Anyone else not have friends?

[Sodoku]

None of my friends that I talk to like to go out with me. Whenever I ask them to go out, it's always that they're busy or just not bothered

I think it's because they can sense that I'm an incel. But the thing is that I tell them we should go out to bars and then go clubbing for potential slays. But none of them are into the idea. So I end up being lonely and just end up rotting all night.

@MoggerGaston TBH I totally understand how you feel when it comes to loneliness. The people you hit up just aren't there for you so you end up doing shit on your own. But the dopamine just doesn't hit the same way. You're doing 'fun' stuff by yourself when in reality you're a fucking loser who has 0 friends and everyone else is staring at you because of it

I just don't understand why it's so hard for men to come together for friendships. It's like we realise we're in all one big competition with one another. This is why I need to start making friends with fellow subhumans, truecels and autists. Because the normies will never be there for you.

Remember that the normies are never there for you

 

[Krisis]

And then once you're up, they suddenly want to hang with you again. Fuck them. Just build yourself up, and never lower yourself for people who don't value you.

 

[LTNUser]

I don't have friends but you can watch my latest NSFW thread

 

[Sodoku]

And then once you're up, they suddenly want to hang with you again. Fuck them. Just build yourself up, and never lower yourself for people who don't value you.

social circle game is LAW. you can ascend all you want but if you have 0 friends, you are an outcast

Where are my fellow UK incels at?

 

[NORDEN SLAVORUM]

I have 1

 

[Sodoku]

I have a theory that looks aren't the issue to today's dating and sexual marketplace but social circle and status. Redpill territory but the common denominator amongst us incels is that we have 0 male friends we can rely on

To truly ascend, we must form relationships with other men

 

[zerotohero]

I have friends, but they are low status like me.

 

[BimaxLaser]

I have a theory that looks aren't the issue to today's dating and sexual marketplace but social circle and status. Redpill territory but the common denominator amongst us incels is that we have 0 male friends we can rely on

To truly ascend, we must form relationships with other men

Real shit mane I got Nobody

 

[Sodoku]

Real shit mane I got Nobody

Just imagine ascending via surgery and still rotting on this forum tbh

@Blackgymmax was a perfect example of this

 

[got.daim]

i've never had IRL friends..
if you're in the UK we can probably meetup, i live in france

 

[Sodoku]

I have friends, but they are low status like me.

It's better to have 'low status' friends than normies

 

[Sodoku]

i've never had IRL friends..
if you're in the UK we can probably meetup, i live in france

I love Paris and French girls, learning French atm. Just came back from France

My best friend is French

 

[zerotohero]

It's better to have 'low status' friends than normies

Why?

 

[got.daim]

I love Paris and French girls, learning French atm. Just came back from France

My best friend is French

how old are you? what part did you goto? french cities are terrible, the rural areas are phenomenal though

 

[Davidproton]

None of my friends that I talk to like to go out with me. Whenever I ask them to go out, it's always that they're busy or just not bothered

I think it's because they can sense that I'm an incel. But the thing is that I tell them we should go out to bars and then go clubbing for potential slays. But none of them are into the idea. So I end up being lonely and just end up rotting all night.

@MoggerGaston TBH I totally understand how you feel when it comes to loneliness. The people you hit up just aren't there for you so you end up doing shit on your own. But the dopamine just doesn't hit the same way. You're doing 'fun' stuff by yourself when in reality you're a fucking loser who has 0 friends and everyone else is staring at you because of it

I just don't understand why it's so hard for men to come together for friendships. It's like we realise we're in all one big competition with one another. This is why I need to start making friends with fellow subhumans, truecels and autists. Because the normies will never be there for you.

Remember that the normies are never there for you

Female social circles are unironically better, as a male either be a jock athlete or consider jumping of a bridge

 

[Sodoku]

Why?

Because you have a true relationship with each other

Every single normie male friendship is fake. We front to each other, we lie about our slays and try to fraud

In fact, we fraud more with men than in front of women. Do you know how gay that it is?

We must reverse this by forming true male friendships, ideally with people of our status. Us incels need to band together

 

[Sodoku]

Female social circles are unironically better, as a male either be a jock athlete or consider jumping of a bridge

TRUE as fuck. Isn't it crazy women are more receptive to friendships than men? We're trying to fuck them, obviously, but when we aren't, it's actually pretty nice

We're not trying to fuck men and yet we struggle to form friendships.

 

[fuxkdakikez]

you don’t have male friends because you probably look like a pussy/soft and your friends don’t like that because it brings down their status.

 

[MoggerGaston]

None of my friends that I talk to like to go out with me. Whenever I ask them to go out, it's always that they're busy or just not bothered

I think it's because they can sense that I'm an incel. But the thing is that I tell them we should go out to bars and then go clubbing for potential slays. But none of them are into the idea. So I end up being lonely and just end up rotting all night.

But do you feel like they do these things without you then? for me it's largely been that my friends were just uncomfortable with going out, going to festivals, going to concerts, going on holidays.
They were friends that wanted little to do other than play videogames.

I've had very little friends I actually vibed with in my life. I liked playing videogames, but I was done with that in my teenage years already. But since I had nobody to do anything else with I was stuck in that lifestyle.

@MoggerGaston TBH I totally understand how you feel when it comes to loneliness. The people you hit up just aren't there for you so you end up doing shit on your own. But the dopamine just doesn't hit the same way. You're doing 'fun' stuff by yourself when in reality you're a fucking loser who has 0 friends and everyone else is staring at you because of it

Yup. It's a very mogger attitude honestly, to just do it alone then. I've been inviting people to go raving with me, clubbing with me, go to festivals with me, go to holidays with me, everything. And the only thing I ever got was 'ehh i dont know, ill let you know later.' and then nothing.
Just low-interest responses or rejections.

So I've been clubbing/raving on my own. Going on holidays on my own. Everything on my own, always.
I just share my holiday/rave/club experiences here on this forum with you guys, for some sort of social-interaction. But it is a very difficult life.
It is way harder to enjoy life on your own than with other people. Yet it seems impossible for me find people I vibe with tbh.

I just don't understand why it's so hard for men to come together for friendships. It's like we realise we're in all one big competition with one another. This is why I need to start making friends with fellow subhumans, truecels and autists. Because the normies will never be there for you.

Remember that the normies are never there for you

I don't know man. Don't know what to do.

Sometimes, but VERY RARELY, I seem to randomly glitch into a normal person's save-file. And I get normie-tier experiences for a couple of hours at a rave or something. But in the end you go home and it all goes back to the same fucked life you always had anyways..

its brutal

 

[Sodoku]

But do you feel like they do these things without you then? for me it's largely been that my friends were just uncomfortable with going out, going to festivals, going to concerts, going on holidays.
They were friends that wanted little to do other than play videogames.

Yes this is exactly it. We just hang out doing the same activities. They don't really like to party / go to the pub / do social stuff. Even when we do hang out, the day ends up finishing so early I go back home to rot on .org

So I've been clubbing/raving on my own. Going on holidays on my own. Everything on my own, always.
I just share my holiday/rave/club experiences here on this forum with you guys, for some sort of social-interaction. But it is a very difficult life.
It is way harder to enjoy life on your own than with other people. Yet it seems impossible for me find people I vibe with tbh.

I agree man. I don't like to do this stuff on my own. But finding people is so hard

if you're by yourself, then you are a social outcast. being alone is almost proof, self-evidence even, that you're a loner. otherwise you would be with friends

nothing screams i have no friends than doing social things by yourself

social circle is law. status is law. the redpillers were right. you aren't shit if you don't have some sort of status in your life. the only way to make friends or to have a social circle or to be invited to things or to have meaningful platonic relationships is to have some sort of status in your life

without that, it's meaningless. life has no purpose if it is not to maximise your social circle

this is what life is all about. this is the purpose of life.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Yes this is exactly it. We just hang out doing the same activities. They don't really like to party / go to the pub / do social stuff. Even when we do hang out, the day ends up finishing so early I go back home to rot on .org

I sometimes used to get so pissed at my friends for this, but I realize it's my own responsibility to find friends that suit me better.
The end result has been that I cut all contact with my old friends, since I was tired of doing things with them I didn't vibe with anymore.
But i've been completely friendless and alone ever since. Can't find other people.

I agree man. I don't like to do this stuff on my own. But finding people is so hard

if you're by yourself, then you are a social outcast. being alone is almost proof, self-evidence even, that you're a loner. otherwise you would be with friends

nothing screams i have no friends than doing social things by yourself

Hmm yeah that is just one aspect, not the most important for me: Dealing with judgement of others.
It's mostly that I find it easier to enjoy something when I can share my feelings/thoughts about it with someone.

Like if I go clubbing alone and see some hot chick I think: 'damnnnn' and that's it.

But with a friend I would go like: 'Fuck dude, look at that chick on the right holy fuck man, her tits.'
And he would make this facial-gesture:

And we would laugh about it together like horny drunk fucks and move on to the next thing. It's just a more entertaining vibe tbh.

social circle is law. status is law. the redpillers were right. you aren't shit if you don't have some sort of status in your life. the only way to make friends or to have a social circle or to be invited to things or to have meaningful platonic relationships is to have some sort of status in your life

without that, it's meaningless. life has no purpose if it is not to maximise your social circle

this is what life is all about. this is the purpose of life.

yeah this is a brutal pill, to make friends, you need to have friends.
To expand your social-circle, you need a social-circle.
and so on and on and on.

where do loners fit in here?