Amazing date ends horribly

[911MrSuicidal]

I’m going to try and shorten this as much as possible for everyone’s TikTok ruined attention spans.
Saturday I met a girl on bumble who was immensely beautiful, drop dead gorgeous. And in fact she messaged me first, she was flirting relentlessly to the point it seemed too good to be true. So I asked for her insta to see if she was real, to my surprise she was and she was still super flirty. I ended up asking her out and we went out on Tuesday. The date goes incredibly, she was extremely flirty, super touchy and complimenting me the whole date. Infact she even said I looked like Damon from Vampire Diaries who is played by Ian Somerhalder, I couldn’t have asked for a better complement. When we were playing pool she said “if I get this ball in will I get a kiss on the cheek”, just being super flirty right. Later on in the date she even said “I wonder what our kids will look like”. She asked for a second date and we agreed we’d figure out what to do later. Anyways the date ends well as I get off at my stop and we kiss, awkwardly did hit my head on the ceiling of the train (6’2 btw) and I had to bend down to kiss her as she was only 5’2. She ends up messaging me first saying “hope you get home safe ”, and I practically say the same and say “had a great time with you today” and she replied with “same here!! Your eyes were so dreamy and you were so cute”. We end up chatting a bit throughout the night and then comes today. She messages me in the morning and we send a couple messages back and forth just talking about music but we were both busy, her with work and me with uni so not like we could have a full convo. Anyways I’ve already mentioned before in other threads but I have severe Borderline Personality Disorder so the whole day I was extremely paranoid about her abandoning me, to the point I almost passed out on the train coming back from uni. I broke down in tears at the gym and had to leave because the feof abandonment was overwhelming. Well guess what, my paranoid self goes to check my following and I notice that I’m missing a follower, it was her. I was blocked. I fell to the floor and started weeping, had a complete mental breakdown and was considering roping or at the very least self harming. I luckily had the self control to call my mum and she came in a rush with my sister and they helped calm me down. Was considering going back the the psychiatric ward again but I’m doing a fair bit better now.
Why do these things need to happen to me. I have no hope. She told me she had one body and had only been in one relationship and that was the only guy she kissed too. Probably bullshit tho.
I included some pictures of the chat to assist with the story.
Btw: The first picture is the most recent messages before getting block. The other were her messaging me after the date.

 

[Sonneillon]

Giver her insta idgaf

 

[Petsmart]

Thank god for chat gpt

Here’s a shortened 4-sentence summary of what happened.

The guy met a beautiful girl on Bumble who was super flirty, and they had a great first date filled with compliments and chemistry. She even talked about a second date and messaged him sweetly afterward, which made him feel hopeful. The next day, they had light conversation but he started spiraling due to his Borderline Personality Disorder and fear of abandonment. He later discovered she blocked him without warning, which triggered a severe emotional breakdown, though his family helped him through it.

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

Thank god for chat gpt

Here’s a shortened 4-sentence summary of what happened.

The guy met a beautiful girl on Bumble who was super flirty, and they had a great first date filled with compliments and chemistry. She even talked about a second date and messaged him sweetly afterward, which made him feel hopeful. The next day, they had light conversation but he started spiraling due to his Borderline Personality Disorder and fear of abandonment. He later discovered she blocked him without warning, which triggered a severe emotional breakdown, though his family helped him through it.

I love you my black brother

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Thank god for chat gpt

Here’s a shortened 4-sentence summary of what happened.

The guy met a beautiful girl on Bumble who was super flirty, and they had a great first date filled with compliments and chemistry. She even talked about a second date and messaged him sweetly afterward, which made him feel hopeful. The next day, they had light conversation but he started spiraling due to his Borderline Personality Disorder and fear of abandonment. He later discovered she blocked him without warning, which triggered a severe emotional breakdown, though his family helped him through it.

If you guys wanna read this edition go ahead but if you want more in depth lore than read the original.

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Giver her insta idgaf

If I didn’t care about my family finding out I was on this website I would

 

[Foreverbrad]

Yeah foids are evil.

 

[fkxever]

brutal for mentalcels, feel sad for you bhai

 

[911MrSuicidal]

I love you guys

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Yeah foids are evil.

Sure are, is it bad that I sometimes fantasise about become a serial killer (in gta v ofc)?

 

[DarkAscender]

I’m going to try and shorten this as much as possible for everyone’s TikTok ruined attention spans.
Saturday I met a girl on bumble who was immensely beautiful, drop dead gorgeous. And in fact she messaged me first, she was flirting relentlessly to the point it seemed too good to be true. So I asked for her insta to see if she was real, to my surprise she was and she was still super flirty. I ended up asking her out and we went out on Tuesday. The date goes incredibly, she was extremely flirty, super touchy and complimenting me the whole date. Infact she even said I looked like Damon from Vampire Diaries who is played by Ian Somerhalder, I couldn’t have asked for a better complement. When we were playing pool she said “if I get this ball in will I get a kiss on the cheek”, just being super flirty right. Later on in the date she even said “I wonder what our kids will look like”. She asked for a second date and we agreed we’d figure out what to do later. Anyways the date ends well as I get off at my stop and we kiss, awkwardly did hit my head on the ceiling of the train (6’2 btw) and I had to bend down to kiss her as she was only 5’2. She ends up messaging me first saying “hope you get home safe ”, and I practically say the same and say “had a great time with you today” and she replied with “same here!! Your eyes were so dreamy and you were so cute”. We end up chatting a bit throughout the night and then comes today. She messages me in the morning and we send a couple messages back and forth just talking about music but we were both busy, her with work and me with uni so not like we could have a full convo. Anyways I’ve already mentioned before in other threads but I have severe Borderline Personality Disorder so the whole day I was extremely paranoid about her abandoning me, to the point I almost passed out on the train coming back from uni. I broke down in tears at the gym and had to leave because the feof abandonment was overwhelming. Well guess what, my paranoid self goes to check my following and I notice that I’m missing a follower, it was her. I was blocked. I fell to the floor and started weeping, had a complete mental breakdown and was considering roping or at the very least self harming. I luckily had the self control to call my mum and she came in a rush with my sister and they helped calm me down. Was considering going back the the psychiatric ward again but I’m doing a fair bit better now.
Why do these things need to happen to me. I have no hope. She told me she had one body and had only been in one relationship and that was the only guy she kissed too. Probably bullshit tho.
I included some pictures of the chat to assist with the story.
Btw: The first picture is the most recent messages before getting block. The other were her messaging me after the date.

have u ever heard abt proper formatting

 

[911MrSuicidal]

have u ever heard abt proper formatting

Nah I guess not lol, where did I go wrong?

 

[DarkAscender]

Nah I guess not lol, where did I go wrong?

Your thread is basically one block of text.
Lots of ppl prob didnt even bother reading it

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Your thread is basically one block of text.
Lots of ppl prob didnt even bother reading it

Yea I probably should have split it in paragraphs

 

[DarkAscender]

What made her suddenly distance herself from u tho?

 

[911MrSuicidal]

What made her suddenly distance herself from u tho?

I have no idea, as you can tell by the last text messages it seemed fine.

 

[DarkAscender]

I have no idea, as you can tell by the last text messages it seemed fine.

Its rlly weird for her to suddenly block u tbh

 

[loyolaxavvierretard]

I have no idea, as you can tell by the last text messages it seemed fine.

You met your match in terms of mental illness. Go get her buddy, this is your only chance to get someone like her. Find her somehow

 

[FoolYoungHi]

Probably didn't want to hurt your feelings. Probably thought you were soft and boring tbh. When I was younger I was less confident and chicks would always be super nice to me but block me anyways lol even after a date. They were super nice until we went our seperate ways and she had time to reflect and then boom blocked, she moved on and it was over.

I notice when they know you are confident they will say even harsh stuff to you and will be more honest with you because they know you can handle it. The softies get conned and lied to lol

 

[superpsycho]

I’m going to try and shorten this as much as possible for everyone’s TikTok ruined attention spans

Saturday I met a girl on bumble who was immensely beautiful, drop dead gorgeous. And in fact she messaged me first, she was flirting relentlessly to the point it seemed too good to be true. So I asked for her insta to see if she was real, to my surprise she was and she was still super flirty. I ended up asking her out and we went out on Tuesday. The date goes incredibly, she was extremely flirty, super touchy and complimenting me the whole date. Infact she even said I looked like Damon from Vampire Diaries who is played by Ian Somerhalder, I couldn’t have asked for a better complement. When we were playing pool she said “if I get this ball in will I get a kiss on the cheek”, just being super flirty right. Later on in the date she even said “I wonder what our kids will look like”. She asked for a second date and we agreed we’d figure out what to do later. Anyways the date ends well as I get off at my stop and we kiss, awkwardly did hit my head on the ceiling of the train (6’2 btw) and I had to bend down to kiss her as she was only 5’2. She ends up messaging me first saying “hope you get home safe ”, and I practically say the same and say “had a great time with you today” and she replied with “same here!! Your eyes were so dreamy and you were so cute”. We end up chatting a bit throughout the night and then comes today. She messages me in the morning and we send a couple messages back and forth just talking about music but we were both busy, her with work and me with uni so not like we could have a full convo. Anyways I’ve already mentioned before in other threads but I have severe Borderline Personality Disorder so the whole day I was extremely paranoid about her abandoning me, to the point I almost passed out on the train coming back from uni. I broke down in tears at the gym and had to leave because the feof abandonment was overwhelming. Well guess what, my paranoid self goes to check my following and I notice that I’m missing a follower, it was her. I was blocked. I fell to the floor and started weeping, had a complete mental breakdown and was considering roping or at the very least self harming. I luckily had the self control to call my mum and she came in a rush with my sister and they helped calm me down. Was considering going back the the psychiatric ward again but I’m doing a fair bit better now.
Why do these things need to happen to me. I have no hope. She told me she had one body and had only been in one relationship and that was the only guy she kissed too. Probably bullshit tho.
I included some pictures of the chat to assist with the story.
Btw: The first picture is the most recent messages before getting block. The other were her messaging me after the date.

 

[Gonthar]

Where exactly did she block you? On Instagram?
What about her phone? You do have her number, just call her....

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Probably didn't want to hurt your feelings. Probably thought you were soft and boring tbh. When I was younger I was less confident and chicks would always be super nice to me but block me anyways lol even after a date. They were super nice until we went our seperate ways and she had time to reflect and then boom blocked, she moved on and it was over.

I notice when they know you are confident they will say even harsh stuff to you and will be more honest with you because they know you can handle it. The softies get conned and lied to lol

Yea but why would she complement and flirt with me after the date. Why suggest a second date not only on the date but on text afterwards which I didn’t attach an image of. She was laughing and constantly touchy with me.

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Where exactly did she block you? On Instagram?
What about her phone? You do have her number, just call her....

Nah I never asked for her number, just on instagram

 

[Gonthar]

Nah I never asked for her number, just on instagram

Lol, you need to ask for several different types of contacts, otherwise they can just block you, you also mentioned you took the train together, did you escort her to her place, do you know where she lives?

 

[Debetro]

Not good looking enough
She lied to you

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Lol, you need to ask for several different types of contacts, otherwise they can just block you, you also mentioned you took the train together, did you escort her to her place, do you know where she lives?

I got off first lol

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Not good looking enough
She lied to you

Thanks I’m gonna cut myself, I’ll post a picture of when I’m done

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Not good looking enough
She lied to you

Could have gone deeper and believe me I tried but unfortunately all I had was a pair of scissors lying around. Bummer.

 

[Gonthar]

I got off first lol

Well, didn't you ask her first where she lives, I mean I went on dozens of dates with girls and I would usually talk with them about where they live, where they work or study, their favorite bars, hangout spots, etc., I could easily track any one of them after that if I wanted to, even without knowing their social media, phone number, etc., but I never had to, since I was never really ghosted without any explanation.

 

[911MrSuicidal]

Well, didn't you ask her first where she lives, I mean I went on dozens of dates with girls and I would usually talk with them about where they live, where they work or study, their favorite bars, hangout spots, etc., I could easily track any one of them after that if I wanted to, even without knowing their social media, phone number, etc., but I never had to, since I was never really ghosted without any explanation.

I know her suburb but nothing further than that

 

[DarkAscender]

Where exactly did she block you? On Instagram?
What about her phone? You do have her number, just call her....

Not a good idea to call a girl that blocked u bro.
She's clearly no longer interested, dude gotta move on.

 

[haramzada]

look at the difference between first few messages and the conversation u were having before she blocked u lol she got bored there wasn't anything to talk about

 

[Gonthar]

Not a good idea to call a girl that blocked u bro.
She's clearly no longer interested, dude gotta move on.

It's to get closure, to find out what happened...

 

[DarkAscender]

look at the difference between first few messages and the conversation u were having before she blocked u lol she got bored there wasn't anything to talk about

Girls tend to text dry ngl

 

[911MrSuicidal]

look at the difference between first few messages and the conversation u were having before she blocked u lol she got bored there wasn't anything to talk about

Well she even pointed out on the date that I don’t text much and we kinda laughed about it. Flowed much more in person. Doesn’t make sense to just block someone because the text messages got dry for a little bit. Besides she said she wanted a second date, she said it not me.

 

[haramzada]

Well she even pointed out on the date that I don’t text much and we kinda laughed about it. Flowed much more in person. Doesn’t make sense to just block someone because the text messages got dry for a little bit. Besides she said she wanted a second date, she said it not me.

im not just saying that about texts im saying that she got bored of you and girls lie all the time u can't take everything they say srsly

 

[911MrSuicidal]

im not just saying that about texts im saying that she got bored of you and girls lie all the time u can't take everything they say srsly

Did you read what she was saying on the date in my paragraph though. It just doesn’t make sense.

 

[Gonthar]

Well she even pointed out on the date that I don’t text much and we kinda laughed about it. Flowed much more in person. Doesn’t make sense to just block someone because the text messages got dry for a little bit. Besides she said she wanted a second date, she said it not me.

Just make another Instagram account and contact her from there...

 

[FoolYoungHi]

Dont cut yourself bro. I got lied to and finessed so much in the past eventually itll click

 

[|Tyler]

Much love from one mentalcel to another

I have issues getting into relationships too because I get attacthed easily and if I ever feel like something is going wrong I block them instantly and then unblock them which spirals a whole ass session about why I'm sorry.

 

[Vermilioncore]

Look how he go From 6psl to 8psl within 1 second

 

[Alias!]

I’m going to try and shorten this as much as possible for everyone’s TikTok ruined attention spans.
Saturday I met a girl on bumble who was immensely beautiful, drop dead gorgeous. And in fact she messaged me first, she was flirting relentlessly to the point it seemed too good to be true. So I asked for her insta to see if she was real, to my surprise she was and she was still super flirty. I ended up asking her out and we went out on Tuesday. The date goes incredibly, she was extremely flirty, super touchy and complimenting me the whole date. Infact she even said I looked like Damon from Vampire Diaries who is played by Ian Somerhalder, I couldn’t have asked for a better complement. When we were playing pool she said “if I get this ball in will I get a kiss on the cheek”, just being super flirty right. Later on in the date she even said “I wonder what our kids will look like”. She asked for a second date and we agreed we’d figure out what to do later. Anyways the date ends well as I get off at my stop and we kiss, awkwardly did hit my head on the ceiling of the train (6’2 btw) and I had to bend down to kiss her as she was only 5’2. She ends up messaging me first saying “hope you get home safe ”, and I practically say the same and say “had a great time with you today” and she replied with “same here!! Your eyes were so dreamy and you were so cute”. We end up chatting a bit throughout the night and then comes today. She messages me in the morning and we send a couple messages back and forth just talking about music but we were both busy, her with work and me with uni so not like we could have a full convo. Anyways I’ve already mentioned before in other threads but I have severe Borderline Personality Disorder so the whole day I was extremely paranoid about her abandoning me, to the point I almost passed out on the train coming back from uni. I broke down in tears at the gym and had to leave because the feof abandonment was overwhelming. Well guess what, my paranoid self goes to check my following and I notice that I’m missing a follower, it was her. I was blocked. I fell to the floor and started weeping, had a complete mental breakdown and was considering roping or at the very least self harming. I luckily had the self control to call my mum and she came in a rush with my sister and they helped calm me down. Was considering going back the the psychiatric ward again but I’m doing a fair bit better now.
Why do these things need to happen to me. I have no hope. She told me she had one body and had only been in one relationship and that was the only guy she kissed too. Probably bullshit tho.
I included some pictures of the chat to assist with the story.
Btw: The first picture is the most recent messages before getting block. The other were her messaging me after the date.

Don’t worry the first rejection is just the warmup.

 

[911MrSuicidal]

guys found her on Facebook, she had a boyfriend already…

 

[oxymoron]

guys found her on Facebook, she had a boyfriend already…

everything maybe made sense? lol