any former abused dog found any way to fix self-pity, low confidence behavior.

[SharpOrange]

this is me some guys and gals told me i appear as if i lack confidence JFL how do they know apparently my facial expression and the way i talk are clear giveaway that i am social sperg.

idk how to look or vibe in a room, i just stay silent and my voice is like bitch too,

what can i do?

I self-sabotage and pity myself, and I have found a comfort zone in being an incel. It has started to boost my ego, as many guys are not incels. It feels like I am different. I know it sounds retarded, but it is like the notes from an underground guy. I make myself proud for being aware of female nature and how shallow that is, and virtuous in the fact that I will not submit to this society.
I have also developed a humiliation fetish after being rejected by girls, as now if I don’t get any humiliation as a response, I don’t feel good. It is a form of attention. Earlier, I used to take it on myself that I am a failure, but now it is my comfort zone. The problem will start if any female accepts my proposal; it has never happened to me, and it may shock my nervous system as to how to respond to this. I have become used to being rejected and humiliated. I know it sounds retarded, but it has been my life experience.

 

[nuisance]

yea i was going to kill myself in 2023 I had a gun to my head and then I justs said fuck it and I dont give a shit anymore.

Sometimes you need to hit rock bottom then you don't care about shit or what anyone thinks of you because nothing matters

 

[2025cel]

Dude abused dog hits different ye know, Abused dawg

 

[knightpilled]

Dude abused dog hits different ye know, Abused dawg

whatever this means

 

[Schizotypalcel]

once a abused dog you always will be, best bet is stop trying so hard to be what u aren't an pray it gets better in time with practice of being social.

 

[PeakIncels]

whatever this means

he's probably making fun of you, but I'm not sure, the guy is cool tbh, so the second option might be he said random shit

 

[StarvedEpi]

GSP mindset

 

[knightpilled]

he's probably making fun of you, but I'm not sure, the guy is cool tbh, so the second option might be he said random shit

im not the one who made the thread also nice pfp

 

[PeakIncels]

im not the one who made the thread also nice pfp

ty

 

[esoterik]

GSP mindset

ideal mindset

 

[mogtivism]

this is me some guys and gals told me i appear as if i lack confidence JFL how do they know apparently my facial expression and the way i talk are clear giveaway that i am social sperg.

idk how to look or vibe in a room, i just stay silent and my voice is like bitch too,

what can i do?

I self-sabotage and pity myself, and I have found a comfort zone in being an incel. It has started to boost my ego, as many guys are not incels. It feels like I am different. I know it sounds retarded, but it is like the notes from an underground guy. I make myself proud for being aware of female nature and how shallow that is, and virtuous in the fact that I will not submit to this society.
I have also developed a humiliation fetish after being rejected by girls, as now if I don’t get any humiliation as a response, I don’t feel good. It is a form of attention. Earlier, I used to take it on myself that I am a failure, but now it is my comfort zone. The problem will start if any female accepts my proposal; it has never happened to me, and it may shock my nervous system as to how to respond to this. I have become used to being rejected and humiliated. I know it sounds retarded, but it has been my life experience.

Improve your looks and that will improve your confidence

 

[SharpOrange]

yea i was going to kill myself in 2023 I had a gun to my head and then I justs said fuck it and I dont give a shit anymore.

Sometimes you need to hit rock bottom then you don't care about shit or what anyone thinks of you because nothing matters

"When the fool learns the Way, He laughs at it..." - Lao Tzu​

once a abused dog you always will be, best bet is stop trying so hard to be what u aren't an pray it gets better in time with practice of being social.

how can i go beyond this.

Dude abused dog hits different ye know, Abused dawg

i tried being social with niggas at my gym but they got to know i am autist after i talked to them. i think we just vibe with some and they become friends. and problem is that you can't extrapolate or expand social circle via gym only, they are built only for gym and stay in gym.

 

[SharpOrange]

Improve your looks and that will improve your confidence

i did all the softmaxxing earlier i had horrible acne now skin is good, go to gym 6x week.
but internally i am the same old dog

 

[Krisis]

some guys and gals told me i appear as if i lack confidence

I feel like confidence is something that you have to acquire. You can't really develop it forcefully. If they're telling you this to your face, it could be a good thing, actually, if they are doing so out of compassion.

You have to work on the self-love part. You're too far deep into this whole identity that you've crafted centered around rejection, as you've attested to.

It's going to take a great deal of effort and time, but you're going to have to change, fundamentally, how you view yourself. Be more social, introspect, be kinder to yourself, etc., and most importantly, put an end to this process of self-punishment. You are worth the struggle.