another level of coping

U are dumbass to be honest

He has a hair, he is lean, he is non manlet he mogs 90 percent + people of his age

His problem is competition, he is nly attarcted to prime foids and competition is brutal for 43 years old who dont looks NT at all
I actually don't go for prime..I can't get anything..I can't even get women in their late 30's that are just a little above average..It's sad and funny at the same time
 
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You look fine, but tired or hungover. Try another pic after good sleep, lots of water and no booze.
Maybe under eye fillers and Botox if the above doesn’t resolve them.
 
This is the part I have a hard time with..The standards just keep raising..I own my own home... have my own money..and I take good care of my health..If I have to Jestermax to that extent I am out..Women have built a hell on earth
No, all I am saying is that for online dating, you need to look like you have a cool life.

This is actually a huge benefit that women don't have. A lot of ugly women try to use travel photos on their profile to gain access to hotter men but it doesn't work because men and women are attracted to different things.

So, as a man, you have the advantage of being able to make your lifestyle look cool to raise your attractiveness, you should take advantage of that instead of complaining, otherwise you're just a volcel in denial.

Also, this is your easiest option because meeting women in real life at your age is impossible, so you have to rely on online dating.

It is far better to look like an cool extrovert in your pictures than a weird autistic guy, or, as is the case for you right now, a poor boring guy.
There are tons of average men on Tinder, if you want to win, you have to stand out, otherwise, you'll never succeed on Tinder.

Honestly, you only need 4-5 good photos of yourself in cool locations, then you can keep using those same pics for many years and get laid often with barely any effort.
 
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40 year old and physically normies/htn women fuck guys 30 and under on dating apps (Or the rich of their ages, with whom they might even want seriousness.). And unfortunately you didn't look rich like the others said. But you are above average easily

In real life you won't have a hard time finding a woman, but dating apps are really only for the elite, unfortunately. (for pretty women of course, so aim for slightly lower standards)
 
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40 year old and physically normies/htn women fuck guys 30 and under on dating apps (Or the rich of their ages, with whom they might even want seriousness.). And unfortunately you didn't look rich like the others said. But you are above average easily

In real life you won't have a hard time finding a woman, but dating apps are really only for the elite, unfortunately.
I would go to some bars..but I don't drink or smoke..and I hate normies..I am thinking doing new pics
 
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Go up to your room, get out your luggage, sit on your bed, fold your clothes, put it all into the luggage. You know, get some water, get something in your stomach. Get your sunglasses on. Take your luggage, walk out of the house, and leave. Cuz it’s over for you.
Post vid to give me dopamine
 
He has a hair, he is lean, he is non manlet he mogs 90 percent + people of his age
Doesn't matter. He needs to mog 30 year olds at least. Every bitch 40 or older is either married, a cougar, or completely given in into the single cat lady life. If those three thing were only needed then the redpill would cease to exist.
 
2 points I can give as tips, imo. as mentioned before maybe by me.

1. Meeting new women offline, other streams of meeting women (outside of online dating).
2. clothing style, looks cheap and styleless to me. Bad fit/baggy. Looks like borderline wrong size. boring color, cheap fabric/style, looks old/worn out clothings also. Non-saying; boring style.

the difference. low effort looking in clothing and high effort clothing looks. Will not cause a massive differnce in dating, but will halp some for sure. And will help more irl with other stuff, on top of it.

img_9396-1_websize-jpg.1048762
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Brian-Sacawa-in-Light-Brown-Tweed-Suit-600x900.jpg
you look decent but your pics are pretty bad

style, location etc all need work
 
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