Am I the only one to think this?

[john2]

I honestly don't (and probably NEVER have) felt/feel the desire to have sex with a woman... although I'm a virgin and I don't know how good sex can be.
Until I stumbled upon this forum... I didn't know that having sex was the main goal of my life. I didn't know that people respect each other depending on how much they've slayed or not. The real reason I stumbled here was because of personal insecurity. I managed to get/interact/date with women before I joined here, ded srs.

Instead of desiring for sex (the real thing)... my cravings for masturbation are increasing day by day. I'm on nofap atm and the first thing anybody would think of about me is that "this nigga must have cravings to have sex, in his head 24/7"... but the truth is that I feel like masturbating instead.

Those sweet memories of fapping always flash in my head almost every hour each day. Those gorgeous and ROMANTIC experiences I had just alone with myself strike me so hard... I always lose motivation. It was so beautiful, I am ashamed of saying this... but those days of fapping were so special... it used to be just me and my dick spending time together on the bed.

Again, like I said before, I'm not getting hard always, but my willpower to abstain from fapping is decreasing each day. My maximum streak on nofap was around 48 days however (until a nocturnal emission happened). After reading about @Amnesia's threads about how fapping mogs sex, I feel like not pursuing any woman at all now. But if I don't attract a woman in my life... then I will have no future. I will be seen as the lone social outcast. And even you PSL-ers will bully me for wasting my youth and not finding a woman to breed with. I started looksmaxxing because I just wanted to feel good of myself, not to get foids. I already had a hand to please myself with. I reckon this definitely is not a normal attitude although I just feel totally comfortable being like this. Maybe cooming since a young age screwed me up like this way. Slaying foids on this forum is like peer pressure by other blackpillers imo. Ik that this is a really weird wall of text lol... but I'm 100% serious ITT. I need someone to relate with.

 

[Pubertymaxxer3]

tl dr?

 

[john2]

tl dr?

TLDR:-
I don't wanna have sex with a woman, I just wanna coom.
I lose motivation for nofap although I don't get hard frequently.

 

[Acnno]

you are probably just lucked down

 

[Pubertymaxxer3]

TLDR:-
I don't wanna have sex with a woman, I just wanna coom.
I lose motivation for nofap although I don't get hard frequently.

looksmaxxing for validation> looksmaxxing for sex

 

[Deleted member 6113]

I think the fear of rejection and humiliation has caused these feelings. I never actually attempted and coped by beleving i was indifferent. I was actually afraid.

 

[Deleted member 7753]

amnesia is wrong, sex is amazing when it's build on attraction on both sides. ive had sex with my ex only, and id look forward to it each time because i really liked her and she liked me back, even though her attraction toward me was superficial. cooming doesnt even come close to that kind of sex.

amnesia is a weird man, burnt out from all the casual sex hes had over the past few years. many people here think that promiscuity only affects women's ability to pair bond, but it also withers men's, but simply to a lesser degree. amnesia is also an antinatalist, and believes that having sex to procreate is immoral and as a result doesnt want to pursue a relationship to bear children.

i personally will not be pursuing sex with randoms or fwb and whatnot anymore. ill only do so in a relationship build on a common goal; having children in the future and not merely for the sake of being in relationship and having meaning less sex. ill also never consider a whore for such a relationship, women are immoral by nature. them being promiscuous on top is simply not worth the hassle.

 

[Gargantuan]

Although I've thought about sex many times, I've never actually tried to pursue it. I guess you could say I've always wanted it but at the same time, never wanted it bad enough. Otherwise, I would have at least tried to put in some effort in order to get it at some point.

But discovering how your worth as a man (at least in societal terms) is judged upon how much you slay, is indeed brutal.
It's hard to find a balance here because you obviously don't want to care too much about how others view you but on the other hand, you don't want to be viewed as an asexual outcast either.

I have to start trying at some point as I still hope to attract a woman, someday. After all, finding a mate to produce offspring with is your main purpose in life.
Having said that, I still don't care about slaying and would rather keep myself on the sidelines (for now) whilst looksmaxxing as much as I can, until I can actually start dating, knowing I'll have the potential to be successful (hopefully soon, otherwise it'll be useless).
But I'm not sure if this is the best approach either.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

That so weird lol.

 

[Deleted member 10185]

amnesia is wrong, sex is amazing when it's build on attraction on both sides. ive had sex with my ex only, and id look forward to it each time because i really liked her and she liked me back, even though her attraction toward me was superficial. cooming doesnt even come close to that kind of sex.

amnesia is a weird man, burnt out from all the casual sex hes had over the past few years. many people here think that promiscuity only affects women's ability to pair bond, but it also withers men's, but simply to a lesser degree. amnesia is also an antinatalist, and believes that having sex to procreate is immoral and as a result doesnt want to pursue a relationship to bear children.

i personally will not be pursuing sex with randoms or fwb and whatnot anymore. ill only do so in a relationship build on a common goal; having children in the future and not merely for the sake of being in relationship and having meaning less sex. ill also never consider a whore for such a relationship, women are immoral by nature. them being promiscuous on top is simply not worth the hassle.

Yeah relationship is much better than just fucking random girls..

 

[Deleted member 6113]

amnesia is wrong, sex is amazing when it's build on attraction on both sides. ive had sex with my ex only, and id look forward to it each time because i really liked her and she liked me back, even though her attraction toward me was superficial. cooming doesnt even come close to that kind of sex.

amnesia is a weird man, burnt out from all the casual sex hes had over the past few years. many people here think that promiscuity only affects women's ability to pair bond, but it also withers men's, but simply to a lesser degree. amnesia is also an antinatalist, and believes that having sex to procreate is immoral and as a result doesnt want to pursue a relationship to bear children.

i personally will not be pursuing sex with randoms or fwb and whatnot anymore. ill only do so in a relationship build on a common goal; having children in the future and not merely for the sake of being in relationship and having meaning less sex. ill also never consider a whore for such a relationship, women are immoral by nature. them being promiscuous on top is simply not worth the hassle.

Divorce rape incoming. She took the kids ohhh fuark!!! Amnesia based keep crying for giga jb slayer

 

[Mouthbreath]

being low t is probably a real blessing

 

[Deleted member 4301]

Are you a beautiful one?



Notably, the decline phase of mouse utopia is characterized by the appearance of individual mice exhibiting apparently bizarre behaviors, such as obsessive grooming, hyposociality, and asexuality; Calhoun (1973) termed these mice beautiful ones.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

Are you a beautiful one?



Notably, the decline phase of mouse utopia is characterized by the appearance of individual mice exhibiting apparently bizarre behaviors, such as obsessive grooming, hyposociality, and asexuality; Calhoun (1973) termed these mice beautiful ones.

yes jhon is beutiful i have seen him nude

 

[RAITEIII]

I honestly don't (and probably NEVER have) felt/feel the desire to have sex with a woman... although I'm a virgin and I don't know how good sex can be.
Until I stumbled upon this forum... I didn't know that having sex was the main goal of my life. I didn't know that people respect each other depending on how much they've slayed or not. The real reason I stumbled here was because of personal insecurity. I managed to get/interact/date with women before I joined here, ded srs.

Instead of desiring for sex (the real thing)... my cravings for masturbation are increasing day by day. I'm on nofap atm and the first thing anybody would think of about me is that "this nigga must have cravings to have sex, in his head 24/7"... but the truth is that I feel like masturbating instead.

Those sweet memories of fapping always flash in my head almost every hour each day. Those gorgeous and ROMANTIC experiences I had just alone with myself strike me so hard... I always lose motivation. It was so beautiful, I am ashamed of saying this... but those days of fapping were so special... it used to be just me and my dick spending time together on the bed.

Again, like I said before, I'm not getting hard always, but my willpower to abstain from fapping is decreasing each day. My maximum streak on nofap was around 48 days however (until a nocturnal emission happened). After reading about @Amnesia's threads about how fapping mogs sex, I feel like not pursuing any woman at all now. But if I don't attract a woman in my life... then I will have no future. I will be seen as the lone social outcast. And even you PSL-ers will bully me for wasting my youth and not finding a woman to breed with. I started looksmaxxing because I just wanted to feel good of myself, not to get foids. I already had a hand to please myself with. I reckon this definitely is not a normal attitude although I just feel totally comfortable being like this. Maybe cooming since a young age screwed me up like this way. Slaying foids on this forum is like peer pressure by other blackpillers imo. Ik that this is a really weird wall of text lol... but I'm 100% serious ITT. I need someone to relate with.

Come to the dark said and start to jerk off all night long when you're wasted so fucking drunk

 

[Deleted member 10536]

I don't even care for sex, not sure if I ever did.

 

[Enfant terrible]

its the opposite for me i have less interests in fapping at the moment
its boring

 

[john2]

Are you a beautiful one?



Notably, the decline phase of mouse utopia is characterized by the appearance of individual mice exhibiting apparently bizarre behaviors, such as obsessive grooming, hyposociality, and asexuality; Calhoun (1973) termed these mice beautiful ones.

No, I am an average looking curry. People probably think that I'm horny af and always chasing girls, I reckon.

yes jhon is beutiful i have seen him nude

Boy, if knajjd sees this we're both permabanned.

 

[Wannabe_PrettyBoy]

I w

being low t is probably a real blessing

i would say it’s low t it’s from porn addiction and masturbation. If you have a sexual outlet your body won’t feel the constant urge to have sex

 

[owlofathena]

Although I've thought about sex many times, I've never actually tried to pursue it. I guess you could say I've always wanted it but at the same time, never wanted it bad enough. Otherwise, I would have at least tried to put in some effort in order to get it at some point.

But discovering how your worth as a man (at least in societal terms) is judged upon how much you slay, is indeed brutal.
It's hard to find a balance here because you obviously don't want to care too much about how others view you but on the other hand, you don't want to be viewed as an asexual outcast either.

I have to start trying at some point as I still hope to attract a woman, someday. After all, finding a mate to produce offspring with is your main purpose in life.
Having said that, I still don't care about slaying and would rather keep myself on the sidelines (for now) whilst looksmaxxing as much as I can, until I can actually start dating, knowing I'll have the potential to be successful (hopefully soon, otherwise it'll be useless).
But I'm not sure if this is the best approach either.

I feel the same way. The most important thing is focusing on yourself plus career/goals. Then date for a bit and then decide if you want to start a family. For us men our career/job is more important for us than it is for women.