Anyone went from introvert to hyper extrovert?

[robtical]

Anyone?

 

[Greeicy]

Yes me

 

[robtical]

Yes me

How?

 

[Greeicy]

How?

Basically I just decided that I should be social instead of being aspie. I was socially retarded when I first started being outgoing and talking to people but eventually I learned to be more NT. Just try to be low inhib and put yourself out of the comfort zone tbh. I used to blush just for being in the same room as a female lol.

 

[SubhumanCurrycel]

Basically I just decided that I should be social instead of being aspie. I was socially retarded when I first start being outgoing and talking to people but eventually I learned to be more NT. Just try to be low inhib and put yourself out of the comfort zone tbh. I used to blush just for being in the same room as a female lol.

Is NT legit?
like how far would it take someone like me or is it just a waste.

 

[Greeicy]

Is NT legit?
like how far would it take someone like me or is it just a waste.

Legit to escalate things with females. I used to get messaged first on social media and had females try to initiate conversations with me but I never acted upon on it because of high inhib I was. Being NT is legit but only if you aren’t subhuman.

 

[SubhumanCurrycel]

Legit to escalate things with females. I used to get messaged first on social media and had females try to initiate conversations with me but I never acted upon on it because of high inhib I was. Being NT is legit but only if you aren’t subhuman.

Over.

 

[Deleted member 4671]

just dont be high inhib

 

[fukmylyf]

you don't need to be a hyper extrovert to improve socially.

 

[Deleted member 773]

No still introvert

 

[robtical]

Basically I just decided that I should be social instead of being aspie. I was socially retarded when I first started being outgoing and talking to people but eventually I learned to be more NT. Just try to be low inhib and put yourself out of the comfort zone tbh. I used to blush just for being in the same room as a female lol.

How do u keep on talking normally? i run out of things and dont care enough to ask about ppl life cuz it feels cringe

 

[Deleted member 1560]

I am extroverted in forums and introverted in irl

 

[Nisse]

I used to be an extrovert now an introvert

 

[Solidcoin]

How do u keep on talking normally? i run out of things and dont care enough to ask about ppl life cuz it feels cringe

If you've run out of things to say then ask the other person to deliver, there obviously must be a motive for you to carry on the conversation

Think of it as doing a favor. Showing interest in someone whether real or fake brings joy to them, this type of thing is back and forth if you don't want to deliver that type of kindness then so be it. If you want to be manipulative, you can see it as a way to extract something beneficially using longterm investments.

It all depends on your motives, they're what drive us nothing more simple than that

 

[robtical]

If you've run out of things to say then ask the other person to deliver, there obviously must be a motive for you to carry on the conversation

Think of it as doing a favor. Showing interest in someone whether real or fake brings joy to them, this type of thing is back and forth if you don't want to deliver that type of kindness then so be it. If you want to be manipulative, you can see it as a way to extract something beneficially using longterm investments.

It all depends on your motives, they're what drive us nothing more simple than that

What do i ask about if i just wanna fk the girl?

 

[Timelessbrah]

Was introvert until my second year of uni and in the third became more extrovert. Looks odd, but it was due to finally gaining a social circle in college and improving my looks.

 

[Greeicy]

How do u keep on talking normally? i run out of things and dont care enough to ask about ppl life cuz it feels cringe

Like I said I was socially retarded at first and learned through trial and error.

 

[Deleted member 2352]

Yeah.
I went from quiet.
To most confident man around.
And It was awkward sometimew because Obviously its just acting

 

[Deleted member 4209]

Basically I just decided that I should be social instead of being aspie. I was socially retarded when I first started being outgoing and talking to people but eventually I learned to be more NT. Just try to be low inhib and put yourself out of the comfort zone tbh. I used to blush just for being in the same room as a female lol.

i don't see how this is possible. i get this advice all the time to "just put urself out there" but i cannot figure out how ppl do it.

 

[Greeicy]

i don't see how this is possible. i get this advice all the time to "just put urself out there" but i cannot figure out how ppl do it.

It’s basically just dedication tbh. I focused on being more low inhib and through practice I just became low inhib. I had poor social skills at first because it my first time socializing but I learned more and more how to treat others and how to communicate with people through trial and error.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

It’s basically just dedication tbh. I focused on being more low inhib and through practice I just became low inhib. I had poor social skills at first because it my first time socializing but I learned more and more how to treat others and how to communicate with people through trial and error.

well you're a bigger man than i as i will never even get started on that path. i'll be 40 and still kissless hugless conversationless truecel virgin.

 

[Deleted member 5683]

It’s basically just dedication tbh. I focused on being more low inhib and through practice I just became low inhib. I had poor social skills at first because it my first time socializing but I learned more and more how to treat others and how to communicate with people through trial and error.

How old were you when you started becoming more extroverted
Also do you go to parties and get drunk etc

 

[Greeicy]

well you're a bigger man than i as i will never even get started on that path. i'll be 40 and still kissless hugless conversationless truecel virgin.

It was hard at first but not being able to interact with females properly made me frustrated because I used to go red just for standing near one. There really is no other way around it than forcing yourself into becoming low inhib and after some time of interacting with lots of people and making friends, you’ll become NT and not just some socially retarded low inhib guy.

How old were you when you started becoming more extroverted
Also do you go to parties and get drunk etc

I think I started at around 16 y/o. I went to a few parties but I never got drunk obviously cause i was still a minor.