LongForgotten
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About a month ago my narcissistic mother told friends of her about private matters of mine that I revealed to her in private (Argument with my ex, who still had to pay me back 240 euros and I threatened to call the cops on her if she wouldnt pay back since she refused to).
Not only did she inform them, but like a complete autist she would let these friends call me by her phone as if they had anything to do with it to try and give me help. I was furious people that had nothing to do with it were getting involved.
When I informed my mom that I found it unacceptable she was 1. Telling private matters to people I don't know that well whom had nothing to do with it and 2. Involving them into my personal life and problems like she couldn't contact me herself, she simply acted like I was crazy and could only see how it was wrong to indirectly let them call me on her phone(?!). So since a month I have blocked her and when the plan was proposed to have christmas together in the family group, I said I wont be attending and left the group.
It is so painful sitting all alone at home, she hasn't even reached out. But atleast I now have enough clarification to completely remove her from my life forever.
Not only did she inform them, but like a complete autist she would let these friends call me by her phone as if they had anything to do with it to try and give me help. I was furious people that had nothing to do with it were getting involved.
When I informed my mom that I found it unacceptable she was 1. Telling private matters to people I don't know that well whom had nothing to do with it and 2. Involving them into my personal life and problems like she couldn't contact me herself, she simply acted like I was crazy and could only see how it was wrong to indirectly let them call me on her phone(?!). So since a month I have blocked her and when the plan was proposed to have christmas together in the family group, I said I wont be attending and left the group.
It is so painful sitting all alone at home, she hasn't even reached out. But atleast I now have enough clarification to completely remove her from my life forever.
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