Thinking ur dexter Morgan is one of my favorites
You won't forever be alone. You may not experience true love but many people have the fear of being alone. Having no partner pushes them to have a relationship.
I started watching Dexter and ngl it's goated
great so someone who wants to settle will find me
Correct
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I'm working out but that has also become so monotonous
Dont constantly remind urself your alone. Have fantasies of friends and girls. What I do is whenever I wake up I pretend there is a girl next to me and immerse myself in that fantasy and I constantly talk to myself throughout the day pretending Im talking to friends
dude I'm not trying to become a fucking psycho
I did that shit with my ex and it'll just make u more desperate and sad
roping is the only option then
how
I used to talk alone for hours pretending my ex was next to me no matter the situation and it just made me more desperate about her plus its really pathetic and weird if someone sees that shit
yeah I have been constantly getting stares in public from talking to myself like some fucking schizo
Glad to know im not the only crazy mf who does this
it is so over for us niggasGlad to know im not the only crazy mf who does this
Lol the amount of times people caught me talking to myself like a fucking crazy psycho is insane, I barely have any friends and I dont have any social skills and khhv, so I always talk to myself and even have discussions and arguments with myself, its horrid tbh
I think this is pathetic and would just make him feel more depressed, thats not being any different from the beta cuck goys
exactly
this is so similar to me, every day I walk to school and get caught talking to myself so much
Yes this is more common than you think. I hate that I do it though.
That's the thing, sometimes I love to be alone and other times I'd love to have someone.
You just don't wana feel lonely
yeah, being alone and lonely are not the same
Semen retention is law
I was thinking about this because I was feeling so lost these days and I need something to calm me down. Do I just sit down, close my eyes and focus on my breathing? Is that how it works?
Sit in a chair with your back straight and neck straight. Put your hands in your lap and relax your shoulders while keeping good posture. Take in 3-4 deep breaths. In, hold for 3-4 seconds, out then wait for 3-4 seconds before the next. After this just start breathing normally. Focus on your breath, the rising and falling of your chest or the air entering and leaving your nose. Then simply observe whatever thoughts, feelings or emotions arise. Don't judge them or react to them, simply observe them without a reaction. When you notice yourself getting lost in thought or you notice a thought come in, come back to your breath. Try doing this for 5 minutes, then each time increase by a minute. When you get to an hour eventually you will feel like a completely different person. It might feel uncomfortable at first but it's a practice and you get better at it with time. You might notice your mind is "chaotic" with thoughts coming and coming rapidly. Just keep trying and coming back to your breath.
Ty, I'll absolutely try this. My mind is really fucked because of my past mistakes and even thought I always tell myself that those mistakes cannot be changed and they were just a lesson for me for some reason I still can't move on from them.
This practice should help you cope with that. Any memory that pops up in your conscious awareness is just an illusion anyway. It's not actually real, like how your expectations of the future aren't real and are just imaginative thoughts. The only thing we truly have is the present moment, and even that is ultimately just an illusion. Gl on your journey bro.
Ty, you know the more I think about it, the more I realise that a girl wouldn't solve the underlying issues and conflicting thoughts I have. I didn't bother with girls when they reached out to me because I was so indecisive and even insecure. Maybe all the things I'm writing is just cope, but the thing that I need to fix right now is how I think, how I perceive everything around me and how I react to said things.
Yeah man you can't really rely on external things like women, material possessions, drugs, etc. to achieve a lasting sense of peace and happiness. That's something that comes internally. After having done this meditative practice for a few years now, i've noticed I am way more emotionally stable and calm. Things don't really bother me anymore. Just think about it. Reacting to a situation out of your control in a negative manner won't fix it anyway. Get broken up with by a woman? Get ghosted by a woman? Just take a deep breath, and feel those emotions, they're just feelings anyway. Women come and go after all. And this all may sound like cope but in this life there are good copes and bad ones. Everyone's gotta cope in some way in this day and age.
is it over for me
