Eärendil
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The Male Loneliness Epidemic is most definitely a thing, BUT the issue is that men are targeting the wrong people as the cause.
No, women aren't responsible, and there's nothing like a "sex market" that incels love to believe in.
The REAL REASON IS MEN THEMSELVES
Specifically the obsolete patriarchal expectations that taught a generation of men that they shouldn't show emotion, or check in on their fellow men, or express themselves in any way that's remotely conventionally feminine.
This has embittered a massive portion of men who have spent their whole lives believing that if they followed a set of rules they'd eventually find a woman, without being taught that WOMEN AREN'T A MONOLITH. They are highly variable individuals with their own preferences and turnoffs, and the fact that their "dream woman" hasn't instantly swooned for them for following these rules confuses and upsets them, and this causes a shifting of the blame onto women. In their minds, they did everything they were told to, they played by the rules, but they're being denied their "prize", yet another harmful myth propagated by toxic masculinity.
So yes, there is an overwhelming majority of lonely men. Men who're confused and frustrated and (although they won't mention it) scared, because they simply don't understand why they're wrong. And it certainly doesn't help that Red Pill parasites and podcasters are leeching off their vulnerability and using it to stoke their fire for their own profit.
If you're one of those men who believe that they'll never find someone and don't understand why, trust me when I say that I see you, and I believe you. BUT WOMEN ARE NOT THE PROBLEM, THE MEN THAT FORCED YOU TO BE "MASCULINE, RUGGED, REAL" MEN ARE.
A REAL man isn't someone who hides their feelings and mocks others for not reaching their impossible standards, a real man is someone who accepts and embraces his emotions. He should be in tune with his emotions, builds upon his strengths and works on his flaws. A REAL MAN IS NOT A BRICK WALL THAT CRUMBLES AGAINST RESISTANCE, A REAL MAN IS A WILLOW TREE THAT BENDS WITH THE WIND AND LEARNS TO BE STRONGER AND MORE GENTLE.
This is my view on the whole situation, and I think the more sane incels will agree with some of these points it they really give it some thought. I'd love to hear your views on it, whether you agree/disagree and why. Life's all about constantly growing, and I'd love to learn if I'm wrong about something and work on it.
@greycel @Lonenely sigma @wollet2 @autistic_tendencies @Debetro
No, women aren't responsible, and there's nothing like a "sex market" that incels love to believe in.
The REAL REASON IS MEN THEMSELVES
Specifically the obsolete patriarchal expectations that taught a generation of men that they shouldn't show emotion, or check in on their fellow men, or express themselves in any way that's remotely conventionally feminine.
This has embittered a massive portion of men who have spent their whole lives believing that if they followed a set of rules they'd eventually find a woman, without being taught that WOMEN AREN'T A MONOLITH. They are highly variable individuals with their own preferences and turnoffs, and the fact that their "dream woman" hasn't instantly swooned for them for following these rules confuses and upsets them, and this causes a shifting of the blame onto women. In their minds, they did everything they were told to, they played by the rules, but they're being denied their "prize", yet another harmful myth propagated by toxic masculinity.
So yes, there is an overwhelming majority of lonely men. Men who're confused and frustrated and (although they won't mention it) scared, because they simply don't understand why they're wrong. And it certainly doesn't help that Red Pill parasites and podcasters are leeching off their vulnerability and using it to stoke their fire for their own profit.
If you're one of those men who believe that they'll never find someone and don't understand why, trust me when I say that I see you, and I believe you. BUT WOMEN ARE NOT THE PROBLEM, THE MEN THAT FORCED YOU TO BE "MASCULINE, RUGGED, REAL" MEN ARE.
A REAL man isn't someone who hides their feelings and mocks others for not reaching their impossible standards, a real man is someone who accepts and embraces his emotions. He should be in tune with his emotions, builds upon his strengths and works on his flaws. A REAL MAN IS NOT A BRICK WALL THAT CRUMBLES AGAINST RESISTANCE, A REAL MAN IS A WILLOW TREE THAT BENDS WITH THE WIND AND LEARNS TO BE STRONGER AND MORE GENTLE.
This is my view on the whole situation, and I think the more sane incels will agree with some of these points it they really give it some thought. I'd love to hear your views on it, whether you agree/disagree and why. Life's all about constantly growing, and I'd love to learn if I'm wrong about something and work on it.
@greycel @Lonenely sigma @wollet2 @autistic_tendencies @Debetro
