Any way to perma cure social anxiety?

[Deleted member 29250]

Alcohol/ phenibut makes me feel like a god sometimes but the side effects are bad and it's very temporary.
Anything I can do other than shooting myself in the head and hoping the beta cuck part of it gets btfo?

 

[italiangigaChad]

how old are you?

 

[Deleted member 29250]

how old are you?

22

 

[Member since 2022]

yes, depression... you won't give a single fuck approaching / talking to someone because you just don't care about anything.. even if tomorrow you would get hit by car Y O U D O N T G I V E A F U CK

 

[Deleted member 29250]

22

Feels weird typing that. I still feel like i'm 17, wtf

 

[Deleted member 29250]

yes, depression... you won't give a single fuck approaching / talking to someone because you just don't care about anything.. even if tomorrow you would get hit by car Y O U D O N T G I V E A F U CK

I'm depressed and even getting out of bed takes a huge amount of energy. But i'm still hypersensitive to what people think of me

 

[italiangigaChad]

22

you just have to go out and socialise to a point, only true way to get rid of it

 

[Member since 2022]

I'm depressed and even getting out of bed takes a huge amount of energy. But i'm still hypersensitive to what people think of me

Ok, i am sorry but people dont give a shit about you. i dont give a shit about you. you dont give a shit about me. the only people that truly care about you or should is your family... outside of that NOBODY FUCKING CARES YOU WONT SEE THEM IN 2 YEARS... its literally all just mindset.. there is no better cure than just actually putting yourself out there into these situations

 

[Deleted member 29250]

you just have to go out and socialise to a point, only true way to get rid of it

I do tbh. I'm only ever somewhat okay at bars/ clubs because i'm drunk. But still aspie and anxious. When i'm not drunk i'm a stuttering fag

 

[Deleted member 29250]

Ok, i am sorry but people dont give a shit about you. i dont give a shit about you. you dont give a shit about me. the only people that truly care about you or should is your family... outside of that NOBODY FUCKING CARES YOU WONT SEE THEM IN 2 YEARS... its literally all just mindset.. there is no better cure than just actually putting yourself out there into these situations

Idk, it seems like people see me as an easy target sometimes. They definitely notice me and I don't like that. And I know it doesn't really matter but that's just how I am. I have a low cringe tolerance and I always feel like i'm cringe.

 

[applesrgreat]

Alcohol/ phenibut makes me feel like a god sometimes but the side effects are bad and it's very temporary.
Anything I can do other than shooting myself in the head and hoping the beta cuck part of it gets btfo?

just become THE man

 

[sp3ll]

(for educational purposes only) mescaline is one of the best psychedelics from what I've read and can cure social anxiety from what I've heard literally rewiring your whole brain, but it's also a hefty bet which can put you in severe anxiety and depression for months which is just what happened to me

 

[Deleted member 27730]

Alcohol/ phenibut makes me feel like a god sometimes but the side effects are bad and it's very temporary.
Anything I can do other than shooting myself in the head and hoping the beta cuck part of it gets btfo?

exposure therapy. voluntarily confronting the anxiety is the only real way to get rid of it. if you give in to resistance it only strengthens the social anxiety

 

[The Grinch]

Yes but you won’t like the answer

The answer; Just touch grass, bro

 

[Deleted member 29250]

Yes but you won’t like the answer

The answer; Just touch grass, bro

I tried. I tried a lot. Didn't really work.

 

[cytoplasm]

Roids?

 

[The Grinch]

I tried. I tried a lot. Didn't really work.

Did you really try? I mean did you just go outside for a quick walk at midnight or did you actually face your fears and went into situations that actually require a lot of effort and overcoming for you?

 

[Deleted member 29250]

Did you really try? I mean did you just go outside for a quick walk at midnight or did you actually face your fears and went into situations that actually require a lot of effort and overcoming for you?

I'm barcelling a lot now that i'm in college. I talk to people including femoids, but i'm the same awkward, aspie mess.

 

[The Grinch]

I'm barcelling a lot now that i'm in college. I talk to people including femoids, but i'm the same awkward, aspie mess.

You need to understand that social anxiety is not normal, you were not born with it, it’s not in your genes, you may experienced some trauma and didn’t heal from it

 

[Deleted member 17595]

rope

 

[Foreverbrad]

Looksmax harder so you can have better outcomes and eventually you’ll adapt to getting consistent positive feedback

 

[Deleted member 29250]

Looksmax harder so you can have better outcomes and eventually you’ll adapt to getting consistent positive feedback

I already get pretty consistent positive feedback. Doesn't change anything. I sti hate myself.

 

[Brootal]

social anxiety is, at leats to some degree, a result of negative feedback loops.
become chad->get validation->become extroverted

 

[Deleted member 29250]

social anxiety is, at leats to some degree, a result of negative feedback loops.
become chad->get validation->become extroverted

I get lots of validation, including random strangers (including foids) coming up to tell me randomly that i'm hot. I still hate myself and can't stand showing my face.

 

[Deleted member 1901]

yes, depression... you won't give a single fuck approaching / talking to someone because you just don't care about anything.. even if tomorrow you would get hit by car Y O U D O N T G I V E A F U CK

That’s not really how depression works.

 

[redfacccee]

I'm depressed and even getting out of bed takes a huge amount of energy. But i'm still hypersensitive to what people think of me

you don't have confidence, probably because you're not good at anything.

 

[Deleted member 23804]

cocaine