Anyone else feel social anxiety with normies?

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Honestly just the thought of hanging out with normies feels weird to me. Every time I see them post online that they’re partying or something I automatically feel like they would make fun of me and exclude me if I was there although a lot of them are skinny af. Even tho I’m in good shape and 6’1” (with no shoes on) I feel this way.

I think this is because I used to be excluded when I was in grade school and somewhat in high school (high school there were no actual cool kids and no partying either).

Can anyone else relate? I’m 20 btw
 
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Same man.. Im 20 but my life ended at 15 since i joined highschool and the passive bullying began
 
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same
 
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Is that legit? If it is then that gives me hope. Thanks bro
Herman drago also got bullied for the same reason. Rare to find these chads but they exist.
 
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no but i can’t keep up with extended conversations
 
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Cavill might too. Maybe he’s still a gamer bc he grew up fat and that influenced his development
Cavill was fat yes I forgot about him he was obese I'm pretty sure
 
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Is that legit? If it is then that gives me hope. Thanks bro
Massive cope. This guy was fat and got bullied but was the most NT on a dating show filled with Chads:

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Honestly just the thought of hanging out with normies feels weird to me. Every time I see them post online that they’re partying or something I automatically feel like they would make fun of me and exclude me if I was there although a lot of them are skinny af. Even tho I’m in good shape and 6’1” (with no shoes on) I feel this way.

I think this is because I used to be excluded when I was in grade school and somewhat in high school (high school there were no actual cool kids and no partying either).

Can anyone else relate? I’m 20 btw
No, they feel social anxiety around me.
 
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Big cope. See above.
Ok exception to the rule! If the best looking man ever at one point has aspie tendencies that says something, he mogs that love island guy back to the 8th dimension in looks and he probably gets a shit ton of validation every single day from his looks even now that he is old because he is still in the 99th percentile of men in status, money, and on top of that looks.

Doesn't prove anything I said wrong, most people who got bullied will have aspie unconfident tendencies jfl. You just linked some slayer that tries to hide it and probably still has some innate damage because those years are critical, you want to be treated properly it's unavoidable he is still fucked somewhere in his mind.
 
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Ok exception to the rule! If the best looking man ever at one point has aspie tendencies that says something, he mogs that love island guy back to the 8th dimension in looks and he probably gets a shit ton of validation every single day from his looks even now that he is old because he is still in the 99th percentile of men in status, money, and on top of that looks.

Doesn't prove anything I said wrong, most people who got bullied will have aspie unconfident tendencies jfl. You just linked some slayer that tries to hide it and probably still has some innate damage because those years are critical, you want to be treated properly it's unavoidable he is still fucked somewhere in his mind.
If it's so easy to hide, then we should all hide it. Personality doesn't work like that. You can't tell an aspie to pretend to be confident.
 
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If it's so easy to hide, then we should all hide it. Personality doesn't work like that. You can't tell an aspie to pretend to be confident.
Chad can hide it since he somewhat repaired it (granted gandy still can't repair it fully he admits himself) from his transformation and getting validation, it does work like that lol. You can repair mental damage somewhat from being socially rejected if you end up getting validation everywhere u go and positive experiencies cus of looks.

I don't mean literally clinically aspie, i mean resembling that behaviour because of being socially rejected jfl, Gandy probably doesn't have autism LITERALLY but he has similar tendencies: struggling with eye contact, shy behaviour, unconfident fidgeting.

A subhuman aspie can't hide it since he doesn't have the looks especially nor the status or money that your guy has. Subhuman that got bullied and still gets rejected won't be hiding it, same with a socially retarded subhuman that got rejected not clinically diagnosed with autism, just shy, unconfident behaviour.

You are coping so fucking hard if you think Adam Collard doesn't still think about how shit people treated him, he is probably blackpilled himself just like Hernan Drago. You will just never see it since it's not something he displays in public jfl.
 
Chad can hide it since he somewhat repaired it (granted gandy still can't repair it fully he admits himself) from his transformation and getting validation, it does work like that lol. You can repair mental damage somewhat from being socially rejected if you end up getting validation everywhere u go and positive experiencies cus of looks.

I don't mean literally clinically aspie, i mean resembling that behaviour because of being socially rejected jfl, Gandy probably doesn't have autism LITERALLY but he has similar tendencies: struggling with eye contact, shy behaviour, unconfident fidgeting.

A subhuman aspie can't hide it since he doesn't have the looks especially nor the status or money that your guy has. Subhuman that got bullied and still gets rejected won't be hiding it, same with a socially retarded subhuman that got rejected not clinically diagnosed with autism, just shy, unconfident behaviour.

You are coping so fucking hard if you think Adam Collard doesn't still think about how shit people treated him, he is probably blackpilled himself just like Hernan Drago. You will just never see it since it's not something he displays in public jfl.
Cope again. When I was on steroids I would stare right into girls' souls when talking to them, start conversations with people, etc. I was completely fixed but after getting rejected by every girl I realized it was my face. If I had truly ascended, there would've been no remnants of being aspie left in me.
 
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That's why people drink and do other substances at parties. Loosens you up and social inhibitions/anxieties disappear. Seriously could go from a guy who would never be caught dead dancing/singing in front of strangers/friends to that very guy after a few drinks, becoming the life of the party.

So many people have social anxiety and all this other shit because they live on their phones and as a result are bad at socializing irl. You dont have long breaks to make jokes, can stutter and say weird shit irl. Over text you can read back what your gonna say, think about jokes etc. Best way to get better is exposure, do it more a d you get better. That's why it's called social skills, its developed.
 
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Cope again. When I was on steroids I would stare right into girls' souls when talking to them, start conversations with people, etc. I was completely fixed but after getting rejected by every girl I realized it was my face. If I had truly ascended, there would've been no remnants of being aspie left in me.
Cope again, steroids aren't fucking making you good looking you retard. You need a good face you absolute idiot, confident behaviour is trying hard if you are a subhuman roided gorilla. You never ascended u just got on roids, confident behaviour doesn't matter when u look like a subhuman ogre.

Muh muscles don't matter when u are a retarded subhuman jfl. I'm just pointing out an observation, that looks still may not fully recuperate you from mental damage of being rejected those years like Gandy, Drago and even Cavill to some extent (less than both of those) jfl.
 
That's why people drink and do other substances at parties. Loosens you up and social inhibitions/anxieties disappear. Seriously could go from a guy who would never be caught dead dancing/singing in front of strangers/friends to that very guy after a few drinks, becoming the life of the party.

So many people have social anxiety and all this other shit because they live on their phones and as a result are bad at socializing irl. You dont have long breaks to make jokes, can stutter and say weird shit irl. Over text you can read back what your gonna said, think about it etc. Best way to get better is exposure, do it more a d you get better. That's why it's called social skills, its developed.
Yeah you are supposed to party and learn those skills in high school, not college. If you were a reject in those years you are stunted in several ways. Which comes from being somewhat decent looking, which will get you good confidence and then that will translate for the rest of your life
 
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Yeah you are supposed to party and learn those skills in high school, not college. If you were a reject in those years you are stunted in several ways. Which comes from being somewhat decent looking, which will get you good confidence and then that will translate for the rest of your life
Still possible to recover in college yrs. Thats sort of like your last chance to develop a social circle if you dont already have one.
 
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Cope again, steroids aren't fucking making you good looking you retard. You need a good face you absolute idiot, confident behaviour is trying hard if you are a subhuman roided gorilla. You never ascended u just got on roids, confident behaviour doesn't matter when u look like a subhuman ogre.

Muh muscles don't matter when u are a retarded subhuman jfl. I'm just pointing out an observation, that looks still may not fully recuperate you from mental damage of being rejected those years like Gandy, Drago and even Cavill to some extent (less than both of those) jfl.
That was my entire point. I had all the confidence in the world from my boys telling me I look ripped and having a 6 pack. I was still the same subhuman facially, but just some validation from MEN had me hitting on every girl I saw for weeks.

Now imagine the same situation but instead of being bluepilled and coping with roids, I got multiple surgeries and was 6 PSL. Instead of my guy friends telling me I was ripped, every girl I talked to complimented me on my face and hooked up with some. I would've never found this site and would've completely forgot about my aspie past.
 
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Still possible to recover in college yrs. Thats sort of like your last chance to develop a social circle if you dont already have one.
Ya ofc, but you may still be shunned somewhat since people EXPECT you to be neurotypical and have those from high school, thats what I mean. That's the last chance for sure, most normies don't "make friends" past those years, most people are stuck with the same friends all their life. It's crucial to looksmax before college or during college, you will end up being giga aspie for the rest of ur life if you don't develop there
 
Looks halo everything, doesnt mean hes NT. Have an average guy ask for kisses and say why not etc and he would be a creepy loser.
Massive cope. This guy was fat and got bullied but was the most NT on a dating show filled with Chads:

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That was my entire point. I had all the confidence in the world from my boys telling me I look ripped and having a 6 pack. I was still the same subhuman facially, but just some validation from MEN had me hitting on every girl I saw for weeks.

Now imagine the same situation but instead of being bluepilled and coping with roids, I got multiple surgeries and was 6 PSL. Instead of my guy friends telling me I was ripped, every girl I talked to complimented me on my face and hooked up with some. I would've never found this site and would've completely forgot about my aspie past.
So why even argue with me, not my fault you got into the mgtow redpill cope of roiding jfl. I just said that gandys looks as the best looking man ever still couldn't fix it, same with Drago. Everyone will have mental damage from those years of being a reject, some worse than others, some will be able to hide it with the transformation in looks but still have it in the back of their mind just like...

ADAM COLLARD himself said in an interview "Some images of me surfaced online as a teenager, I was hiding them pretty well haha" he literally was hiding them to not be remembered of those years lol, he still thinks about it and doesn't want to be a doomer about it. Some chads managed to hide it better than others, gandy has no public pics of him before the age of 21.

I should have said FEMALE validation in conjunction to MALE VALIDATION, a mix of both.
 
Looks halo everything, doesnt mean hes NT. Have an average guy ask for kisses and say why not etc and he would be a creepy loser.
Pretty much, he tries to hide aspieness from being a reject all those fuckin years, on top of that he has 6psl looks so he isn't losing either, women will like him either way. He has shown signs of mental damage in an interview where he casually went over the fact he was hiding his teenage pics to not be remembered of those years jfl.
 
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Pretty much, he tries to hide aspieness from being a reject all those fuckin years, on top of that he has 6psl looks so he isn't losing either, women will like him either way. He has shown signs of mental damage in an interview where he casually went over the fact he was hiding his teenage pics to not be remembered of those years jfl.
How did he ascend to male model tier looks? Was it just weightloss covering an amazing base or did he have hardmaxxing done?

Looks like he has fake teeth, might be why he covers teenage photos. Everybody would know hes frauding then desire to breed with/have his Genes diminish.

Real chads(no surgery) were always good looking even as teenagers and kids, even when fat they have good face
 
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How did he ascend to male model tier looks? Was it just weightloss covering an amazing base or did he have hardmaxxing done? Looks like he has fake teeth
no fucking idea, puberty and weight loss? maybe some hardmaxxing somewhere?

Gandy just hit puberty late af and lost weight and same with drago or cavill.
 
I just said that gandys looks as the best looking man ever still couldn't fix it, same with Drago.
Well I somehow completely fixed my personality despite still being subhuman. Just a little validation did all the work.

ADAM COLLARD himself said in an interview "Some images of me surfaced online as a teenager, I was hiding them pretty well haha" he literally was hiding them to not be remembered of those years lol, he still thinks about it and doesn't want to be a doomer about it. Some chads managed to hide it better than others, gandy has no public pics of him before the age of 21.
"not wanting to be reminded of them". They don't want girls to be repulsed by the fact that they haven't always been Chad. I was 2 PSL points lower in high school and a complete reject. I don't even care a few years later. I'm 6'7" 230 lbs and can whoop any of my former bullies' asses. Imagine being the best looking man on the planet. You're low IQ if you think Gandy takes night walks thinking about his high school years.
 
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no fucking idea, puberty and weight loss? maybe some hardmaxxing somewhere?

Gandy just hit puberty late af and lost weight and same with drago or cavill.
Same as Hasan Piker, so many potential Chads are just fat volcels. That's why fat people crying about inability to get girls makes no sense, they could be good looking underneath it all. Just look at @larsanova69 or @MakinItHappen, if you're not gl lean you were never meant to be.
 
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How did he ascend to male model tier looks? Was it just weightloss covering an amazing base or did he have hardmaxxing done?

Looks like he has fake teeth, might be why he covers teenage photos. Everybody would know hes frauding then desire to breed with/have his Genes diminish.

Real chads(no surgery) were always good looking even as teenagers and kids, even when fat they have good face
Gandy's appeal is predicated on the "tall, dark, and handsome" look. He didn't have a beard or tan when he was young. His facial features look exactly the same.
 
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Well I somehow completely fixed my personality despite still being subhuman. Just a little validation did all the work.


"not wanting to be reminded of them". They don't want girls to be repulsed by the fact that they haven't always been Chad. I was 2 PSL points lower in high school and a complete reject. I don't even care a few years later. I'm 6'7" 230 lbs and can whoop any of my former bullies' asses. Imagine being the best looking man on the planet. You're low IQ if you think Gandy takes night walks thinking about his high school years.
Pretty much everybody thats normie tier forgets about high school. Chad will reminisce all the whores they fucked and the yrs of king status and subhumans will remember all the pain and trauma they had to go through + outcast status.
 
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Well I somehow completely fixed my personality despite still being subhuman. Just a little validation did all the work.


"not wanting to be reminded of them". They don't want girls to be repulsed by the fact that they haven't always been Chad. I was 2 PSL points lower in high school and a complete reject. I don't even care a few years later. I'm 6'7" 230 lbs and can whoop any of my former bullies' asses. Imagine being the best looking man on the planet. You're low IQ if you think Gandy takes night walks thinking about his high school years.
Good for you, validation does a lot of things!

OFC not you fucking retard, he doesnt want to remind them that he wasn't always chad and he doesn't want to remember that himself. You're legit retarded if you think gandy isn't mentally damaged and still doesn't think about it from time to time, he is probably mostly over it by now since he is old and just can't be bothered, his looks ascending him repaired some of it not fully, I don't mean taking night walks you are exaggerating what I'm fucking saying. Drago is definitely not over it, nigga was literally crying in an interview when he was looking back at them, chad can hide it better than all you subhumans and repairs it mostly.

Exaggerating my points jfl
 
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Pretty much everybody thats normie tier forgets about high school. Chad will reminisce all the whores they fucked and the yrs of king status and subhumans will remember all the pain and trauma they had to go through + outcast status.
Subhumans that ascend will forget too. Same with Chads. The only people who reminisce about it are people who peaked in high school aka statusmaxxed normies (QBs, star athletes, etc.)
 
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You're legit retarded if you think gandy isn't mentally damaged
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Far from damaged or covering it up. Only remnant of his past is being a feminist liberal cuck.
 
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Pretty much everybody thats normie tier forgets about high school. Chad will reminisce all the whores they fucked and the yrs of king status and subhumans will remember all the pain and trauma they had to go through + outcast status.
Chad will reminisce but if Chad was bullied and rejected most of those formative years he may still have it in the back of his mind, not even close to as much as the subhumans that got bullied though and continued being subhuman throughout their life. That's how I see it, most of those chads are probably blackpilled because they experienced it themselves, they saw a massive increase in how people treated them better because they became 6psl+ cus of puberty, hardmaxxing etc.

Real chads(no surgery) were always good looking even as teenagers and kids, even when fat they have good face

Nah not really, chad as kid doesn't mean anything. Puberty is all that matters to be good looking, you can either have good genetics and ascend there, or descend, or stay the same. It's moreso when this happens, what timeframe it happens so it's on par with your peers not late as fuck when you are nearly graduating and you are still growing and getting voice changes while ur peers are done and fully dimorphic at that age.

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O'pry looks like a subhuman ricecel here JFL.
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Kortajarena as a kid.
 
You will never truly forget you're glory days or trauma from bullying on the other side. Even GSP an established MMA legend with wealth, good looks(despite hair women find him attractive) and status remembers being bullied in school.
 
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You will never truly forget you're glory days or trauma from bullying on the other side. Even GSP an established MMA legend with wealth, good looks(despite hair women find him attractive) and status remembers being bullied in school.
There's a huge difference between having memories and being traumatized or scarred from it.
Chad will reminisce but if Chad was bullied and rejected most of those formative years he may still have it in the back of his mind, not even close to as much as the subhumans that got bullied though and continued being subhuman throughout their life.
This. People who ascend don't even think about it anymore. The only people who blame their entire downward spiral on being bullied in high school are people who are still subhuman after high school.
 

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